Are any women here also not a fan of sex or penetration?

[#1 pick]

Masturbation can become addictive for women b/c it's so easy to get off and get very, very intense orgasms within minutes.

Problem is when u orgasm so quickly and easily by urself, u unconsciously create a very high standard for men sexually b/c u are expecting that same easy intense orgasm with them. Essentially ur body says if I'm getting off this intensely just by myself, imagine what's gonna happen when I add dikk to the mix!

But during penetrative sex a lot of men not only don't have an effect thru penetration but it's also a bit more challenging to play with ur clit while attending to other people'S sexual needs as well. So we end up not getting anything out of it. The solution for u is a legit freaky dude. A dude who is a legit freak is amazing. He will just wanna have his hand on ur p*ssy just to play in it. He's obsessed with texture and feel of it. Fascinated by the hardening of ur nipple. Likes the taste of you. Whispers filth in ur ear...all that good stuff. It's rare to get tha wirh random hook ups.

Yall need to join us men in the no porn movement. It ain't natural for men or women to look at sex in that way.

 

[#1 pick]

I don't necessarily agree with the first half of your post (for some women vaginal sensation is just hard to come by without a TON of experimenting and even then it doesn't work for a few). I know because I was one of those women. I knew I had "spots" but there are a ton of men who neither have the patience or the understanding to figure out that for some of us, just merely "beatin' it up" ain't doing shyt (not saying I've had a ton of men lol). Another issue is I've never had enough consistent sex.

Nonetheless, yes, a dude who is a legit freak is great. I figured out what I like and what gets me going. I like slow, grinding sex with A LOT of foreplay so finding someone who is into that is ideal. I thought something was wrong with me until I started rockin' with my fwb (whom I've known for years). Some people will tell you get the right man but its important to know what you like first.

You need a man, long term, best friend, instant love in that sense. Cause sex will slow down but sex is like everything else, you need to get into a ryhymn unless you know your partner sexuality really well

 

[⠝⠕⠏⠑]

Yall need to join us men in the no porn movement. It ain't natural for men or women to look at sex in that way.

Right!
Lmao! It's a symptom of this whole "I don't need nobody" pseudo autistic society.

Stuff ain't natural.

 

[Yo Mama]

How I wish I could say yes.

Life would be simpler, I think, without dikk in the mix.