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[Luke Cage]

Most women aren't @HarlemHottie enough for compliments. Can't be gassing up people who don't deserve it.

 

[Vilify]

I learned a hard lesson today about this.

I'm classmates with this person who's genderfluid, but if you look at them, you would assume they were a girl. Told them they looked good in class and they were legit offended. Told me that it's the millionth time some guy in class commented on their looks when they didn't ask and didn't know the guy.

And when I said it, they were like "I know I'm pretty. Thanks tho. " Right after saying it left a bad taste in their mouth.

I gave them validation for free and made them feel like a victim.

 

[Neuromancer]

No. If you don't know a woman don't compliment her. If you want to talk to her start with a hi and look to see if she's receptive. No sense in giving away free validation.

 

[Neuromancer]

I learned a hard lesson today about this.

I'm classmates with this person who's genderfluid, but if you look at them, you would assume they were a girl. Told them they looked good in class and they were legit offended. Told me that it's the millionth time some guy in class commented on their looks when they didn't ask and didn't know the guy.

And when I said it, they were like "I know I'm pretty. Thanks tho. " Right after saying it left a bad taste in their mouth.

I gave them validation for free and made them feel like a victim.

What race were they?

 

[Mike the Executioner]

What race were they?

Latina/Hispanic, something in that category.

 

[Neuromancer]

Latina/Hispanic, something in that category.

Ah. Latinx ect. Yeah nah they are these new POC feminists. Don't even converse with them.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Most women aren't @HarlemHottie enough for compliments. Can't be gassing up people who don't deserve it.

Thanks, breh.

 

[Gold]

1 compliment.

I've pulled plenty women with an unexpected compliment. But you can see the glaze go over their eyes if you keep complimenting them on some .



The brehettes in this thread wont say it, but there is a point where a woman respects your compliments less because she aint did shyt to earn them.

1 compliment when you trying to pull them.. just 1.

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

These bum bytches think asking for a smile
Is the end of the world
The fukk you complimenting these hoes for
This is not 20-30 years ago
Where you could strike up a conversation with a random woman
Off a good willed compliment
And actually get somewhere with it
Most these bytches can’t even hold a solid conversation without deflections of hoe babble/victim hood attached to it now
It’s over

 

[Music Fiend]

You can compliment, but keep it an obvious good compliment that says something about her, not her looks.

Ex. You are fine! vs Everytime I see you, you are on point from head to toe. I said to myself, thats a woman I need in my life.

 

[DamienWayne]

Rarely

 

[Wildhundreds]

Latina/Hispanic, something in that category.

If you're black, never compliment a Latina.. Ever!!!

 

[Nymbus]

I learned a hard lesson today about this.

I'm classmates with this person who's genderfluid, but if you look at them, you would assume they were a girl. Told them they looked good in class and they were legit offended. Told me that it's the millionth time some guy in class commented on their looks when they didn't ask and didn't know the guy.

And when I said it, they were like "I know I'm pretty. Thanks tho. " Right after saying it left a bad taste in their mouth.

I gave them validation for free and made them feel like a victim.

you let that nikka sass you like that?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]