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Breh when she took that pic??
this is a new pic, but i want full this photoshoot
Breh when she took that pic??
Diva Q&A: AJ Lee on getting out of the "Friend Zone"
1: Treat her like a lady
Even though youve always kidded with your friend, if you want to start a relationship, start complimenting her more and teasing her less. Touch her more affectionately, and stop high-fiving her. Its your responsibility as initiator to show her how youd like to interact, so you need to start behaving more maturely, says relationship coach Rosalind Sedacca. Your actions cant be too extreme, though: Dont suddenly kiss her out of the blue. Take small steps to make her feel special and adored. Friends dont do that in the same way that intimate partners do.
AJ says: To move forward with a girl, there comes a point when a guy has to stop farting and burping in front of her, and instead tell her she looks pretty now and then!
2: Avoid the group mentality
Slowly ease your way out of your lady loves circle of friends and enjoy more outings with just the two of you. If youre too embedded in her life as a friend, she might not want to jeopardize that relationship. Also, you cant be intimate in a group. When youre in groups, everyone falls into certain roles, and its hard to just change your dynamic, says Sedacca. Being romantic is all about being a twosome. In a group, you cant make that secret eye contact or try to hold her hand without worrying about whether everyone is watching.
AJ says: This is a great idea, especially if your girl has a lot of guy friends. Guys always act differently in front of other guys, so if its just you and her, you can show her a softer side she hasnt seen before.
3: Take her out during dating hours
As much fun as your Saturday hiking trips or Tuesday happy hours are, to move from the cozy friend zone, start inviting your lady out on Friday and Saturday nights. Take her to places where people go socially to date, Sedacca says. You want to imply that youre looking for something along those lines, and this is a subtle way to move in that direction.
AJ says: I may not be the girliest girl, but even I know theres a huge difference between staying in and playing video games on a Sunday afternoon and taking her to Dave & Busters to play games on a Saturday night."
4: Casually hold her hand
Put your most chivalrous foot forward when youre both walking through a crowded room and gently take her hand and lead her through it. If theres receptivity and she doesnt let go right away, keep moving forward, says Rosalind. You have to make moves that are more date-like, and if she wants a relationship to happen, shell hold on to your hand. From there, try other subtle gestures, such as touching her knee when you sit down, or putting your arm around her waist.
AJ says: Holding hands is my style. Its innocent, not too forward and leaves a bit of intrigue. Take it slow, and if she likes you, shell soon be dying for you to take the next step and make out with her!
5: Invite her out as your "date"
Next time you need a plus-one, be it for a dinner you dont want to attend solo or if youre bold a wedding, ask her to be your guest and see how she responds to being called your date. Sedacca insists: This is a perfect way to feel out the next level and see how she responds around your friends and family. Positive things to note are if shes smiling around you and happy to meet your nearest and dearest. Reconsider your push, however, if shes acting like a wallflower and pulling away when you move too close.
AJ says: This is a much bigger step than holding hands, and a great test to see how she handles social girlfriend-like situations. But only attempt this if shes been happy with your other advances so far.
6: Let the plan come together
If you feel that youre getting the green light from your girl, then it means shes both comfortable and happy with this transition from friendship to relationship. But Sedacca suggests you hold off on the girlfriend talk for now: Dont have that conversation just yet, but instead, keep taking the next step. Continue asking her out next weekend and holding her hand, and through all these steps, a relationship will happen naturally.
AJ says: Girls arent oblivious. If a guy friend makes a move, we know hes interested in more. So if she isnt pushing you away, she obviously wants it, too. Just enjoy the ride.
So your dream relationship didnt exactly work out. It happens. But breaking up doesnt mean you have to cut all ties completely. Here are five ways to make the split and still stay friends.
Break up in person: Never, ever, is it OK to end a relationship via any form of technology be it text, email or phone. Give her the closure she needs and the ability to hear it all face-to-face.
Don't argue: No matter what she says, as the dumper, its your responsibility to keep a level head. When you feel your ire rise, instead of getting defensive, try saying, I understand how you feel.
Avoid all physical contact: Remember: From this point on, youre just friends and holding her hand, wiping away her tears and kissing her especially will totally blur the lines.
Focus on the positives: Emphasize shes a good person, and breaking up with her doesnt change that. Make her still feel valuable as a person, and to you, if you want to maintain some sort of relationship.
Give it some time: Take a few weeks before you hang again to let your emotions settle. Also, meet up in a public setting so as not to confuse the first friendly get-together with a date.
But the most important piece of all, from AJ herself?
NIX MIXED SIGNALS: The most important thing is to be consistent. if you are gonna go for it, fully commit and make your moves. Mixed signals will ruin everything. AJ
you remember this pic?
Edit and my notice to this: fukk you AJ/Dolph shippers
nikka get back to following twitter.
fukk you. Turek actually contributes around here and we all like him.
EVERYBODY on the whole damn Coli site hates your ass