And this is exactly why we were against all of those little girls taking down that man's hair and painting his nails.
All of this starts out as the grown up playing best friends or mentor, and all of that public playing turns into private sessions where they really go to manipulate the girl/young woman and they always use innocent touch and then escalate.
Shouldn't no grown man be spending a bunch of isolated, alone time with an underage girl if that's not his daughter.
To be fair, we can't just assume he was playing that 'I see the blessing all over you' game. Did he meet this girl when she was above age and they just ended up married, such as meeting her when she was 20? If so, is it a bit creepy? Yes, but it's not the same as him taking a 15 or 16 year old girl under his tutelage and then marrying her 3 or 4 years later.