59 year old passport bro surprised/devastated 28 year old wife wants a divorce after citizenship finalized [Update Pregnant!!!]

Wiseborn

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I don't think anybody is pure. Culture plays a big part in shaping people. And western culture is far too lenient on women's bs and women know it.
The other answer is that western culture is strong.

You can probably hear a Taylor Swift song everywhere. There’s a US embassy in any country that you can visit and all they do is to try to promote american laws customs and culture around the world.

They have been extremely successful
 

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It comes to why dudes feel the need to be a so called “passport bro”. women being pragmatic and realistic



But to botsides it. It’s kind of an economy of scale situation.

You make 60K a year here and you get divorce raped here she gets 30K the house the car and alimony payments.


You marry abroad and you cash her out 300 dollars and that’s the end of it.

A simple breadwinner law just for marriages under say 20 years with no kids should just be they go with what they came in the marriage with either women will completely abandon the goal of marriage or they’ll get married and hope for the best.
 

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It comes to why dudes feel the need to be a so called “passport bro”. women being pragmatic and realistic



But to botsides it. It’s kind of an economy of scale situation.

You make 60K a year here and you get divorce raped here she gets 30K the house the car and alimony payments.


You marry abroad and you cash her out 300 dollars and that’s the end of it.

A simple breadwinner law just for marriages under say 20 years with no kids should just be they go with what they came in the marriage with either women will completely abandon the goal of marriage or they’ll get married and hope for the best.
If you make $60k you probably have a woman who is also working. No woman is getting half your salary in divorce 🤣

The issue is ppl with combined incomes (low individual incomes) divorcing and having issues rebuilding as a single person.

Don’t get it twisted; women ain’t coming out living a better life after divorce. Especially women with kids. They’re usually worse off.


Now, for a rich guy like HIM— It’s better for him that she dipped out now. He’s got the money to spare and if she doesn’t work and had stayed for like 8, 9, 10 years he’d be losing A LOT.
 

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At the bolded part - I agree. However, here's the thing. Many non-Western women know that the West is far too lenient on women and allows them to get away with foolishness. That's why many non-Western women want to come to the West. And if they have to get with a man they have no attraction for just to get to the West, so be it.
Stop watching YouTube videos.
 

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:mjlol: "the wall is undefeated" dude majority of women or men when it comes to relationship are not that different from each other. Guys going to Colombia when there are tons of Colombian women in Miami :mjlol:. Dudes are going to these countries to exploit.




You hit right on the nail, furthermore, many of them, are now falling into the same algorithm unless the country they are from have banned certain contents from being shown. In America, you get the true nature of a lot of women if she is not broke. You can at least find true love if she has her own shyt together
Define True Love.

We can get super black pilled on this but super simp sonnet singer Babyface made a song called “Love Makes things happen"


Sounded like a beautiful song it was about people bushing their marriages because they “fell in love”. with someone else

In the song he said You can have two kids and a good woman.

80 years ago that wouldn’t have mattered what wouldve mattered was the other song he wrote saying Love ( meaning commitment) shouldve brought you home last night.

There is a death of commitment and responsibility in the global urban culture. Fast food is all over every city in every country people treat relationships the same.

There’s been studies that say that people who live in exurbs and rural areas in all countries have more children and stay married longer.

So you can totally “exploit”. American women if you stayed in the states and found a woman down in the delta and not Sosua.

The girls in Yazoo City have fatter asses to boot.
 

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If you make $60k you probably have a woman who is also working. No woman is getting half your salary in divorce 🤣

The issue is ppl with combined incomes (low individual incomes) divorcing and having issues rebuilding as a single person.

Don’t get it twisted; women ain’t coming out living a better life after divorce. Especially women with kids. They’re usually worse off.


Now, for a rich guy like HIM— It’s better for him that she dipped out now. He’s got the money to spare and if she doesn’t work and had stayed for like 8, 9, 10 years he’d be losing A LOT.
That’s what makes the family law system here so goofy.

Absolutely you can divorce and not get halved in Divorce Court (she’s getting that house if it’s paid off though) but it depends.

You make 60K and be in the military she’s getting half of that retirement check depending on how long the marriage is.


Yes women are generally worse off in divorces ( they go on smash missions too) but again if a nikka is making 60K that doesn’t make you economically desirable to most women in the west.

The main reason is that women have problems making lifestyle adaptions a Man realizes he’s broke he sleeps on his momma’s couch till he figures it out women stay in apartments when they know they don’t got the rent till they get evicted.

Again that’s not just western women that’s all women.

I know we ask you especially to speak for all women but why do Black americans women be the least married but also the most divorced?

It seems like they want the title of wife more than the job or being a wife.
 

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Stop watching YouTube videos.
But that is the truth.

I kinda always assumed I’d live in another country and I spent signficant time as a civilian and in the military overseas

But what pushed me was the law that said that if a woman makes an rape allegation it’s treated as its fact even if the women low key withdraws the accusation.

I lost my job because I got arrested. Had I been arrested for murder they probably would’ve let the case play out.
 

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The other answer is that western culture is strong.

You can probably hear a Taylor Swift song everywhere. There’s a US embassy in any country that you can visit and all they do is to try to promote american laws customs and culture around the world.

They have been extremely successful

It is but not all regressive behavior seen in the Global South is a product of the West.

In Africa, a woman you come across is far more likely to have out of wack expectations and seek transactional relationships due to some Nigerians than anything she consumed from America.

A lot of these countries already had some regressive cultural beliefs that ignorant Westerners will automatically assume is a product of us exporting our culture.
 

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I’ll be honest, a lot of yall are in for a rude awakening as you get older. This ain’t got shyt to do with passport brehs. This just typical relationship shyt especially for an older breh dating a younger chick which I’m pretty sure this site subscribes to. Ain’t half of you “GMB”? So, what do you think your 50s and beyond is gonna look like?! :wtf:

Chances are you’re gonna have an atypical relationship setup of some type, just like him. And he said something deep here too ‘She has Tik tok and other forms of validation’. If you dealing with modern and/or younger women you gon have them same issues. A lot of you need to be and will be humbled
 
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