"A wife is temporary, A baby momma is forever"

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Calling me a ladyboy/girldude?

Nope, data shows baby momma dom is a good indicator of poverty :smile: and difficulties in the workplace-mothers fare worse at work :smile:

He got maids and tutors and cleaning staff? Private school money? What’s the purpose of the child if all you both want is sex and good times? You replacing her income entirely?
Lonely babble
 

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This is technically true which is why as a man u need to protect ur seed. Pumping and dumping can lead to a lifetime worth of misery.

The mother of ur children should be ur wife
 

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a BM could be temporary too if you decide to not be in your childs life

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It's true. If you're married and y'all divorce and have no children, business together, or whatever, you never have to deal with her again. A baby mama though, even if y'all break up, that baby ties you with her forever even after the child is grown and child support is finished.
 
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It's true. If you're married and y'all divorce and have no children, business together, or whatever, you never have to deal with her again. A baby mama though, even if y'all break up, that baby ties you with her forever even after the child is grown and child support is finished.
It’s okay to accept that it didn’t work out in either case, but the relationship being over has much lower consequences and boding than whatever led to the child. Many many women express feeling dark things during their pregnancy and realizing they didn’t want the man. It’s time we look at different models that don’t let children become
Casualties. They grow up
Into a lot of you on this site.
 

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@WeWillAllChangeOurStances I don’t posit it as a flaw-the permanence thing is because of the sum of a life and the people created from two having one night——> 20 turning into another life. Versus someone you genuinely want to be with the rest of your life, divorce is hard, it hurts, it is a part of life. Doesn’t make it “the same” or easy on either end. But can have more peace usually and formality than the former instead of “bytch just wanted my money after all this time!” Courts or no, back and forth over a human life that will grow up in it.

If someone only likes genitals but not the person or were drinking and having fun without those talks-this is unfair to create permanence on either side, as it does instill a likelihood of hard feelings, hardship and undue stress. Abortion may no longer exist after you emptied the clip in someone, somewhere. Americans are witnessing this.

Trans whatever “same shyt no womb” ers have a presence only for people who “do” that stuff-pronouns can be respected as well as an identity but no they aren’t the same. Lives can be valued, pronouns can be without hateful language but yes they also concern me about erasing women.

Some people are genuinely are into that and I wish y’all would stop acting like it’s not real, wherever you fall on the opinion sphere. Openness allows people to stop hiding it and hurting certain communities or forcing them into the “dark” with it.

Also some men truly desire to be with men, but also like vagina.

Cool, agree with everything you said! :smugfavre:
 
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