Barack Obama was light skinned, ivy league educated, a wordsmith who even wrote some of his own speeches, was never seen in public wearing anything other than business, formal, or business-casual wear.
And yet they called him all sorts of slurs and literally tried to make him a one term president. It doesn't matter how peaceful, responsible, stable, educated and law abiding you are. White people have decided to take everything they hate about themselves and humanity and graft that on to us. They are so lazy they wanted slaves to work their fields and yet they call us lazy. They promote incompetent people to high positions in business and politics while calling us stupid. They commit massive fraud and violent crime whilst calling us dishonest. They abandon their children, beat their wives, and kill the whole family while calling our men deadbeat dads and thugs.
We are a scape goat for all their flaws and bad choices. Rather than admit that they make bad decisions and do bad things, they want to pretend that it's somehow our fault that they do things that are against their own interests. There is no criteria under which they'd ever come to see us as equal if we serve the purpose of validating their collective narcissism and self-serving falsehoods they use to pump their fragile egos.