72% trailer. Movie about out of wedlock births in the black community

[GiGi]

don't be surprised. I'm smart as fukk.
Started programming at 18 working fulltime and going to school. You wouldn't date me though...I'm not thug enough for you and I sure don't speak in Ebonics.
But I drive a Lexus and live in a 4 bedroom house in a 90% white neighborhood

LOL

I am college educated with an advanced degree, own real estate in two states, drive a Mercedes (my 3rd) and live in a predominantly white neighborhood in one of the wealthiest areas in my state. I was raised in a 2-parent home. My paternal grandfather was a prominent businessman and my maternal grandfather was a college professor. 100% of my schooling was private. Do I deserve a cookie now, too?

You are not "dateable" because you are a jerk.

 

[Ashley Banks]

if the one who is going to carry the baby for 9 months doesn't give a fukk then we can close this thread and call it a day

can you not quote me, thanks.

 

[GiGi]

But you and your dumb friends love beyonce and the other dummies poisoning black women, and you are a liar, black women are copycats/followers, they will follow anything mainstream, so I don't believe you.

The biggest sheep out there is black women, even the "so called conscious chicks" be on some other nonsense like the jill scott, erykah badu types.

(ignore)

 

[???]

(ignore)

fukk you. you see, you are one of those beyonce lovers, fukk off with your lying fake ass. "he monica lewinsky'd on your blouse".

fukk these fake women on here trying to defend nonsense.

 

[saint25225]

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[Chris.B]

can you not quote me, thanks.

 

[Colicat]

And they're absolutely right. You better be happy to get a man who isn't on parole, gay, or abusive.

Soo.... is that because there aren't any undamaged Black men?

Most of the college educated women I know are single and complaining are big boned to put it nicely. Its rare to see an in shape educated pretty black woman and they know it

Really.... so educated Black women are reduced to being unattractive and therefore deserving of single motherhood?

 

[Chris.B]

LOL

I am college educated with an advanced degree, own real estate in two states, drive a Mercedes (my 3rd) and live in a predominantly white neighborhood in one of the wealthiest areas in my state. I was raised in a 2-parent home. My paternal grandfather was a prominent businessman and my maternal grandfather was a college professor. 100% of my schooling was private. Do I deserve a cookie now, too?

You are not "dateable" because you are a jerk.

I drop knowledge in the IT thread in HL, my skillset is undisputed around these parts.

We don't know about you.

 

[???]

Soo.... is that because there aren't any undamaged Black men?



Really.... so educated Black women are reduced to being unattractive and therefore deserving of single motherhood?

Educated black women don't mean shyt, they playing the white man's game like everybody else, there aren't many "clair huxtables" out here, so stop defending nonsense.

 

[BlackFruitPunch]

And they're absolutely right. You better be happy to get a man who isn't on parole, gay, or abusive.

What I have said is, most black women are shocked as fukk when they see a nikka with his shyt together.
Chances are that nikka will explore his option before getting with them.

Truth hurts

Whelp this thread is done.

 

[Tropical Fantasy]

Most of the college educated women I know are single and complaining are big boned to put it nicely. Its rare to see an in shape educated pretty black woman and they know it

 

[Marc Spector]

Notice it says 72% in the "black" community, which no doubt includes bi-racial children created by black men.
You all need to quit acting like this is 72% of black women because it is not.
In fact the statistic would probably better read 72% of black men have out of wedlock children, because thecoli loves to talk about how black men are #HTH and #GetMarriedBrehs, and other races of women loooove black men, so one can put 2+2 together.
I'm not saying black women don't need to start making better decisions, I'm saying possibly 10-15% of that statistic includes bi-racial children created by black men, so quite acting like the blame rests solely on black women.

You make a very good point.

My next question would be....how much more or less likely is a black man to marry a non black woman? Whats the rate of married non-black women w/ a Black/Biracial child than non married non black women with a Black/Biracial child (is there even a way to measure such?)?

Quite frankly from my own POV, I would say that its a much more likely chance that a non Black woman will be married to the Black father of her child than a Black woman....But the sample sizes are so disproportionate and my father was in the military soooo that skews things....

 

[OatmealCreamPie]

don't be surprised. I'm smart as fukk.
Started programming at 18 working fulltime and going to school. You wouldn't date me though...I'm not thug enough for you and I sure don't speak in Ebonics.
But I drive a Lexus and live in a 4 bedroom house in a 90% white neighborhood

Hey, aren't you African?

 

[LA Fisher]

I just wanted a platinum thread. Ya'll enjoy yourselves now I'm out

 

[Ashley Banks]

Look breh's and brehette's, both parties are to blame for this fukkery, but as a man, we need to be held to a higher standard since we are supposed to be LEADERS of the household. Breh's, you are the gardener, you are the ones that carry the seeds of life. So before sex starts, it is men that hold all the POWER, women can not get PREGNANT without are sperm. Real ALPHA nikka's know this and are cognitive of the type of women they choose to sleep with. So once you decide to have sex and bust that NUT, you now lose your power and give it over to the women. I bring this up because only BETA males believe women hold all the power and they deflect responsibility. But I understand why a lot of you breh's think like that, because you grew up in a single parent home ironically, so with no father figure, the probability of you being a BETA thinking male are extremely high. With no male LEADERSHIP in the household, you get BETA thinking males, and you get young girls looking for the lowest in are communities to continue this fukked up cycle.

Also we need to bring up the religious aspect to this, You have 72% of or babies born out of wedlock, but in are community 95% of people believe in a GOD. In that 95%, 70% claim to be apart of some christian denomination and the other 20% make up being Muslim, Jewish and other belief systems. One of the core tenants of all of these Abrahamic faiths is to have NO SEX before marriage. So why are all of these Christians, Muslims and Jews in are community ignoring the rules of there religion? ​

First, let me say, I love you for not blaming women for everything.

Second, I don't agree with puting most of the blame on anyone, I think it's equal. But you would think the guys on here would agree with you since they're always preaching that "women should follow men and let them lead" etc etc but it seems like whenever anything bad happens, it's the woman's fault. Like how do you expect men to be good leaders if they are never held responsible for anything? They CONSTANTLY complain that black women are "too masculine", don't know how to be ladies, don't let men lead, then turn around and put all the black community's problems on us. Do you want us to lead or to follow? wtf