Should i show contempt for black women because i married a chinese woman? I dont think so. This is called basic human decency. To many times, friends marry women of another race because they have resentment toward their own. This is the wrong reason to do these things but instead a friend should find a woman of sound moral ground, preferably someone they connect with culturally and can work toward building a solid future with. My friends and family are black people so why do i need to disrespect the women in my family, in my circle or in the world because of who im married to. I hope everyone finds a great spouse. Lets be smarter when we speak, friend. Not everyone has a demonic angle for their motivations for marriage, friend.