A Generation of American Men Give Up on College: ‘I Just Feel Lost

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but to address some of the stuff from those tweets

The most lucrative majors being dominated by men isn’t the main issue. It’s that the most lucrative majors are the hardest degrees to earn. Complex math and medical fields, People don’t have the ability or Were not properly prepared to enter those majors

Social media grifters have polluted alot of peoples (young and old) expectations. A lot people are trying to make a living with crypto, YouTube and the internet

also, the rise of Amazon has created tens of thousands of jobs that pay well all across the country

I have a cousin that had a full scholarship, drop out to go work at Amazon
Yes you’re right about the complex math. That’s the reason I switched majors from Computer Science to Management Information Systems. You have to have a background in heavy mathematics to get that degree and we all know that speaks to a whole other issue when it comes to high school, middle school, etc.
 

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Starting college 2-4 years after graduating high school should be the norm, I think it would help a lot of people to have some real life experiences and be clear on their goals before going to college vs figuring it out as they go along
I don't think I can agree. 1 year sure, but when you're out of school working, it becomes exponentially more difficult to go back.
 

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I don't think I can agree. 1 year sure, but when you're out of school working, it becomes exponentially more difficult to go back.
It’s not about kids working full time - it’s about a series of internships, fellowships, travel and general life exposure. The vast majority of 17-18 year olds don’t know all the career paths available so you have them going to college picking majors that have no value or end up in majors that are so far from what they want to do.
 

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It’s not about kids working full time - it’s about a series of internships, fellowships, travel and general life exposure. The vast majority of 17-18 year olds don’t know all the career paths available so you have them going to college picking majors that have no value or end up in majors that are so far from what they want to do.
I think most of what you’re describing can be done in high school. But we would have to reform the whole 8-3PM and then two months off model and probably have to have school year round like in Finland. The summer could be dedicated to internships instead of a two month lay off. You could see how what you’re learning applies in real time. I’m also of the minority that thinks that there’s no such thing as a degree without value but there is such a thing as a degree with a cost that outweighs its value.
 

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It’s not about kids working full time - it’s about a series of internships, fellowships, travel and general life exposure. The vast majority of 17-18 year olds don’t know all the career paths available so you have them going to college picking majors that have no value or end up in majors that are so far from what they want to do.
That sounds great in theory but extremely difficult for most HS grads in practice. You have many HS's offering work study and dual enrollment in school. But after?

Wealthier kids already do that. They join Teach for America, the Red Cross, or some NGO and go travel. I don't see those as options for the average kid from small town America. I think there's a limit to how long you can stay out of the workforce depending on your family's income.

So to me, the biggest questions are, how you do pay for those "gap years" and who is structuring those experiences for them?
 

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we need to promote trade schools more and other alternatives like coding and internet learning shyt, you dont need college for those... :francis:
I think part of the allure of college is that high school kids rarely know what they want to do for the rest of their lives....college allows them to punt on that decision for a few more years.
 

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I think most of what you’re describing can be done in high school. But we would have to reform the whole 8-3PM and then two months off model and probably have to have school year round like in Finland. The summer could be dedicated to internships instead of a two month lay off. You could see how what you’re learning applies in real time. I’m also of the minority that thinks that there’s no such thing as a degree without value but there is such a thing as a degree with a cost that outweighs its value.
with HS, you get into work laws, minors being in workplaces with adults - especially when thinking about f500 and corporate roles, entertainment and athletics, etc. I know there are schools that have, or had, programs for HS kids, but I guess I don’t see how placing it in high school where kids are even less mature than college and where I think they should be focused on extracurriculars that make them more well rounded people helps. Having to go to an internship when there’s sports, theater, art, volunteering/tutoring, dance, part time jobs, etc to take place in doesn’t seem like a great trade off, expecting people to be grown even younger than we do now, which I think is already too young, I’m cool

That sounds great in theory but extremely difficult for most HS grads in practice. You have many HS's offering work study and dual enrollment in school. But after?

Wealthier kids already do that. They join Teach for America, the Red Cross, or some NGO and go travel. I don't see those as options for the average kid from small town America. I think there's a limit to how long you can stay out of the workforce depending on your family's income.

So to me, the biggest questions are, how you do pay for those "gap years" and who is structuring those experiences for them?
most wealthy kids in America do that after college. They go straight into college knowing what they want to do because of the level of exposure they have to multiple professions in their families and their families’ networks.

most kids who really need to work to support family aren’t going to college, so I don’t see this as the same group. Furthermore internships and fellowships can/are often paid, they wouldn’t be making any less than they would at the dead-end jobs available for HS grads who have no trades.

Lastly, these can easily be structured by more companies offering pre-college internships. How one pays for it is either by living at home - if you live within 50 mikes of a major metro center this is doable - or living with other interns/getting roommates if you need to move. Again, outside of thing like entertainment, internships are paid.
 

