Anybody else have to work for everything they got

[Nuke Dukem]

I mean as in no finacial support from family really?

I have friends/Gf's who don't have to really worry about shyt

I never was the one to have my folks co-sign on a car for me

I saved up my first 2 g's when I got my first car, no help with that at all

Clothes was all paid for by me, except for prolly Xmas/bday

I buy all my own food now

Pay for my own car insurance/gas

When I was younger and with out health insurance my family didn't help me pau it off so now I got neg marks on my credit


shyt is frustrating but it is what it is

 

[AgentGrey]

nikka everybody works for their own,
its called being a fukking adult.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Are you talking about from childhood on, or as an adult?

Aren't all adults self-supportive?

 

[Nuke Dukem]

nikka everybody works for their own,
its called being a fukking adult.

Not always you fukking fakkit.. I'm still meeting people in their mid 20's getting everything from mommy and daddy

 

[Nuke Dukem]

Are you talking about from childhood on, or as an adult?

Aren't all adults self-supportive?

I mean from teen years to early mid 20's

Childhood parents are expected to provide

Anything after that is a luxury

 

[Emperor Sol]

I think OP means that his parents haven't been doing all that much for him ever since he was little

 

[Crakface]

I had to buy or use someone to get everything i wanted. It took a lot of work.

 

[Nuke Dukem]

I think OP means that his parents haven't been doing all that much for him ever since he was little

When I was little everything was all good, idk maybe I'm talking to the wrong people In RL

 

[Nuke Dukem]

The shyt is a struggle and when ever I have an issue my friends will be like "well why don't you ask your folks to help/get/buy/borrow for you..

Then they look at me like wtf when I tell em it's not like that for me

I thought it was normal until I started seeing more and more people getting help

 

[AgentGrey]

Not always you fukking fakkit.. I'm still meeting people in their mid 20's getting everything from mommy and daddy

calm down cody

thats great for them but the natural order in life
is to be self sufficient, it sounds u like ur surrounded by privileged
individuals. As you can see, everybody doesnt have it like that.

its a mean world scrap, you're not the only one by far.

 

[SecretLover]

Yup it's just me, my boyfriend and our son it's made me and him stronger nobody really helping us. Having somebody to survive the struggle with & get rich with. Then spend nothing but time & money gone be lovely

 

[SuburbanPimp]

Yep, My Moms passed away right after High School and a year later my Dad moved to another state so I from 22 on and ain't have nobody to look out for me. My sister did but she has her own family and issues.

It was especially tough with a son, all my other friends with kids would just drop them off with their Moms or aunt and I didn't have that option. It has made me a betetr man, parent and appreciate everything I got cause I know that I'm the one who create the life I have. I recieved zero handouts

 

[dr. pill biden]

When I was in high school and college, my folks fell on hard times (though not broke by any means) so I took it upon myself to buy my own clothes and shyt. I begged them for a car and they flaked on it, so I saved up and copped it myself cash. I been holding jobs consistently since I was 14....but they still helped out here and there when they could just cause parents are supposed to provide for their children. I love them nikkaz mane

 

[Nuke Dukem]

calm down cody

thats great for them but the natural order in life
is to be self sufficient, it sounds u like ur surrounded by privileged
individuals. As you can see, everybody doesnt have it like that.

its a mean world scrap, you're not the only one by far.

True


I thought you were coming at me on some "no shyt" type of deal

Define privileged though, these aren't kids where there mommy & daddy bought em a beamer in high school

I was just wondering if it's normal to NOT get a lot
of help

 

[Nuke Dukem]

Yep, My Moms passed away right after High School and a year later my Dad moved to another state so I from 22 on and ain't have nobody to look out for me. My sister did but she has her own family and issues.

It was especially tough with a son, all my other friends with kids would just drop them off with their Moms or aunt and I didn't have that option. It has made me a betetr man, parent and appreciate everything I got cause I know that I'm the one who create the life I have. I recieved zero handouts

How'd you afford life?

Did you go str8 to school?

Were you working full time?