No, I'm not 6'3 working at Wal-Mart.
I'm now 40 and sometimes think that the chance to find that special someone has passed me by at this time. But i don't harp on it as I am usually happier alone anyway.
This is why I hate advice that tells people "you have time, you're still young"
The truth is your younger are too valuable to waste, and its hard to make up for them
Truth be told it seems like anytime I'm in a somewhat long term relationship that shyt starts to go south. Me being a loner doesn't help either. As I feel the key to a healthy relationship is time apart but I have yet to find one that realizes just what that means. Nothing wrong with me being able to spend a weekend alone but because of insecurities someone always thinks the other party is up to no good.I've just hit 40 myself and realised as much as I love women to bits, they are also the biggest fug up of your life... I wish I was a monk or some shyt... I've got my ex wife stopping me from seeing my daughter.. My current GF looking to become my ex GF soon... Her father passed away recently and she doesn't seem to want me at the funeral, but critsizes me not being supportive..
They can make you feel amazing, but they can also drive you to the edge..
The longer you stay with a woman it seems the more is expected from you and the less you get in return....
Only yesterday I sent her a picture of her a year or two back, smiling and flashing some flesh, to one a few months back looking like she wanted to stab me... I said what came first the chicken or the
egg?...
And her father was in good health at this point... Another victim of Rona
Truth be told it seems like anytime I'm in a somewhat long term relationship that shyt starts to go south. Me being a loner doesn't help either. As I feel the key to a healthy relationship is time apart but I have yet to find one that realizes just what that means. Nothing wrong with me being able to spend a weekend alone but because of insecurities someone always thinks the other party is up to no good.
Big factsThis is why I hate advice that tells people "you have time, you're still young"
The truth is your younger are too valuable to waste, and its hard to make up for them
You can always make new/different choices and change the direction of your life. It’s never too late to change and never too late to change your destiny.Brehs, turning 38 this year and caught myself lamenting not experiencing certain life events the way I was supposed to.
On the outside things look alright. Getting into better shape, making over 100k in tech, back in school. But something seems off.
For instance, back in school, finishing strong, but it's not the same feeling as experiencing it from 18-22 (even Tiger Woods said his only life regret was leaving Stanford early and turning pro).
All that young relationship stuff, put a lot of it off and now feel like that time is behind me.
Never really competed at a high-level in anything, just did a lot of coasting and time wasting.
Y'all ever have these thoughts? If so, how do you deal with 'em?