Another black child of a celebrity exposes her dad: Thanks Romeo !

[Geode]

Seems like this is a "little from Column A, little from Column B" situation. Yeah, she's coming off a bit entitled, but clearly she really wanted her father in her life as well.

However, why put this out to the public, and now? Nobody was thinking about any of them.

 

[valet]

She looks just like her pop. Gap and all.

 

[Louisville Slugz]

Have kids, Breh's

 

[Umoja]

She was complaining about being homeless and feeling like she has no connection to her father.

That is not a spoiled child. That’s a child begging for the unconditional love and protection of a father.

If she goes looking for the love and protection she didn’t receive from her father it can become a real dangerous situation for her.

And when she was "homeless" what did her dad do? Set her up with a dorm.

This is why I am saying she is an unreliable narrator and that she is putting him in a situation where he can only fail.

If he skipped on providing her with a dorm room and told her to live with him whilst going to college, how do you think she'd respond? She'd be criticising him for not helping her live on her own.

 

[Toe Jay Simpson]

Nah I can’t rock with this one

When she started rattling off him buying her first car, paying for school, ect she lost me. Look, I get it…but a lot of us have it way worse. He should have been more involved, but she’s phrasing this like she was the victim of some type of grand injustice that the world needs to know about. Her attitude on some real talk makes me believe the nikka just didn’t want to deal with her and just said “let me play my part and keep it moving”. She comes off like a brat who feels like somebody owes her something.

As an adult I look at my pop who wasnt the most engaged and I realize, sad as it may sound, the nikka really didnt have to do anything. Hell, he did a lot more than my cousin’s pops. It’s not about being content, it’s about being an adult and saying that “breh, it could have been better, but it could have been worse”. The world dont need these types of stories when there’s women out there working 3 jobs cause some nikka straight up abandoned them.

 

[thelonious21]

I mean.. Kel wasn't popping since I was in like middle school.. how much of a celebrity lifestyle is expected..

Deadbeats get no love tho

 

[Colicat]

And when she was "homeless" what did her dad do? Set her up with a dorm.

This is why I am saying she is an unreliable narrator and that she is putting him in a situation where he can only fail.

If he skipped on providing her with a dorm room and told her to live with him whilst going to college, how do you think she'd respond? She'd be criticising him for not helping her live on her own.

So while I understand he paid for a dorm, that gesture communicates that she is just a financial burden to him. A bill if you will. Nothing more.

In the summer, when school is out; where does she go? She had no space in his life. Again, she seems to be complaining about accessing her father’s unconditional love and protection. Being a priority to her father. It looks like she wants to be a “daddy’s girl” but daddy wasn’t cut out to be emotionally vulnerable and available to his child.

 

[CrushedGroove]

My son turned his back on us because we didn't want him using his money as a means to look for love. You'll always find it when you lead with money but it ain't gonna be what you want it to be. He cut us out his life and everything.

He moved out and on his ass and telling folks we put him out and cut him off and tried to control his life. Then asks us for money and expect there to be no stipulations tied to it. Foh

You try to do everything you can with what you know. You're going to make mistakes. You can never apologize enough or be there enough for some of these kids. One day, if they seek wisdom, they'll see what you see when they have their own.

 

[Umoja]

So while I understand he paid for a dorm, that gesture communicates that she is just a financial burden to him. A bill if you will. Nothing more.

This is how I know you clowns are reaching to stick to your original conclusion.

Someone goes out of their way to ensure their adult child has a roof over their head and you're just writing it off as a financial burden, nothing more than a bill?

In the summer, when school is out; where does she go? She had no space in his life. Again, she seems to be complaining about accessing her father’s unconditional love and protection. Being a priority to her father. It looks like she wants to be a “daddy’s girl” but daddy wasn’t cut out to be emotionally vulnerable and available to his child.

She didn't mention what she did during the summer. What she mentioned is that when she didn't have a roof over her head, he stepped into change that. That is providing your child with protection (unconditional love is not tested by this scenario).

 

[Wildin]

Don't know why or how kids speaking out against their parents became a black thing, especially if their parents are famous. But go on and cook

 

[The Radiant One]

You’re right but we need to shift that culture. I don’t mean by blasting people or putting personal business on social media. I do find that tacky. But we all know who the bums are in our circles and families. They shouldn’t feel comfortable and that’s how I move IRL. Don’t come around me, text or call if you can’t be bothered to take care of your seed. I don’t want to hear shyt unless it’s an emergency. Like would you be okay chilling with a brother you know abuses his woman and children? How is this any different?

He took care of his seed. The daugter hates him anyway so I don't get your point

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Wildly different responses here than were in the Akon thread.

 

[Blown Moon]

This chick has obviously been poisoned by her mother. I bet that man could lay the earth at her feet and she'll complain about not having matching stars.

 

[CrimsonTider]

There’s 3 sides of the story

Her’s, her mom and his….

Flood gates are open and now almost every celebrity or semi celebrity kid going to talk about daddy

There’s only 1 side

 

[Yas]

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This is bs, if men actually cared about their legacies and their kids they would be careful who they get pregnant and they would actually choose a decent women. Just like how y’all say women can choose better so can men.