Advice: For my NO PUZZY, Fapping ALL DAY, Scared To Holla at Women brehs

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And can I say something?

I used to.be one of those people that just made excuses. I seriously saw it and said why am i doing this to myself? Like shyt....i dont even care. I just have to do it.

Like nikka i aint ugly...im pretty diesel no homo...these women check.me out. I used to think they was just checking out the wallet but then i realize why the fukk should i feel threatened or the need to be gauged by that when i got looks and game? Lol

I started realizing my faults. Where i was fukking up. And owned up to it. That was the most important part.

My attitude with women first and foremost? You need to know me. Straight up. Just like that. Haha.

Thats my approach. And just stay smiling and getting laughs out of her. Like i aint even trying to out it on like i want to fukk im gonna let her know that she needs to know me cause im a hella great person to be around and got connections. And i know my stuff about art and music. And whatever.

Its about building that confidence level. First. And foremost. Sorry im high and typing like im rambling but i used to be good with mackin ladies back.in the day then depression came out of nowhere and fukked me up for ages until i got treatment and a stable environment to do better in. Now im just living.
I stepped my game up from this point immensely.

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You sound like the opposite of me.
I aint swole nor got the looks nor get the attention. But i do talk slick to women every time they in my face.

Yesterday me and my momma was at the register where she was buying food. My momma bought some stuffed pork chops and the woman at the register told me, YOU GONE LOVE THOSE BROTHA, my momma told her HE DONT EAT MEAT, HE A VEGAN. and the woman says YOU LIKE MY DAUGHTER, SHE DONT LIKE MEAT EITHER. I tell her WHAT SHE LOOK LIKE, SHE LOOK LIKE YOU? :shaq: She says PEOPLE SAY SHE LOOK LIKE HER DADDY. YOU AINT GONE WANT HER ANYWAY, SHE 13. i hit the :whoa: and we left.
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Some of y'all should just practice at interacting with people in real life.

If you're 21+ go to a bar by yourself and just practice talking to strangers and being cool in your own skin. Go from there. Try hitting up spots you wouldn't normally be at. If you only fukk with hood spots, go somewhere nice. If you always go somewhere nice, go to a hood spot. Be like George and just do the opposite of whatever you would normally do. Ignore your anti social instincts and just go for it. Randomly give women your number. Buy them drinks and move on with your night.

You gotta learn to laugh off rejection as part of the game, but the first step is learning to enjoy your own company in public.
everything sound great till this :scust:
 

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I've very disappointing in reading the how many girls you smash thread. :what:And being one of the few dudes that's eating, I thought I try to turn a few of you scary pups into some will Wolves.



Most of you are just trying to trick yourself into believing "sex isn't that important" as an excuse when you're really just afraid of rejection and getting your feelings hurt. Sex isn't important but your computer flood with flicks? You worship sex.

Sex is very important. The ultimate stress reliever. As a Black Man in America, times are as stressful now then they've been in decades. You need a stress reliever.

You guys are wasting your prime years sitting on the bench watching life pass by. You're going to regret it when you're older.

I use to be timid and not to forward with women. I'm still not the holla all the time type. I pick my spots, do the online thing, get friends to put you on, holla at times etc. It's part-time job pull women. When I'm desperate or in a new area. I holler at 2 chicks a day. Or go to the mall and don't live without a number ever day. Change yourself.

I'm far from a great looking dude. I rarely get compliments from women. I have developed a nice little quiet/cocky/confident/sneaky vibe about myself. Women like it deep down, but won't tell to keep from blowing your head up more.

Where did my confidence come from? Getting PUZZY!!!

When you're getting puzzy on the regular there's no thirsty or nervousness in your game, maybe if the chick is a 8 and you're use to 5s and 6s, your game might be a little shaky and anxious. Women can tell when you're eating good out here. They get turned on by it. That's why 20% of the men are smashing 80% of the women. That's why I've get over 20 chicks a year if I'm single. I'm a pure whore when I'm single. And know I'm not smashing 9s and 10s. Most 5s, 6s, 7s. Usually when I get a 8, I consider dating her seriously.

Another thing you guys might be shooting out of your league as a pup. You need some easy kills. Big girls, single moms, girls with bad acne and crooked teeth. You don't have to parade her in the streets. Netflix and chill! Smashing them and them treating you well will help your swag and confidence. Then you can move from the 4s to the 5s and 6s. Some of you dudes are ugly, fat and broke. You got to start from the bottom G.


Another thing, keep yourself up. If you are ugly, like a 3 or 4. A nice haircut, white teeth, a crisp Polo, decent shoe and nice jeans will knock you up a notch. Like I say, I'm average AF, but I got them 360 spin, got my teeth straighten (needs whitening) I try to dress nice (not expensive) and I try to stay in shape somewhat.

And use whatever you got. You got muscles, take those baggy azz clothes off. You got a nice crib? Have a get together at house. That's what I always did. Nice car, you should be look around at every stoplight. "Hey, pullover right quick and let me talk to you" Works about 75% of the time if your reasonable. Dudes aint hollering that much no more so you being overgoing gives you points.

You fellas need to find some wolves to roll with. Not dudes that are smashing bad chicks, but run with the scavengers. Dudes smashing one notch up from Precious. Precious when it's late. Them boys will turn you into a wolf.


One life to live. Get money, fukk bytches.
:wow: preach for em
 
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