Advice: For my NO PUZZY, Fapping ALL DAY, Scared To Holla at Women brehs

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Gotta agree with the premise. I be trying to tell these boys that in the quick lil gems thread, but most of these cats don't take heed.

And I been on both sides of the track. I was the nikka in the thread title all through HS. I was good looking, athlete, popular, class clown. Knew all the chicks. Got hugs from all the chicks. Smashed none of the chicks. :mjcry:

fukked my first night and college and shorty called me the next day to fukk again. :gladbron: Suddenly I had no time (or privacy) for fapping. nikka had to put himself out there to get a nut. But that natural urge when you reserve your life force? Nothing like it.

It's like when your mother tells you no candy before dinner because you'll spoil your appetite. nikkas spoil their appetite for p*ssy by fapping so they lack the moxie necessary to pull women. They're not "hungry" because of all that snacking on junk food. Get some substance, brehs.

True shyt. This is why I keep telling nikkas to get on that #nofap wave. What incentive do you have to pursue real women when you out here watching porn and nutting on yourself every day? :scust:

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Problem is as you alluded to that dudes are shooting out of their league

Women are just as much into looks as men if not more. While it's not impossible to get a women out of your league it's much easier to get a plainer women
 

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Even when I wasnt in a relationship random puss was so low on the chain of what I was after in life. Why pursue such a instantly depreciating commodity? Good p*ssy not gonna make you any more of a man than bad puss. You hit it and if you domt especially like the chick your left with a worthless human being to kick out your crib or awkwardly bounce from hers. Im in a field where i have a myriad of ops to cheat on my girl but why bother. Contrary to popular belief, p*ssy is not that fukking special. Telling dudes they are less of men or dumb because they not fukking regularly is hustling backwards. Telling them to fukk bytches they dont even find attractive is hustling backwards. Be picky. If you a awkward nerd, fimd you a awkward nerd. No reason to go "train" on fat ugly bytches :wtf: . This site is legit wo warpd from real life.
 

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Whole basis of thread is fukking stupid because women are not some monolith where you can approach every one with the same thing
 

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so how long do yall wait before you try to hit?

Depends on the chick.

Some girls have so much substance and are really fun to be around that sex isn't as important. They aren't demanding and asking for much. I'll wait a while for her.:takedat:


But some girl don't have much to offer outside of sex. And they can be demanding, wanting you to wine and dine. If that's the case, them draws must come down ASAP
 

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Some of y'all should just practice at interacting with people in real life.

If you're 21+ go to a bar by yourself and just practice talking to strangers and being cool in your own skin. Go from there. Try hitting up spots you wouldn't normally be at. If you only fukk with hood spots, go somewhere nice. If you always go somewhere nice, go to a hood spot. Be like George and just do the opposite of whatever you would normally do. Ignore your anti social instincts and just go for it. Randomly give women your number. Buy them drinks and move on with your night.

You gotta learn to laugh off rejection as part of the game, but the first step is learning to enjoy your own company in public.
 

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Problem is as you alluded to that dudes are shooting out of their league

Women are just as much into looks as men if not more. While it's not impossible to get a women out of your league it's much easier to get a plainer women

The vast majority of time a guy is rejected its with a woman in his league. Most people are average
 

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It's kinda shocking how complicated nikkas make females seem. :francis:

If you can make a man respect you, you know how to attract a women. It's that simple. :yeshrug:

It might be your intelligence, wisdom, worldliness, attractiveness, people skills, or whatever that makes people respect you but you just gotta be willing to express it. :yeshrug:

I know goons who got respect for me because I'm good with the business and slick with my mouth even though I'm a corny dude. Chicks dig those same qualities in me. :ehh:
 

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Yo real talk I want people to wage in on this. The thing is I'm in college right now and the vast majority of people are Asian/white. Now I don't really hang around campus too often, cause I just don't like being there.

Now I've had quite a few opportunities to holla at girls that aren't black. I'm not the most handsome guy but I've had some girls stare me down.. But its like I'd rather just try to holla at a black girl, if I'm going to holla at anyone.

Again, I could talk to a girl of a different culture if I want to, but again I really don't want to do that. Brown girls/white girls have approached before and I'm not even being cocky with it. Just gotta be patient I guess.
i feel you, i kinda wish i went to a hbcu
 
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