A lot of women aren't attracted to their husbands

[Max.]

Fact I know this Latina broad who's main goal in life is to have be a military wife

she ended up marrying some Mexican dude that looks like George Lopez

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

This is probably true more than people want to admit.

Yeah...but that's more because women can punch above their weight for casual sex BUT not commitment.

The woman that's a "5" can easily dress herself up and snag a male "9" for a summer romance/fling. When she tries to lock him down .

The male "5" would have a difficult time pulling the female "9" for casual fukkin but he's got a shot at a long term relationship with education + income + decent game + nice/stylish clothes etc.

 

[Devil Plisken…CMS]

I'm not reading that long ass diatribe but to sum it up I imagine it goes something like this


I hate women

I’m laughing strictly for the comedic element not because I agree

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Because its ingrained in boys at an early age
and men throughout adulthood by various media forms
that you have to pursue women.
The more they say no, the harder you pursue til you wear her down lol
Absolute bullshyt.
How women react from day 1 will let you know how the dynamics will go.

This 100%.

I don't like being an inconvenience. If a broad wasn't interested, I'd walk away and be done with her. Always felt my own time was valuable and it made no sense to chase after a broad if she already shows limited interest.

Chasing is OK if it's clear she's interested but just a little hesitant but wearing her down ain't the biz.

 

[Alvin]

Prove me wrong. I seen it in the military from first hand perspective .

Whenever we got a new woman in my division and she would spend the first few weeks talking about her husband all day and how much she loves him. A lot of us would hit the because we already knew what the deal was. Fast forward to a few months and she's getting a train ran on her on the ship (I have personally seen this happen 3 times while I was in the Navy). It's even worse on deployment. These wives were throwing orgies in their hotels whenever we hit a port . Imagine kissing your wife on the mouth when she pulls back in from a deployment where she got ran thru. Each time I wanted to tell the husband, but I figured they wouldn't believe me.


The fact is that women have to balance between men they find attractive, and men with resources. A man with both is rare so most women just marry the man with resources and get some D on the side from men they attracted to .
That's why I always when #Uglygang convice themselves to stack their paper; what makes you think she won't cheat on you my guy.
#GMB A lot of you married brehs about to be mad

People in general need to vet each other before they perform actions such as marriage or conceiving children #provemewrong. That being said not every woman is a hoe and not every man is dropping dikk into new p*ssy every 5 minutes

 

[mamba]

/thread. Unfortunately people still want to pretend that looks aren’t an important part of sexual attraction for women. It’s very hard to want to regularly fukk someone you aren’t attracted to. I have to say not to make this too racial but I’ve noticed that WW are the queens of marrying men they aren’t very attracted to. I see it all the time, pictures of the attractive wife with a strange looking poorly aged wm.

Add to that, that unfortunately there are still many men that don’t know how to fukk, which means the woman isn’t really getting her needs met. Hell I went to two affirmation parties in January and at every party every women had “I want to have great sex” on their vision boards, as if it’s something they’ve never been able to get. These are women in their early thirties. So in addition to not being attracted, he also can’t fukk her right either. Yikes.

Women want it all in one package.

A man that checks every box is a unicorn and women set themselves up for failure thinking such a man exists.

Men are more realistic. Rarely is the woman a man marries capable of checking all of his boxes.

 

[HiphopRelated]

Being attractive or not doesn't mean a lady won't step out.

 

[CarmelBarbie]

Women want it all in one package.

A man that checks every box is a unicorn and women set themselves up for failure thinking such a man exists.

Men are more realistic. Rarely is the woman a man marries capable of checking all of his boxes.

Eh, it’s not unrealistic for a woman to marry someone shes attracted to that is also a decent provider, its adding whatever other checks, especially if they’re very elaborate that make it more difficult/near impossible. Definitely has to figure out what she really prioritizes, and make compromises in other areas that aren’t as critical for her. Many do.
In fact per the op, there is a number of women that aren’t attracted to their husbands. Suffice to say many of these women may have prioritized other things over attraction and sex, and make those compromises in those areas, only to find that over time when compounded by other issues taking place in the marriage, that his looks and sex mattered more than she realized.

