He wasn't trying to hide shyt. He didn't install some clandestine app like KIK or some shyt, he was texting directly from his phone to hers, likely with her real name as the contact.
He acted as a child and THOUGHT as a child. You can tell this from what little snippets of conversation between them we've been exposed to. He was ABSOLUTELY a victim because he was preyed upon - yes, PREYED upon - by a woman who was nearly 15yrs older than him. What fukking business does a whole grown ass adult have soliciting or even accepting offers of sex from a 13 year old CHILD? Most 13 year olds are still going through puberty and their brains are only half way finished developing. They don't even know what the fukk they THINK they're consenting to.
Nothing about this shyt is "complex". I don't give a fukk how much he might have "enjoyed it" or thought he "wanted it", he was a fukking CHILD.
Some of y'all nikkas need to stop this shyt and put an end to this bizarre way of thinking. Idgaf how grown you thought you were at that age, ain't no cold, calculating and self-aware 13yr olds running around out here.
All ur saying in that long ass post... is that he was DUMB.
There are Dumbass 13yr olds. There are dumbass 21yr olds... and im sure we all know some dumb ass 35yr olds...
If u read up and down this thread, ppl are telling you that they were that young having sex with grown ppl, know ppl that young having sex with grown adults... Or what u are seeing the most on here... ppl wishing that there were teachers willing to fukk them at that age....
So im gonna ask u an honest question. What the fukk are you talking about?
Just because you weren't thinking or acting like that or were in an environment where other young ppl didnt, doesnt mean that its not true.
I bolded those 2 parts, because those are the parts they showed me you dont know what your talking about. 4Real... i dnt know how old you are, or where ur from... so this might be true for you. not the world