Well this is the site that espouses GMB, which essentially sounds like men who do not want the responsibility of leading a woman and family……..so your comment will probably be ignored.
Any Female without Strong Male Guidance and Leadership in her Life and Family is Lost and should not be Trusted nor Wifed. She Has No HONOR.
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Georgiamuscle
Superstar
Hit dogs holler with this moist 50 year old angry nikka with no kidsHere go another Puffy remix of the same fukking thread this bitter beer faced, gout having loser, Black woman hating, former IT helpdesk, end of life crisis having lame done made again and again.
Of course he’s trying to deflect to “hating on the black woman” babble
Sbp
Superstar
True
It's not foolproof no doubt, but the percentages are absolutely more in the favor of what @Stuntone was talkin about
play the percentages
WaveMolecules
Superstar
Obviously
I understand that.
I just think it’s ignorant to live by some broad mantra when it comes to complex and complicated human beings. No human being is built ready to make the best decisions and I am personally not going to disqualify one for something they had no say in, like whether or not their dad stuck around. It’s simplistic and evil tbh.
no doubt, but when the signs are there (that many ignore) don't complain about the aftermath.
WaveMolecules
Superstar
Life isn’t pretty bro. You could picked the perfect woman, did everything right and she still fukks the delivery guy.
That’s just life shyt happens.
I think you do your best, in this case, to pick a partner based on a myriad of factors, then hope for the best. We can’t control what another human chooses to do and the risk doesn’t ever go away.
Life is fukked like that
Life isn’t pretty bro. You could picked the perfect woman, did everything right and she still fukks the delivery guy.
That’s just life shyt happens.
I think you do your best, in this case, to pick a partner based on a myriad of factors, then hope for the best. We can’t control what another human chooses to do and the risk doesn’t ever go away.
Life is fukked like that
my thing is the signs are always there with both men and women. many choose to ignore for various reasons. But the signs are there.
RickyDiBiase
The Sword of Jesus of Nazareth
Relationships are all about compromise. Wifey knew I had anger problems, so she compromised. I couldn't stand her ratchet ass cousins, so I compromised.
I agree with the message of OP (in theory), but not the messenger, he's too whiny and bytch made for my blood.
CreepyMcCreeperson
Veteran
I agree, but here’s the thing. If women only wanted men who had active father figures, that puts a lot of black men out the game, including most of y’all. If you add income, that really puts a lot of black men out the game, and don’t get me started on some of y’all who don’t take care of yourselves, but want attractive women.
You are making your dating pool of black women even smaller than it already is, while simultaneously telling women to make themselves available to a wider pool of men. Everyone needs to be evaluated on a case by case basis, and you need to stop talking to a woman immediately when you sense disrespect, or her challenging you just for the hell of it. Again, this can be avoided by sticking with women who really like you. When she really likes you, she will want to stay in your good graces, and hold on to you. When she feels like you should be lucky to be in her presence, you get the problems.
You are making your dating pool of black women even smaller than it already is, while simultaneously telling women to make themselves available to a wider pool of men. Everyone needs to be evaluated on a case by case basis, and you need to stop talking to a woman immediately when you sense disrespect, or her challenging you just for the hell of it. Again, this can be avoided by sticking with women who really like you. When she really likes you, she will want to stay in your good graces, and hold on to you. When she feels like you should be lucky to be in her presence, you get the problems.
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@BaggerofTea this is NOT directed at you AT ALL, just the topic.
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So here’s part of my issue when this topic comes up.
So the government drops drugs in our communities and…our men didn’t band together to tell the community to say no to the drugs OR put down the men who decided to sell it to the community? Excommunicate the people who wouldn’t stop doing the drugs?
Everyone has a hand in the downfall of the community. The men had a duty to fight that shyt and they failed at that. At some point in this discussion, y’all have to formally address this OWN IT.
I’ve seen brehs on here ask the simple question: just because they brought us drugs, did we have to do them? I don’t think I’ve ever seen a real honest answer to that.
