Anyone here ever date a Narcist person?

[Heafcliffe]

Yeah, she was in her mirror or a mirror or a reflection/ fixing her makeup ALL THE DAMN TIME! Shyt was annoying....

 

[-deleted-]

Yes. He was beautiful like a perfect mix of Odell Beckham and Michael b Jordan. according to him the only thing “wrong” with him was he was only 5’11(his words). I never let him forget it either I always told him “he was so close, he almost made it”. That would make him soooo mad omg other than that he believed he was walking perfection.

But he was so vain it was disgusting. Like he was obsessed with himself. He used to compliment me by saying “how do you look better than me”. Lmao

The worst part about him was that he believed he could do no wrong. I could deal with the vanity because he was fine but he was the family favorite because he was successful and obviously because he was good looking so everyone kissed his ass, especially his mom. It was frustrating. So he felt like he could talk to people however and wouldn’t apologize for anything. Getting him to understand someone else’s point of view was impossible, you would just end up frustrated because he would not budge.

Can’t believe I almost married him. Yikes.

The one that got away (Women ver.), folks.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Missed a few letters

 

[Ashley Banks]

The one that got away (Women ver.), folks.

I literally said “yikes” because I almost married him. Meaning that would have been a terrible thing. How is he the one that got away?

My hubby>>>> him. I have no regrets.

 

[-deleted-]

I literally said “yikes” because I almost married him. Meaning that would have been a terrible thing. How is he the one that got away?

My hubby>>>> him. I have no regrets.

You know how you are, no need for me to spell it out.

 

[Ashley Banks]

You know how you are, no need for me to spell it out.

idk what you’re getting at

 

[Grand Conde]

Is 'narce' a country I've never heard of or something?

 

[International Playa]

In November, we went on a few dates & smashed twice. It didn't go any further when I noticed, she only liked talking about herself

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Yeah. It's called dating a woman.

Came here to post this.

 

[Pillowysoft83]

A narcissist is not a person who loves to talk about themselves but it can be a narcissistic trait. A person who has narcissistic personality disorder is a sociopath. Some traits include:

Lack of empathy
Grandiose delusions about their capabilities
manipulation as a control tactic
gaslighting i.e constantly doing seedy or questionable shyt but when caught makes it seem as if you are the crazy one
Low self esteem masked by ego
Will never admit to wrong doing but will constantly deflect
Easily shamed... when the narcissistic ways are discovered or unmasked...they will ghost you. They run from reality
Usually have multiple sexual partners. They almost are always unfaithful
Lack the ability to really love as they truly hate
themselves and they believe they can only get what they want through manipulation.
Don’t view other humans as people with feelings only extensions of their own narcissistic desires aka supply. Narcissistics crave attention/praise and acceptance. That’s it. They can’t truly love... but they crave supply and can pretend they love as long as their narcissistic needs are being met.

The NPD is usually triggered in childhood. It’s a coping mechanism that eventually gets worse as it they Age. Narcissist for the most part can’t change because they disconnect from self to cope. A person who can’t self actualize and connect with self can’t be changed. If you are with one run . The most draining people on earth.

 

[GhettoTeK]

Ive been told by a so called partner they don’t know how to love me I’m about to ghost

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

We're all fukked up in some way.You just have to hope your inner monsters match.

Or, for the rare ultra mature muthafukkaz with discipline, bond through mutual healing.

Where you can throw everything on the table, be vulnerable, and not feel ashamed about

anything.The relationship actually becomes therapeutic.You just have to snap out of denial & realize

you're broken.....But in this day & age, good luck with that.Most people are locked away in childhood

trauma, distracted by their difficulty adapting into adulthood.At that point, relationships aren't formed to grow.

It becomes a form of escapism.That initial 30-90 day rush.You feel deluded by feelings "happiness", but it's fleeting.

Rarely do people want to do the actual work of healing themselves first.Rather just keep running & hiding.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Imma be honest I’m speaking to one right now who openly lets it be known she’s a narcist.

She does talk about herself way too much and she expects me to immediately understand everything she says. If I don’t catch on right away or don’t answer it to her standards she claims I’m acting weird

Tell her to stfu

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Low self esteem women can be selfish too. They prioritize their pity party over trying to accommodate and work with people. Their Me me me moments aren't like your typical narcissist a$$holes who gotta brag and gloat, but its still all about them. Just all gloomy and shyt. And they still think they know every fukking thing.

Just like how people don't wanna hear you talking about how great you are all damn day, nobody trying to hear you shyt on yourself all day either, that's hella annoying.

Lmaooo

 

[Knicksman20]

Narcissistic as in they in love w themself or narcissistic personality disorder? The latter i can spot that shyt from a mile away. For ex some signs include triangulating you. Meaning you cant talk to people without their presence. Sabotage.. for ex if you on a diet and he sabotages you so you dont lose weight and hes insecure about you leaving. Isolation he wont let you near family or friends.. emotional black mail :if you leave me imma leak your nudes/punish you in another way.

and my favorites:dissapproving glances, calls to change plans, and chronic lateness. They do this so they feel like they have a sense of control over you.

A narcissist is not a person who loves to talk about themselves but it can be a narcissistic trait. A person who has narcissistic personality disorder is a sociopath. Some traits include:

Lack of empathy
Grandiose delusions about their capabilities
manipulation as a control tactic
gaslighting i.e constantly doing seedy or questionable shyt but when caught makes it seem as if you are the crazy one
Low self esteem masked by ego
Will never admit to wrong doing but will constantly deflect
Easily shamed... when the narcissistic ways are discovered or unmasked...they will ghost you. They run from reality
Usually have multiple sexual partners. They almost are always unfaithful
Lack the ability to really love as they truly hate
themselves and they believe they can only get what they want through manipulation.
Don’t view other humans as people with feelings only extensions of their own narcissistic desires aka supply. Narcissistics crave attention/praise and acceptance. That’s it. They can’t truly love... but they crave supply and can pretend they love as long as their narcissistic needs are being met.

The NPD is usually triggered in childhood. It’s a coping mechanism that eventually gets worse as it they Age. Narcissist for the most part can’t change because they disconnect from self to cope. A person who can’t self actualize and connect with self can’t be changed. If you are with one run . The most draining people on earth.

Judging by the responses in this thread I was questioning whether any of them have dealt with a true narcissist but you two get it. You really get it @Pillowysoft83 & anyone that's ever been involved with one will tell you those exact same things & more. You'll start questioning your own reality dealing with one of them. I suggest anyone that's considering involving themselves with one in any way GTFO of that quickly. Not even trying to be funny either