For you guys struggling to maintain your will. I did the no fap challenge multiple times and before that one which will be 100 day long tomorrow, my previous record was 93 days if I recall right.
There are (for me at least) consecutive barriers to pass before being fap free. I believe I'll be now because last time I "relapsed" was just off laziness. So the walls, from my experience are :
* D + 3/4, when the urge come right back at you and really hard. It's like your body needs it.
* D + 7/8, usually, you beat the first wall but there's another one right after (usually a week) which is on the same magnitude of the first one. If you beat it, the urge to fap is starting to slowly be killed
* D + 12/14, the urge is less tough and it's more about losing the habit now
* D + 30, the first month, after 20 days, you're usually better and don't have urges to fap anymore and from now on the urge is likely dead and process is about killing the habit
* D + 60, after the second month, from then on it's really easy. 30 to 60 was to kill the habit, once that's done, it's really up to you to maintain the challenge and if you slip, it's not due to a urge or an habit but most likely because you wanted to do.
Week ends / and or days off are the worst. So if you start your challenge, start a Thursday, so the two first walls which are the hardest comes during the week.
