This is the definition of double standard
Are Single Dads hated on here like single moms are?
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This is the definition of double standard
The same way you hate on a single mother with 3 kids? 3 kids is 3 kids...I don't give a fukk who is raising them.I actually know a single dad with 3 kids
How could you hate on that??
He got all 3 kids with the same woman, he handles his business like a man...for the record I don't hate on single mothers I just don't date em.
LOL so? Just means he made the same bad decision 3 times. I don't hate on single parents either but you could understand why a woman (without children) would run screaming in the opposite direction once he shared that news.
He got all 3 kids with the same woman, he handles his business like a man...for the record I don't hate on single mothers I just don't date em.
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It has to be harder for a man to be a single parent.The world's not quick to give a man (especially a black man) any handouts.It's acceptable for women to be on welfare/section 8/ government programs.As a man, that shyt is taboo.You have to have your shyt together.
Not only that, I think fathers make for better protectors of children.Sometimes with single moms, they let men move into their home, and have full dominion.A man can come in and physically/emotionally overpower/abuse her and the children.
That shyt's not going down when a single father decides to let a new woman into his life.She's going to submit to him and get with the program because that's normally how things go in nature.The man is the leader, and the woman is there as a help meet.
A woman can't move into a man's house and overpower him and abuse his children.Beyond that, men are like scarecrows to keep other degenerate elements of society away.Burglars, stalkers, kidnappers etc.
Whereas a single mother is seen as a prime opportunity.They make the perfect victim for predators.
Back in ancient Rome, they thought of it as a honor for a child to go live with the dad.Sending a child to be raised by a single mom was seen as a damnation only popular amongst peasants.
Not only that, I think fathers make for better protectors of children.Sometimes with single moms, they let men move into their home, and have full dominion.A man can come in and physically/emotionally overpower/abuse her and the children.
That shyt's not going down when a single father decides to let a new woman into his life.She's going to submit to him and get with the program because that's normally how things go in nature.The man is the leader, and the woman is there as a help meet.
A woman can't move into a man's house and overpower him and abuse his children.Beyond that, men are like scarecrows to keep other degenerate elements of society away.Burglars, stalkers, kidnappers etc.
Whereas a single mother is seen as a prime opportunity.They make the perfect victim for predators.
Back in ancient Rome, they thought of it as a honor for a child to go live with the dad.Sending a child to be raised by a single mom was seen as a damnation only popular amongst peasants.
there is so much wrong with this statement......a child needs to be raised by woman and a man...single parent households are not good period...and to imply a single father raises better children than a single mother is ridiculous it has nothing to do with the gender of the parent but more to do with the individual...but I will agree to disagree
Choosing to not date them and hating are 2 different things breh.
Again my original statement is how how u hate on a single father...I cant talk shyt about someone stepping up to the plate and handling their responsibilities.
its amazing how some of you are giving the scenario differently for a single father but blaming the single mother...who the hell wants to raise a child by themselves? yes there are crazy people out there that are not good parents...but for arguments sake stop pls...lol ya'll trip me out I swear
s!ngle father here, goes w!t s!ngle mothers.... !f a ch!ck cant act r!ght w!t my k!ds that hoe gets bushes fast.... we st!ll argu!n th!s sh!t???? no long rant....
That's his job. They are his kids and any other behavior should be frowned upon. Again, the same way you don't date single mothers you can understand why a woman wouldn't want to date a single father, especially not one with 3 children. I didn't say anything about hating.
LMMFAO! The first question was rhetorical and in response to the general hate that single women get on this site. If you look further into my response I said I don't hate single parents but i understand why people without kids wouldn't want to date them. *sigh*
i would never blame a single mother i
them for raising their kid/kids its not easy cuz ive done as a single father before. single mom's do get more hate which is stupid and i dont agree at allsingle fathers dont get as much as hate which is true but also have less support from the system cuz i would know i went thru it and it was a bytch for me
either way it goes they both should be treated equally and appreciated for doing whats best for their kids not hated on. now dated them is a matter of preference which is fine nor do you have too either
its no difference if a person prefers a certain race than another
bottom line its best if both parents are in kids life but if not that single parent will do whats best if their a good parent no matter what