But ok- we can blame the government for Black men being out of the home, but for whatever reason we CAN’T blame the government for putting Black women in a tight spot and having to make due without our men?
Y’all don’t see with this argument that you place ALL THE BLAME on everyone else in this situation, and make it seem like Black MEN were just helpless and put upon?
You place all the blame on Black women and women run homes as if…I mean what was supposed to happen? All the women who lost men to the streets were supposed to go find a Hispanic or White man to fill the masculine void? Was that it?
What exactly were the women of that time supposed to do in the immediate fallout of the drug situation?
And y’all know I call out women’s faulty arguments when they are presented here, so this isn’t about bashing Black men.
However it is really fukking rich that everything bad that happened in the community was the fault of whites and Black women.
Black men have no culpability? The word “accountability” gets thrown around so much in our community but somehow when this topic comes up the only group that did something wrong is Black women.
-Nobody formed groups to go around putting a bullet in the head of the drug dealers?
-Groups weren’t formed to challenge them?
-What was the response of the men in our communities when the government came through with the drugs?
-Was our community strong enough to say no to drugs?
WHY NOT?!
Develop an earnest answer to that question before starting the blame game. OF COURSE FATHERS ARE NECESSARY! PF COURSE MEN ARE NECESSARY. We all know and can see that.
But if you can open your mouths to blame the government for being powerful enough to take you out of our homes, what exactly did you expect of Black women? Somehow the women of the time were going to magically be stronger and more resilient than the men who fell to the temptation of drugs? Make it make sense.
The common sense argument is to blame the government for the state of our families because it’s the government’s actions that led us here.
But if you do that you really gotta go at them, and not punch down on the women.
All these threads about how women are children, women are too emotional, we are weaker, etc.
Well if the government took you out of the home why are you mad at the women? The result was to be expected— THAT’S WHY THEY DID IT!! Because they knew we NEEDED you.
Y’all really gotta be for real.
Y’all talk about women who aren’t being led, but have any of you picked one to lead? When you got the degree/the trade, the job, the house, were you looking for a wife, or were you enjoying the fruits of your labor with multiple women?
Are your kids born in wedlock? Or it’s ok for you to seed up a chick with no ring, no man as the head of her household? It’s cool for your kid to be the kid who doesn’t have married parents? Do you think about these things? Because if not you have directly contributed to the issue that OP has presented.
We got Nazis in the White House who want to make sure all of you Black men who are on a quest for higher education, stable careers and financial success are thrown off your path. Education, Public Sector (government jobs), private sector, military. That is what these cacs are doing in 2025.
The government is directly attacking you AGAIN, Black man.
WHAT ARE YOU GOING TO DO ABOUT IT? What is the plan to ensure THE COMMUNITY you love to talk about is going to survive this shyt?
THAT is the question for 2025. Not these stupid topics that keep getting rehashed.
Everyone knows you are needed and necessary in our households. Trump and his administration want to make it harder for you to show up for your households.
The government is doing it again.
So what’s the next step?
CourtesyFlush
Superstar
So lemme get this straight, because of something completely out of their control like who raises them, a huge population of women don't deserve happiness with another person? I swear the coli is incel central. In that same thinking, men raised without a mom can't be trusted either?
You know who was Hitler’s most trusted guy? Not any general. It was Goebels, minister of propaganda
Messaging matters. So yes everyone needs to do their part but then it needs to be talked about, loudly.
People in general are maleable and impressionable and black folk are EXTREMELY maleable and impressionable. You see it on here in 4k. At their heart, mfers ain’t confident left to their own devices they’re gonna veer toward what’s popular and what’s the zeitgeist of the moment. Hence we have a generation of suburban kids thinking they’re from the trenches
So, if more people vocalized being a father and showed it in action and settling down etc it would make a difference
I didn't say live by it, just check into it. See who's heading her family and the household she grew up in. See who she calls for advice and help. If there's no wise solid men in her small counsel, more than like she's not going to be able to follow any man.
