Are there really men who don't cheat

[Desirous]

Cheating is always a choice, just because you don't have the willpower or can't fight the temptation throwing out that fidelity is not natural is a crock of dung.

That chick at work gocimg you the eye you have a chance to say no but you end up going to lunch, you end up emailing you end up at a hotel.

Its sad the views of some, no wonder the dating scene is

Exactly...it's always a choice. There will always be temptation, other attractive people etc. It's a personal decision whether you can live with yourself after you do that, or if it's worth being more honest with the person you're with and just letting them know it's not really working out.

 

[jwall123]

As long as I don't know I don't care

Ignorance is

Except when you catch that!!!!!

But do you breh

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

I haven't and I consider myself a man-ho free spirit when I'm single. I flirt like hell, tho



Cheating seems too complicated and messy

 

[Desirous]

It's not easy to just end it with her

If she doesn't get the hint the I'm no longer feeling her
I'm a cheat

It's the actual opposite
takes someone with balls to cheat

Men have balls.

/endthread

 

[Barnett114]

I was one that said I would never cheat. I grew up in a happy two parent household. Got married fairly young. Not to make excuses but in order to be the man that society says you should be, you basically have to kill off everything that's inside of you. Become the provider, protector, problem solver, chauffeur, handy man, spider killer, dikk thrower, door opener, all the while your wife kinda glides through life #gmb. Any time I hear a woman say that's a "good man" I translate that as, that's a "dead man". Ironically, the things that you kill off are the things that attracted them to you in the first place. You can fight the urges for 5,10, 25 years but that shyt will come out one way or another. I don't care how happy you are with your wife, you're going to start having this inner conflict ie midlife crisis, to satisfy your inner. Monogamy isn't natural, it's systematic, it's great for our society but humans as a whole are about as good at it as we are eating ONLY the healthiest foods or balancing our budgets.

Then you ask, Hijo why get married in the first place? Or why not divorce so you can live the single life? Truth is, I love my wife. She's is my best friend and we've been through hell and back with each other. I've never desired the single life and I don't desire other women outside of the physical. I am a family man. Perfect? nah just human.

 

[philmonroe]

I have always felt that cheating is for cowards.

If you want out of the relationship, just end it.

Eventually, cheating ends the relationship... usually because you get caught, if not... the lack of commitment becomes corrosive.

I agree because if you so smooth like that why not tell the chicks you going to be just fukk buddies and that's it? Some of these dudes know they can't p*ssy if they don't hit chicks with the boyfriend role that's how they end up cheating most of the time anyway.

 

[MikelArteta]

To all my loyal and monogamous folks

As someone who has been cheated on and infected with treatable STDs and had to wait two weeks for HIV test results , I have zero respect for anyone who cheats, none whatsoever.

From the beginnjng to the end of any relationship I will rep faithfulness and fidelity. If I don't want to be in a relationship I'll leave.

To me there is nothing worse than a cheater I can't trust you as a friend, I can't trust you in anythjnf as your traits are lined with selfishness and conniving attributes.

If a girl tells me she has cheated even in the past she's dead to me.

 

[Dixon Cider]

I don't cheat but I damn sure look at any phatty that is in my radius regardless if my girl next to me or not. Milf in the store today had half her tit hanging out wearing skin tights and I wanted to Induldge in some type of activity ( because older women gon go ape mode freak nasty when you press em correctly)

 

[Claudex]

Cheating made my mom file for divorce

I saw how that affected our family and made me never want to put another family or person I'm involved through that. I've had opportunities, and like a poster said the same characteristics that make men irresistible to one women will make him irresistible to others so the opportunity will present themselves to a thorough dude.

But scust at nikkas, stating there might be something wrong with someone that cheats. I take pride in not cheating because I've seen the consequences. The will power alone makes me even that more thorough. I've slipped up, I'll admit and it made me never want to do it again. That's just me though

Almost the same here tbh. I saw my mum (an over-achiever and very loving and present woman) struggle after the fact so hard that I don't think I've got what it takes to just do that to a woman. Plus I can't bear to see my girl crying over anything, that shyt makes me uncomfortable AF so it'd affect me bad if the reason for her tears was some other hoe.

My mums still grappling hard with what happened and it's been close to two years. Her pain just seeps out at the most unexpected moments. It's scary as fukk to see how deep the cheating hole can go, so many fukked up shyt comes out of it it's crazy. I didn't even know it could be that bad until it happened to her.

Men don't need to cheat, we can learn to be honest with ourselves about what we want and learn to let go instead of hurting others. And I know that in my heart of hearts that if my current relationship ain't going like I pictured it I can end it and KIM, that's the truth that allows me to not fukk up and take the p*ssy that sometimes somehow makes itself available to me.

 

[I.V.]

It's not easy to just end it with her

If she doesn't get the hint the I'm no longer feeling her
I'm a cheat

It's the actual opposite
takes someone with balls to cheat

@ you leaving breadcrumbs... Break it off, famlay.

You need to be single when my flight touches down in Cansasa tomorrow night

 

[MikelArteta]

I have always felt that cheating is for cowards.

If you want out of the relationship, just end it.

Eventually, cheating ends the relationship... usually because you get caught, if not... the lack of commitment becomes corrosive.

not only that but cheating poisons so many people, because a guy cheats on a girl, that girl no longer trusts and the next guy has to deal with the ramifications.

There are so many individuals who simply think the opposite sex is not to be trusted because an ex betrayed them or they witnessed cheating with their parents and many carry those scars for life or at least for a very long time. They will never let down that shield which makes it very hard for even the best intentioned person to date them.

 

[Carolina Slim]

I tend to pride myself on being faithful to my wife, but it's kinda like Chris Rock said, trying to get credit for stuff you SUPPOSED to do. I ain't judging a n1gga that does step out, either. Every n1gga steps out for whatever reason. My father in law stepped out on my mother in law when wifey was younger, and he is still with that broad today, happy as can be. My wife is still salty about how it went down, but I told her she needs to try and understand both sides instead of just one.

Her brother's wife and her sister's husband got down together, tho, and that's something I WILL judge, I still can't understand how that seemed sweet in their eyes...

 

[MikelArteta]

Almost the same here tbh. I saw my mum (an over-achiever and very loving and present woman) struggle after the fact so hard that I don't think I've got what it takes to just do that to a woman. Plus I can't bear to see my girl crying over anything, that shyt makes me uncomfortable AF so it'd affect me bad if the reason for her tears was some other hoe.

My mums still grappling hard with what happened and it's been close to two years. Her pain just seeps out at the most unexpected moments. It's scary as fukk to see how deep the cheating hole can go, so many fukked up shyt comes out of it it's crazy. I didn't even know it could be that bad until it happened to her.

Men don't need to cheat, we can learn to be honest with ourselves about what we want and learn to let go instead of hurting others. And I know that in my heart of hearts that if my current relationship ain't going like I pictured it I can end it and KIM, that's the truth that allows me to not fukk up and take the p*ssy that sometimes somehow makes itself available to me.

exactly those few minutes of pleasure, destroys families, leads to depression, suicide and all that

 

[Carolina Slim]

One of my fav law and order SVU episodes is based around this theory, fukkin Uncle Jesse had like 30 kids with 30 different hoes

LOL I remember that episode. At the end they all found out about each other and this n1gga was sitting there like

 

[Hijo de luna]