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I think part of the allure of college is that high school kids rarely know what they want to do for the rest of their lives....college allows them to punt on that decision for a few more years.
This is where I do agree that’s where putting this information back into high schools is beneficial. Soon as you get to high school all they’re talking is GPA, SATs, college applications when if they put equal effort into talking about trade schools, which professions are entered via trade schools (or JC’s and certificate programs) a lot of kids who waste 1-2 years In college only to figure out it’s not for them could’ve avoided it by picking a trade.

This article is the result of the American college after HS brainwashing
 

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This is where I do agree that’s where putting this information back into high schools is beneficial. Soon as you get to high school all they’re talking is GPA, SATs, college applications when if they put equal effort into talking about trade schools, which professions are entered via trade schools (or JC’s and certificate programs) a lot of kids who waste 1-2 years In college only to figure out it’s not for them could’ve avoided it by picking a trade.

This article is the result of the American college after HS brainwashing
You're overestimating the ability high schools have to influence kids.
Parent's are equally culpable, if not more. Their kids college acceptance is a status symbol for them.
 

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with HS, you get into work laws, minors being in workplaces with adults - especially when thinking about f500 and corporate roles, entertainment and athletics, etc. I know there are schools that have, or had, programs for HS kids, but I guess I don’t see how placing it in high school where kids are even less mature than college and where I think they should be focused on extracurriculars that make them more well rounded people helps. Having to go to an internship when there’s sports, theater, art, volunteering/tutoring, dance, part time jobs, etc to take place in doesn’t seem like a great trade off, expecting people to be grown even younger than we do now, which I think is already too young, I’m cool

most wealthy kids in America do that after college. They go straight into college knowing what they want to do because of the level of exposure they have to multiple professions in their families and their families’ networks.

most kids who really need to work to support family aren’t going to college, so I don’t see this as the same group. Furthermore internships and fellowships can/are often paid, they wouldn’t be making any less than they would at the dead-end jobs available for HS grads who have no trades.

Lastly, these can easily be structured by more companies offering pre-college internships. How one pays for it is either by living at home - if you live within 50 mikes of a major metro center this is doable - or living with other interns/getting roommates if you need to move. Again, outside of thing like entertainment, internships are paid.
I don’t think it’s a trade off of extracurriculars. Unless they’re a traveling athlete or something it’s not compromising those things. And I’m talking more about a formal shadowing process. Like I remember summer programs that I participated in when in middle school that had us shadow certain professions for days. I have a friend who became a dentist because of that and I knew right away that I didn’t want to be involved in banking because of that. And work laws aren’t an issue. If you’re incorporating that sort of system then legislation reforming work laws would go with it.
 

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most wealthy kids in America do that after college. They go straight into college knowing what they want to do because of the level of exposure they have to multiple professions in their families and their families’ networks.
I didn't say they didn't. I'm saying that wealthier kids have the option of doing either or.

most kids who really need to work to support family aren’t going to college, so I don’t see this as the same group. Furthermore internships and fellowships can/are often paid, they wouldn’t be making any less than they would at the dead-end jobs available for HS grads who have no trades.

Lastly, these can easily be structured by more companies offering pre-college internships. How one pays for it is either by living at home - if you live within 50 mikes of a major metro center this is doable - or living with other interns/getting roommates if you need to move. Again, outside of thing like entertainment, internships are paid.
Again, much easier in theory than in practice. The government would need to incent companies to do this if it were to be implemented on a large scale mainly because high school kids offer no type of benefit to the companies in terms of workforce planning. College and grad internships are more beneficial to them because they can offer jobs in the candidate's desired field shortly after seeing them work at a closer level.
 

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I didn't say they didn't. I'm saying that wealthier kids have the option of doing either or.


Again, much easier in theory than in practice. The government would need to incent companies to do this if it were to be implemented on a large scale mainly because high school kids offer no type of benefit to the companies in terms of workforce planning. College and grad internships are more beneficial to them because they can offer jobs in the candidate's desired field shortly after seeing them work at a closer level.
what? That’s the whole reason we’re in this mess, outside of stem fields, college degrees don’t match 1:1 to career tracks. There’s nothing a company can ascertain about a college freshmen or sophomore (most of these years are filled with general requirement classes anyway) when they take them into summer internships that greatly differs from what a graduating HS student can offer.

The government doesn’t have to incentivize then to do this, there are companies that do it now - I was in Inroads and had an internship prior to my freshmen year of college at Procter & Gamble. The only incentive needed is more kids showing a preference for 1-2 years of internships/fellowships prior to college enrollment. Gap years aren’t common in the US, whereas places like Australia take them frequently, it’s just a cultural shift that needs to happen
 
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