How many of those Grant Hill personality types are attractive, and let’s keep it a buck, like black women? That’s another elephant in the room. A lot of those corporate and square black men like non black women, and it’s not just because they got clowned by black girls. A lot of black men do have colorism and hair texture issues. I’m not denying chasing thugs is a problem, but it’s not the biggest factor affecting black marriage. So between the thugs, the uglies, the men using women as placeholders, and the low effort men, black women don’t have a large enough pool of marriage material black men to choose from. Half this site is GMB.
Perhaps that’s from being raised by a single mother, and not seeing a functioning marriage on a daily basis.