Are any women here also not a fan of sex or penetration?

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I don't like kissing or weed either.

I can't get with you on the not liking penetration though.
However, if you don't really like penetration getting with a guy that's well endowed isn't what you should be doing. You need to start small.
 

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I don't like kissing or weed either.

I can't get with you on the not liking penetration though.
However, if you don't really like penetration getting with a guy that's well endowed isn't what you should be doing. You need to start small.
I got you, OP :jawalrus:
 

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You might be crazy sexual, everyone want to make it something extra. But you might just not be crazy about sex like that espeically if you a germ freak or grossed out by people.


Now all that could change if you found someone you were really comfortable with, turned you on and got you off. Might turn into a super freak lol.


I wouldn't worry about it and use it as an opportunity to get to know they guys you date/like more 1st since sex isn't a big deal for you. If they hang around cool if not :yeshrug:
 

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I'm no expert on sexuality, but you just may be asexual in terms of desiring sexual activity with others. You clearly have sexual feelings and want to release sexual tension.

But in addition, it is not uncommon at all for a woman to not get much out of penetration alone. Its more common than you think. There are few nerve endings in the vagina. Many women need clitoral stimulation for penetration and if your clitoris is a bit far from your vaginal opening it makes it even harder.

You may need to do A LOT of experimentation (to find any "spots" you may have). From there you determine which positions can help reach them...but that requires either a dude or toys. There are couples vibrators that are hands free (like the Eva) that I heard are good.

Good luck.
 

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Masturbation can become addictive for women b/c it's so easy to get off and get very, very intense orgasms within minutes.

Problem is when u orgasm so quickly and easily by urself, u unconsciously create a very high standard for men sexually b/c u are expecting that same easy intense orgasm with them. Essentially ur body says if I'm getting off this intensely just by myself, imagine what's gonna happen when I add dikk to the mix!

But during penetrative sex a lot of men not only don't have an effect thru penetration but it's also a bit more challenging to play with ur clit while attending to other people'S sexual needs as well. So we end up not getting anything out of it. The solution for u is a legit freaky dude. A dude who is a legit freak is amazing. He will just wanna have his hand on ur p*ssy just to play in it. He's obsessed with texture and feel of it. Fascinated by the hardening of ur nipple. Likes the taste of you. Whispers filth in ur ear...all that good stuff. It's rare to get tha wirh random hook ups.
 

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Masturbation can become addictive for women b/c it's so easy to get off and get very, very intense orgasms within minutes.

Problem is when u orgasm so quickly and easily by urself, u unconsciously create a very high standard for men sexually b/c u are expecting that same easy intense orgasm with them. Essentially ur body says if I'm getting off this intensely just by myself, imagine what's gonna happen when I add dikk to the mix!

But during penetrative sex a lot of men not only don't have an effect thru penetration but it's also a bit more challenging to play with ur clit while attending to other people'S sexual needs as well. So we end up not getting anything out of it. The solution for u is a legit freaky dude. A dude who is a legit freak is amazing. He will just wanna have his hand on ur p*ssy just to play in it. He's obsessed with texture and feel of it. Fascinated by the hardening of ur nipple. Likes the taste of you. Whispers filth in ur ear...all that good stuff. It's rare to get tha wirh random hook ups.

I don't necessarily agree with the first half of your post (for some women vaginal sensation is just hard to come by without a TON of experimenting and even then it doesn't work for a few). I know because I was one of those women. I knew I had "spots" but there are a ton of men who neither have the patience or the understanding to figure out that for some of us, just merely "beatin' it up" ain't doing shyt (not saying I've had a ton of men lol). Another issue is I've never had enough consistent sex. :mjcry:

Nonetheless, yes, a dude who is a legit freak is great. I figured out what I like and what gets me going. I like slow, grinding sex with A LOT of foreplay so finding someone who is into that is ideal. I thought something was wrong with me until I started rockin' with my fwb (whom I've known for years). Some people will tell you get the right man but its important to know what you like first.
 
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You gonna tell me sombeody's saliva got any business mixing in with yours? Anyone who genuinely enjoys kissing is a sociopath to me. Woat
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you sound like a germaphobe that might be your real problem

your are not non sexual because you enjoy masturbation...
 
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