Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
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No hard feelings Reincar, I just can't let you guys discourage my brehettes.
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I think his stance was that it didn't happen at all and that the average gap in age difference for married couples was 2.5...And from my experiences, women marry older guys often...That was the point that I was trying to get across
fertility decreases exponentially after 30 yet culturally and perceptually most women self-report feeling most comfortable knowing themselves sexually and exploring themselves sexually in their 30s. A sort of perfect storm with their biological clocks ticking. You throw in a 6-10 year age gap and that's the nail in the coffin. Like I said however, you put a baby in her the first 5 years of marriage and get her then you have nothing to worry about.
as far as maturity, i think men take longer to mature but in general once a woman reaches her 23-24, there's not much maturing left for her to do unless she goes through deep shyt. Men's maturity curve seems slower but more steady. I do think a dude should probably marry about the age your father said and it makes sense that he gave you that advice from a male's perspective. but i'm not sure the same advice applies for females.He just said If I do it later in life, I won't regret it. He thinks people live should their lives before they get married. Plus the guy will be more mature and so will I so we have a better chance at lasting. Don't know how true it is but all the older guys I've spoken to about this agree with me. The only time I've seen something different is on here.
So basically there is no hard science to back it up.......and furthermore, the bolded falls right in line with the propaganda that I mentioned...
Ok, breh. I'm not here to stomp on your dreams. I really hope you fall within that 17 percent and find a nubile goddess who will remain loyal to you for eternity.
My mom got married 3 years ago in her early 50's. Yall got to get off this whole "women expire at 30" bullshyt. I'd rather a girl stay single into her 30's then marry somebody they settled for and want to divorce once the kids reach school age.
What part of dont you understand? Most women marry at some point in life, so what the fukk math are you basing this assumption upon???just because your mom did , does not mean its a regular occurrence, i've already explained in this thread with the terminal cancer analogy. Some people beat brain tumors and stage 4 terminal cancer but in reality its not a common occurrence.
So just because your mom got married at 50
just because you know a friend who got married at 35
just because a 40 year old single mom got married
just because a 49 year old aunt married a 34 year old kenyan
those are all rare occurrences, smeone wins the lotto every week doesnt mean the odds of winning it aren't slim
as far as maturity, i think men take longer to mature but in general once a woman reaches her 23-24, there's not much maturing left for her to do unless she goes through deep shyt. Men's maturity curve seems slower but more steady. I do think a dude should probably marry about the age your father said and it makes sense that he gave you that advice from a male's perspective. but i'm not sure the same advice applies for females.
My mom got married 3 years ago in her early 50's. Yall got to get off this whole "women expire at 30" bullshyt. I'd rather a girl stay single into her 30's then marry somebody they settled for and want to divorce once the kids reach school age.
Ive seen whats in the 30 lus market and its all bad. All, bad. The women can just hope for a 2 decades of 3 month honeymoon relationships before they finally bow down and marry some fat slob smellin like cheap cologne willing to spend every dime he has on her, while she throws herself at young cats at the job who will take secret blowjobs when no ones lookin.that was so vulgar...
cot dayum...Ive seen whats in the 30 lus market and its all bad. All, bad. The women can just hope for a 2 decades of 3 month honeymoon relationships before they finally bow down and marry some fat slob smellin like cheap cologne willing to spend every dime he has on her, while she throws herself at young cats at the job who will take secret blowjobs when no ones lookin.
nikkas like you fall to. Comin home to an empty condo/house starts to be for the birds eventually but then, hearing some trap mouth dragon complaining about your socks in the bathroom will make you want to trade it all for lonliness. The people that played to much and wired themselves for that loner lifestyle, are for the most part fukked when it comes to relationships. Its part time lovers, Forever!cot dayum...
to be frank, i'm not trying to be an @sshole to the older women but keeping it real, if i'm a man in my late 30s/early 40s and i never married, chances are i'm a bachelor for life george clooney on a budget type dude. a dude in his late 30s is either a player for life or a simp for life. dudes in their early 30s looking for early mid 20s, dudes in the mid to late 30s still not married or divorced are on that living tha life tip...but you never know, there's always the exception too