I agree with everything except the bold. I've knocked down chicks the first night by letting them know I desire them sexually. I mean actual date or chilling. That being cool shyt gets her knocked down later by another cat.And straight up...this is the worst thing im going to say.
You got to be kind of a dikk talking to women though in a way. I honestly seem the ways ive been talking to women and having success with them compared to not.
When im kind of a dikkhead and talking to women like i would talk to anybody else and talk more about myself instead of them and kind of pretend like they aint there and just listen and i gauge how they seeing it...it works. Cause then i just control the conversation. And i only ask about them when i want to just get to know them.
Simple dont even think about bagging.
Thanks to social media and all these women putting their thoughts im not afraid to verbalize.and contest some of these pijnts they got. I can pick apart whatever and use it in a conversation. It aint rocket science.
I know at the end of the day im not trying to put the oressure on a chick or even infer that i might be thinking about trying to hit cause then that taints the whole dynamic of the interaction or the relationship. But still...i try to just let them know they cool cause i like talking to them first and then see when and whre things go.
I just was more focused on getting my life my mind and my money right and i took the priority of getting laid to a low priority cause i was more focused on other things
Now that i got that taken care of and have a more stable living situation my attitude has gotten better and feel like talking to women more.
I just dont care.
That thread was mad depressing. No wonder why there's so much female bashing around here. I'm very concerned for some of these dudes in their 20s who haven't smashed all year or even worse, their whole lives
Another good tip I'll throw in is find a girl to just be friends with. Yes, it is possible to have a platonic relationship with a girl. Go out with her and her friends sometimes. You could end up smashing one of her friends but the main point of this is to be seen with a group of women. Women like a man who has options and if she sees you out as the only dude socializing with a group full of women that is gonna make her want you more so than a guy who is in the club/bar with a group full of guys.
This ain't rocket science brehs. That thread has me considering grabbin my jersey from out the closet and gettin back on the prowl cause it's obvious there's too much food out there that nikkas ain't eatin.
But ima try and stay faithful in 2016
@Stuntone I aint 21 yet I cant invite hoes to happy hour and asking them to smoke with you on the first convo makes you look like a bum
Nah I smoke maybe 2 or 3 times a monthYou a weedhead?
You're probably going to have to deal with mostly hoodrats or CAC girls trying to be cool. If you just smoke a little, you can get a nicer chick.
- Stuntone AKA The Thot Whisperer.
And can I say something?
I used to.be one of those people that just made excuses. I seriously saw it and said why am i doing this to myself? Like shyt....i dont even care. I just have to do it.
Like nikka i aint ugly...im pretty diesel no homo...these women check.me out. I used to think they was just checking out the wallet but then i realize why the fukk should i feel threatened or the need to be gauged by that when i got looks and game? Lol
I started realizing my faults. Where i was fukking up. And owned up to it. That was the most important part.
My attitude with women first and foremost? You need to know me. Straight up. Just like that. Haha.
Thats my approach. And just stay smiling and getting laughs out of her. Like i aint even trying to out it on like i want to fukk im gonna let her know that she needs to know me cause im a hella great person to be around and got connections. And i know my stuff about art and music. And whatever.
Its about building that confidence level. First. And foremost. Sorry im high and typing like im rambling but i used to be good with mackin ladies back.in the day then depression came out of nowhere and fukked me up for ages until i got treatment and a stable environment to do better in. Now im just living.
I don't just think, I am lolAnother thing, dudes be thinking they awkward.
This is actually the opposite for meA lot of this is true, but you can't trust a dude that aint getting no puzzy. He's unstable.
Most dudes who aint getting puzzy, there only friend are other no Puzzy getting dudes. Just a Circle of Ls and simpery.
Y'all nikkas on this site are too weird. nikkas trying to give unsolicited advice to random motherfukkers on the internet, why? It's like y'all nikkas come on this shyt to feel like your lives are better than the rest of nikkas on here. Talking about shyt that nikkas irl don't even care about like that "6 figures, 6 certs" shyt or taking advice from nikkas on YouTube about getting hoes. That shyt just comes off as so corny and try hard to me
I feel like the OP does a few lines of coke before every "about me" thread he makes here.
Never seen someone give so much unsolicited advice before.
Y'all nikkas on this site are too weird. nikkas trying to give unsolicited advice to random motherfukkers on the internet, why? It's like y'all nikkas come on this shyt to feel like your lives are better than the rest of nikkas on here. Talking about shyt that nikkas irl don't even care about like that "6 figures, 6 certs" shyt or taking advice from nikkas on YouTube about getting hoes. That shyt just comes off as so corny and try hard to me