 

[Alvin]

In my opinion, it goes back to the options, lack of discipline, not being fulfilled, or opportunity presenting itself.

I remember when I was working on my master's degree a few years before I met my wife, I met this other young lady.

I ended up having to do a group project with her and realized she was very much married (I didn't initially pay attention to her wedding ring).

We exchanged numbers to work on our project, but I noticed over time the tone of our conversations moved more towards personal stuff and less about the school project we were working on.

She called me over one day and we were doing work and that later led to drinking and playing games and I ended up smashing. Her husband had a job that kept him gone a lot for work. I smashed her off and on for the better part of about a year or two until I graduated from that master's program.

I remember her opening up and being very candid with me one day about her husband working to much and her wishing he was home more. In my mind, I took it as I was just filling the void for him not being there.

I kinda peeped game later and realized she had been measuring me up for weeks and when she finally felt comfortable enough with me she stepped over the line and evaluated her "option" because "she wasn't getting what she needed at home" which was time and attention. I enjoyed smashing her as scumbag as that might sound, but for her if was more about me giving her time, attention, and conversation. I was providing that for her and her husband was not, because he was working all the time. He made good money too which he would send back to her, but his job would keep him away for weeks at a time.

this might sound crazy, but why not tell her no, she was married and you didn't want to be a homewrecker or piece of shyt?

 

[Alvin]

I don't think it has anything to do with attraction. Dudes are just trying to turn a hoe into housewife and it's backfiring.

These younger cats don't seem to have learned anything from the mistakes of the OG's. There is less stigma on a woman who cheats and sleeps around these days. Even if she has multiple kids by different dudes some simp will still out a ring on it. When back in the day she would never be taken seriously

The era of simps is just beginning.

facts

 

[Alvin]

Women joining the military are a different breed from the jump.

They will have more masculine tendencies than the average woman. Same kind of broads that are like "I get along with guys better than women"....we all know the type.

Imagine being in an environment where 8/10 people around you are decent looking women. Now imagine those same women have crazy high sex drives but are less picky (for casual sex) than the average woman. They just want enthusiastic dikk...they don't care if it's just average.

The dudes would be up fukking multiple women 24/7. Nothing would ever get done .

As for marriage. I think issues happen to people that have short engagements/dating periods. They haven't spent enough time together before marriage. Neither side realizes they're incompatible until it's too late.

It's really just the bolded

 

[yung Herbie Hancock]

What is wrong with you? So a woman finds her husband unattractive, so she decides to partake in orgies and gangbangs? The Fuccck? That makes zero sense.

I seen it in person. Maybe the military might be different but I've met more unfaithful wives in the military compared to faithful wives. You really don't understand the dynamics until you become "the other guy". The amount of women in the military that used to hit me with the "my husband won't find out" was crazy.

 

[BruhManFromTheFifthFlo]

Imagine dating/marrying someone in the services. They belong to the government, now


Had a homie that dumped his girl right before he left. Straight up told her he would probably cheat on her so they should just break up

 

[Alvin]

/thread. Unfortunately people still want to pretend that looks aren’t an important part of sexual attraction for women. It’s very hard to want to regularly fukk someone you aren’t attracted to. I have to say not to make this too racial but I’ve noticed that WW are the queens of marrying men they aren’t very attracted to. I see it all the time, pictures of the attractive wife with a strange looking poorly aged wm.

Add to that, that unfortunately there are still many men that don’t know how to fukk, which means the woman isn’t really getting her needs met. Hell I went to two affirmation parties in January and at every party every women had “I want to have great sex” on their vision boards, as if it’s something they’ve never been able to get. These are women in their early thirties. So in addition to not being attracted, he also can’t fukk her right either. Yikes.

 

[Big Boss]

Because a lot of them settled