lol i guess getting your girl in an arm bar is the way to go.
Theres more to jiujitsu then breaking limbs. People who dont know anything about it only see this side. There is an aspect of control over another person that we have to be able to subdue and control demonic individuals. A woman would be easily subdued and contained until her anger wavered. I once had to hold a demonic witch down until she broke into tears. It was then i knew she was broken and i could give control over her own body back to her.