@WeWillAllChangeOurStances I don’t posit it as a flaw-the permanence thing is because of the sum of a life and the people created from two having one night——> 20 turning into another life. Versus someone you genuinely want to be with the rest of your life, divorce is hard, it hurts, it is a part of life. Doesn’t make it “the same” or easy on either end. But can have more peace usually and formality than the former instead of “bytch just wanted my money after all this time!” Courts or no, back and forth over a human life that will grow up in it.
If someone only likes genitals but not the person or were drinking and having fun without those talks-this is unfair to create permanence on either side, as it does instill a likelihood of hard feelings, hardship and undue stress. Abortion may no longer exist after you emptied the clip in someone, somewhere. Americans are witnessing this.
Trans whatever “same shyt no womb” ers have a presence only for people who “do” that stuff-pronouns can be respected as well as an identity but no they aren’t the same. Lives can be valued, pronouns can be without hateful language but yes they also concern me about erasing women.
Some people are genuinely are into that and I wish y’all would stop acting like it’s not real, wherever you fall on the opinion sphere. Openness allows people to stop hiding it and hurting certain communities or forcing them into the “dark” with it.
Also some men truly desire to be with men, but also like vagina.