Since a kid I had a fondness for the electric guitar = music instruments in general.
My first guitar was a black Ibanez Gio with single coils. I was hype as shyt getting this for my birthday! Used to bring this guitar everywhere with me to college. I mainly play by ear (consonant chords) that's how I learned to train myself. Didn't start getting into tabs until I took music classes and dealt with other experienced players.
You should learn playing vertically and horizontal. Learn many scales to develop arpeggios on your own; learn what a major and minor triad; learn techniques like octaves, etc.
The gear plays a pivot role. Change your pickups, replace your strings, get a trustworthy amp and analog pedals. One of my favorite effects is the chorus effect. Love how its modulates its sound.
Learn the difference between different guitar bodies and types of woods that affects its sound. The higher the string, the more string tension; looser the string, easier tension on the fingers.
Single coils are crystalline and treble. Humbuckers are warmer and thick. P90s are very versatile - one of the best coils if you to try different styles.
My second guitar I have now is a Fender Stratocaster American. Bought from a homie. The pickups need to be fixed, I want to replace this with a P-90 but may reconsider. The best Stratocasters are imported from Mexico or Japan.
I had a bass guitar for a while. The bass is the bridge between rhythm and harmony. Ever listened to a song without a bassline? Sounds like something is missing lmao. The cornerstone besides the drums.