Are there really men who don't cheat

[bcrusaderw]

I was one that said I would never cheat. I grew up in a happy two parent household. Got married fairly young. Not to make excuses but in order to be the man that society says you should be, you basically have to kill off everything that's inside of you. Become the provider, protector, problem solver, chauffeur, handy man, spider killer, dikk thrower, door opener, all the while your wife kinda glides through life #gmb. Any time I hear a woman say that's a "good man" I translate that as, that's a "dead man". Ironically, the things that you kill off are the things that attracted them to you in the first place. You can fight the urges for 5,10, 25 years but that shyt will come out one way or another. I don't care how happy you are with your wife, you're going to start having this inner conflict ie midlife crisis, to satisfy your inner. Monogamy isn't natural, it's systematic, it's great for our society but humans as a whole are about as good at it as we are eating ONLY the healthiest foods or balancing our budgets.

Then you ask, Hijo why get married in the first place? Or why not divorce so you can live the single life? Truth is, I love my wife. She's is my best friend and we've been through hell and back with each other. I've never desired the single life and I don't desire other women outside of the physical. I am a family man. Perfect? nah just human.

If you TRULY loved your wife you'd let her decide if she wanted to be in an open marriage. I bet you'd flip if she stepped out on YOU.

 

[Jermio]

Yeah, but they're either men without options, or lazy.

 

[ChaddyLack]

Fukk it, I dropped this heat from damn near a decade ago because 1. It's good hip-hop that relates to the aggressive content and harsh realities of the thread and 2. This version is dope as fukk.

 

[WOAHMYGOODNESS]

would u be content with $1 or $2?


how bout $5?

How about a bank account with 30 million instead of dollar bills

 

[Higher Tech]

I cheated once when I was about 20. I'm 32 now and I haven't cheated since. Im not religious, or weird, just honorable.

 

[Phillyrider807]

Men who don't cheat don't have options. It's thats simple. And girls never look at the dude who dont have options. Girls only want u when other girls want u. But once they got u they complain about the other bytches. shyt is a catch 22.

 

[WOAHMYGOODNESS]

One of my fav law and order SVU episodes is based around this theory, fukkin Uncle Jesse had like 30 kids with 30 different hoes

Whats the episode name?

 

[KevCo]

Whats the episode name?

Bang, it was right before Stabler leaves, its like episode 20 something in season 12

 

[MikelArteta]

Men who don't cheat don't have options. It's thats simple. And girls never look at the dude who dont have options. Girls only want u when other girls want u. But once they got u they complain about the other bytches. shyt is a catch 22.

this is the biggest crock of bs ever

 

[Carolina Slim]

Patrice..... so real....

 

[h2o_proof]

So define cheating. Gaining an unfair advantage? Stepping outside of established rules and guidelines?

Its hard to not flirt if that's part of your personality. I've been in situations where I've been sent ass and titty pics, seductive text messages, etc., and to some, this is considered cheating, especially if you respond or entertain the advances and/or let it continue. In those situations do you tell your wife? I say no, and my dad has given me this advice as well, look but don't touch and never make your wife feel insecure by sharing the advances of another woman...but if she finds out...

I've also shared some advice with my wife that I still don't think she fully comprehends, I tell her 'don't advertise the fact that you have a good man to your girlfriends!!!', that's like the worst shyt ever! Posting IGs when I cook, or of me out cutting the yard and shyt like that. Or telling your girlfriends "oh girl h2o_proof know how to put up ceiling fans" or whatever. What I do for you ain't they business. Why would you want me to look like superman to your girlfriends, and why would you want your girlfriends dudes to look like chumps to me?

 

[Dameon Farrow]

I've never cheated because I don't enter relationships if I know I'm not ready.

Very few people are truly self aware enough to follow this doctrine.....self awareness is a virtue in this arena.....

 

[Hijo de luna]

If you TRULY loved your wife you'd let her decide if she wanted to be in an open marriage. I bet you'd flip if she stepped out on YOU.

And if she TRULY loved me she would never want me to endure psychological suffering due to suppression of natural desires. See how that works. Look I'm not trying to promote the shyt. I would be the first to say it's never worth it in the end. I lived, I learned, I don't judge the people that do slip up

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

Men who don't cheat don't have options.

Bullshyt. I work in people's homes for a living and most of the time I'm there for a few hours, alone, with lonely single/married women who just appreciate a man showing any interest in them.​

 

[Chief]

Bullshyt. I work in people's homes for a living and most of the time I'm there for a few hours, alone, with lonely single/married women who just appreciate a man showing any interest in them.​

You a plumber and you don't fuch these hoes
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