All my single 30plus year ol coli females.....still have hope on marriage?

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Not to derail but I know a few 30 year old black chicks that got married. One in whom I had given up hope. You know, the endless requirement list type. Well I guess she shaved off a few requirements cause she married a fat nikka :russ:
Continue on though :popcorn:
 
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A lot of women in their 30s get this renewed "maturity" feeling that teenage girls get regarding boys.
Like when you see some 17 year old girl date a 25 year old.
Except a lot of single 30-ish women feel that way about 38-45-ish old men. So that gets dabbled in.
A few get married. Have a few kids. That boredom and resentment festers though.

Not all women, mind you.
I've just seen it happen enough to write down this observation. Including with some people in my extended family.
i see what you mean. Kinda like those guys were considered too "grown" for them and society would have looked at them funny but once they pass 30 it doesn't get funny comments anymore so it's a whole new batch of "eligible" men for them.
 

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i see what you mean. Kinda like those guys were considered too "grown" for them and society would have looked at them funny but once they pass 30 it doesn't get funny comments anymore so it's a whole new batch of "eligible" men for them.
That could be part of it.
Could also be that Silver Fox chase that goes on. I'd call it the George Clooney effect. Single, handsome, successful, charismatic, older (theoretically wiser)...

Lots of women find it attractive despite the generational gap.
 

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That could be part of it.
Could also be that Silver Fox chase that goes on. I'd call it the George Clooney effect. Single, handsome, successful, charismatic, older (theoretically wiser)...

Lots of women find it attractive despite the generational gap.
probably a mixture of a lot of factors. also depends on the chick's cultural upbringing, etc.
 

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Dismiss me with all that "academic studies" BS. Research 101 is that any "research study" can be skewed to the way the researcher wants it to be :skip:
 

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probably a mixture of a lot of factors. also depends on the chick's cultural upbringing, etc.
Yeah I think people in some cultures tend to have these wild age gaps in dating.
More than other cultures, anyway.

I'm not suggesting that men or women in their early 30s shouldn't ever date someone older.
Just that I think there can be a false sense of hope there because the generational gap still matters and always, ALWAYS shows up sooner or later.

But those are things that tend to happen when you're single for a long time. Eventually it's just natural to expand the pool from which you're searching.
 

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I find it funny nikkas think theyre worth more than women when they age. Womens prime years are as LONG as she looks good.

My aunt and I went to the mall last year. Shes 47. I was 19. Shes BEAUTIFUL. Who did the nikkas my age holla at? Even some dudes her age later on in the day.

Women aging is not something us Black women have to worry about :youngsabo:

















































:youngsabo:
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AGE 50

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AGE 72




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^IN HER 40'S. :sadbron:

We as Black women are not meant to age. All we have to do is take care of ourselves. We fine like wine :ohlawd:
 

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I find it funny nikkas think theyre worth more than women when they age. Womens prime years are as LONG as she looks good.

My aunt and I went to the mall last year. Shes 47. I was 19. Shes BEAUTIFUL. Who did the nikkas my age holla at? Even some dudes her age later on in the day.

Women aging is not something us Black women have to worry about :youngsabo:

















































:youngsabo:
long-hairstyles-for-black-women-2012-1.jpg

AGE 50

diahann-carroll-hairstyle.jpg

AGE 72


sanaa-lathan-the-2013-bet-awards-01.jpg


^IN HER 40'S. :sadbron:

We as Black women are not meant to age. All we have to do is take care of ourselves. We fine like wine :ohlawd:
stats say most black women are obese...not a good look when they age.
 
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