Are you the pursuer or do you let em choose?

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A few years. Ago i use to just let them choose but that wasnt really getting me much action. I had to learn that being to laid back could hurt you when your on the hunt. Imo tho i think you have to do both. Dont get me wrong ill still let a female choose but ill persue if im getting the right type of vibe . Whats yours?
 

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As a male, especially in 2013 with the rise of social media, you have to pursue a ho, but stil let it be known that you have other options.
By pursing i dont mean bending over backwards, I mean just dont ignore her ass for a week, and expect her to still think yall are talking. The only way that would work is if its a bytch who gets zero male attention or if its a bytch that you have history with already
 

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A few years. Ago i use to just let them choose but that wasnt really getting me much action. I had to learn that being to laid back could hurt you when your on the hunt. Imo tho i think you have to do both. Dont get me wrong ill still let a female choose but ill persue if im getting the right type of vibe . Whats yours?

in my younger days I used to chase relentlessly...that always got me played though...I guess they saw my persistence as a negative...nowadays I give em trail mix sort of and make them follow the path towards me if they really diggin me....I find myself in a lot of situations with women who are confused on how they feel about me because I dont go in all the way now...

im starting to believe in letting them choose completely though....it seems like its easier if a woman decides she wants something rather than having to convince her to want it.
 

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I was laid back for about a year, was whatever. I was in Korea so the asian whores was rocking regardless. When I came to Europe and got back in shape, I attack a bit more.
 

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what if while your being patient she is getting smutted out..and then decides to get at you when shes worn out?

young grasshopper you have alot to learn

there are billions of women in the world

By learning the ability to be patient you persevere and always maintain composure in situations that necessitate understanding :banderas:
 

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I live in Maryland. You don't pursue, you don't eat

Gotta pursue. As godly as you think your aura is, u gotta put in work if u tryna get some action. Most broads ain't aggressive enough to go and get at u even if she's feeling u
ive been told by multiple chicks that the reason i ended up getn the guts was because of how aggressive i was. women like that shyt brehs
 

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A mixture of both of course, that's being well-rounded ole one or the other ass nikkas...

The chicks around my way ain't really worth pursuing to begin with tho and i ain't with the games once you give em that power so yea i predominantly let them choose...more specifically i prefer women that choose to choose me. :smugdraper:

By the way wouldn't chasin em be a form of putting the p*ssy on a pedestal? :ohhh::lupe:
 
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