75% of chicks won't date a dude without a job!!

[Sierra Mist]

Cosign. There's plenty of women that will fukk a no job bum as a fling, catch feelings, and subsequently end up with said dude. Seen it plenty times. There's a reason women are stereotyped as liking dudes that are a "work in progress." I personally won't date a woman who doesn't have a job, she should be working on that instead of trying to date.

Yea but when you do that you are putting yourself in the subordinate role in the relationship.

 

[Mars Blackmon]

Yea but when you do that you are putting yourself in the subordinate role in the relationship.

True. But these dudes have it made and don't care. Plus a lot of times these women have their heads so far up the dude's ass it's a non issue for them. And this crosses all racial boundaries because I've met more than my fair share of White hipster dudes that sit on their asses mooching off of women. Like I said some chicks just like a "work in progress" or a "project"

 

[Ain't That Something]

I got no horses on this race so a nikka out this thread. but on my way out I dunno why anybody going back and forth with mist. that nikka more confuse than a chinese puzzle.

 

[Tres Chic]

my dad wasn't shyt financially, I've grown up in a house where my mom was pulling most of the weight and I've seen what that does to families emotionally, economically, etc. I won't be going through that.

Not only does he need to have a job, he needs to be spectacular at managing finances. I'm not playing that shyt.

 

[Sierra Mist]

True. But these dudes have it made and don't care. Plus a lot of times these women have their heads so far up the dude's ass it's a non issue for them. And this crosses all racial boundaries because I've met more than my fair share of White hipster dudes that sit on their asses mooching off of women. Like I said some chicks just like a "work in progress" or a "project"

They have it made until the woman tells him to get out of her house...

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

They have it made until the woman tells him to get out of her house...

Not a possibility if you do your thing

Not that I advocate it. But a lot of these chicks know a dude is no good, and fukk with him anyway

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

dont know why these women so worried about if a dude they want workin or not

nikkas aint tryna spend much more then enough to get the ass anyway stop countin pockets

 

[Sierra Mist]

Not a possibility if you do your thing

Not that I advocate it. But a lot of these chicks know a dude is no good, and fukk with him anyway

Everything is a possibility. People change.

 

[rapbeats]

Nobody's job is 100% guaranteed. This economy is in shambles....those women are actually selfish if all they can think about is $$.We all trying to make it...

^^this.
If it was ealry 00's and we were fresh off that internet dot.com boom. them by all means go hard on a dude out of work. but nowadays. aint no love out there for ANYONE. i dont care if you got all kinds of degrees and grind hard. i've known people out of work for 2 years with a degree in something legit and crazy work experience. just got a promotion not long before he was laid off. the dude was just starting to make 70k. and bam. its all over. i think he probably just now got another job. thats how cold it is out here in these streets. so any lady talking wreckless right now deserves to be alone.

Now on the flipside. i would caution any lady to baby sit some grown man. there's a difference between being bonnie and clyde aka we in this together. and understanding its hard out there right now. but the moment it looks up i'm on it. vs some clown that just dont want to work.

 

[rapbeats]

They have it made until the woman tells him to get out of her house...

that only happens after the chicks you describe get tired of playing "build a man" with there dude. the shameful part is. a lot of those type of ladies dont even want a good hard working dude. cause if they got one. then they can no longer call the shots and they know this. some of these ladies like to be in the head role. and wont know how to deal with a dude on his P's & Q's. i've seen ladies literally intentionally sabotage a relationship with a good dude. because he actually TO good. So good that he has a say so, which means now the tables are turned, when someone goes bad in the relationship its no longer always his fault. its actually hers a lot of times. there are a lot of ladies out there that have spent their entire lives cussing out dudes and crying over dudes doing wrong. to the point. they haven't looked in the mirror to see how bad they could be in a legit relationship.

 

[Marvel]

True. But these dudes have it made and don't care. Plus a lot of times these women have their heads so far up the dude's ass it's a non issue for them. And this crosses all racial boundaries because I've met more than my fair share of White hipster dudes that sit on their asses mooching off of women. Like I said some chicks just like a "work in progress" or a "project"

Yep, I used to work with a fine chic that had a masters. Her man is about 10 years older than her, has a kids from a previous marriage and he doesn't do do shyt but sit around the house playing video games. A lot girls like bummy nikkas because of their mans dependency on them. If gives them a sense power and control over men.

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[Crakface]

Yea but when you do that you are putting yourself in the subordinate role in the relationship.

Those are meant to be part time relationships. A pimp doesnt need to keep a chick forever. Work her till she cant work that corner no more and its onto the next one.

 

[Crakface]

Yep, I used to work with a fine chic that had a masters. Her man is about 10 years older than her, has a kids from a previous marriage and he doesn't do do shyt but sit around the house playing video games. A lot girls like bummy nikkas because of their mans dependency on them. If gives them a sense power and control over men.

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But in reality they dont have any power.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

I thought this was common knowledge. I even made a thread laughing about the fact that some women will claim that they'll date a guy without a job.

If a man has a job or if he is looking for a job it shows that he has priorities straight. Why would a woman date someone who isn't employed or who isn't trying to get employed? Personality isn't enough and she'll only stick around with someone who looks good for only so long

 

[MikelArteta]

I thought this was common knowledge. I even made a thread laughing about the fact that some women will claim that they'll date a guy without a job.

If a man has a job or if he is looking for a job it shows that he has priorities straight. Why would a woman date someone who isn't employed or who isn't trying to get employed? Personality isn't enough and she'll only stick around with someone who looks good for only so long

i forgot you made that thread, the funny thing is women who are unemployed expect and have a list of requirements, look at any dating site occupation ":full time mommy", "stay at home mom"

the thing is even if you are making alot as a man and you lose your job more than likely your chick will leave you soon, women are accustomed to a certain life and lifestyle, if you datin them you guys go out to movies, restaurants etc., then suddenly you lose your job she is not going to stick around to eat ramon noodles and watch netflix or take the bus with you

"chris rock women can't go back in lifestyle"