59 year old passport bro surprised/devastated 28 year old wife wants a divorce after citizenship finalized [Update Pregnant!!!]

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Western women want to get the good parts of traditional gender roles but not play any of he other parts. Like taking care of home, husband and kid. So there is a conflict with that situation.
It can't work one way. So they shame men who won't pamper them in return for NOTHING. I would have no issue taking care of a woman but I also wouldn't want her thinking she the prize. That's not congruent
Eeeeeh most women know they aren’t getting a man who can retire them and put them in a house.

If you get a full provider the trade off is being a “traditional” housewife. I think there are women who get caught up bringing finances to the table and doing majority of the housework/childrearing and no one wants to get stuck in that trap.

I never bought into white men being rich or being better because while I have DEF been around affluent whites who could afford a stay at home wife, housekeepers, etc and their wives lived like princesses, I’ve also seen married white women who make majority of the money AND still have to drop the kids off at daycare/pick them up from school and do all the housework while their white husbands barely work. A lot of these white women are DOWN BAD with their white husbands.


For as many men who have legit complaints, there are women with legitimate complaints as well.

The healthy ppl in relationships with healthy dynamics aren’t putting their business online. Miserable ppl are doing the most on social media.
 

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Western women want to get the good parts of traditional gender roles but not play any of he other parts. Like taking care of home, husband and kid. So there is a conflict with that situation.
It can't work one way. So they shame men who won't pamper them in return for NOTHING. I would have no issue taking care of a woman but I also wouldn't want her thinking she the prize. That's not congruent


This is why we need to get off this social media shyt. This is the exact same phrase women use to describe “western men”.

“Men can’t fully provide for a household but don’t want to contribute to the daily housework alongside their wives”.



We gotta stop this.
 

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Eeeeeh most women know they aren’t getting a man who can retire them and put them in a house.

If you get a full provider the trade off is being a “traditional” housewife. I think there are women who get caught up bringing finances to the table and doing majority of the housework/childrearing and no one wants to get stuck in that trap.

I never bought into white men being rich or being better because while I have DEF been around affluent whites who could afford a stay at home wife, housekeepers, etc and their wives lived like princesses, I’ve also seen married white women who make majority of the money AND still have to drop the kids off at daycare/pick them up from school and do all the housework while their white husbands barely work. A lot of these white women are DOWN BAD with their white husbands.


For as many men who have legit complaints, there are women with legitimate complaints as well.

The healthy ppl in relationships with healthy dynamics aren’t putting their business online. Miserable ppl are doing the most on social media.
I think there are men who could retire women but they want both sides playing gender roles. My typical take away of women in the west who want men in traditional roles is that they want to be trophy wives. Not home makers. Pampered and cared for but not caring primarily for the family themselves. Still get a nanny/ maid service etc. I see this shyt all the time. That there is the great divide.

As a man I can function in any dynamic as long as my partner is holding up her end. If I have someone I can trust to be a nurturer I can be a provider. Or we can share the financial obligations and home work. But I won't be no one's sucka. I said Westen women because they are primarily the ones on social media showing that they don't understand the other side of traditional gender roles they demand from men.
 

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Western women want to get the good parts of traditional gender roles but not play any of he other parts. Like taking care of home, husband and kid. So there is a conflict with that situation.
It can't work one way. So they shame men who won't pamper them in return for NOTHING. I would have no issue taking care of a woman but I also wouldn't want her thinking she the prize. That's not congruent
You just made the Passport Bro argument.

I can understand that women ain’t cooking and cleaning no more but western women still want Men to pay all the bills

This dude looks like the fatter Older Richard Gere with Down Syndrome. He’s a disrespectful trick so he searched the world to find a bytch willing to put up with him for the cash the end.

He’s playing the dumb trick role but the nikka made sure he nutted enough to make sure leaving him wouldn’t be worth it.
 

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This is why we need to get off this social media shyt. This is the exact same phrase women use to describe “western men”.

“Men can’t fully provide for a household but don’t want to contribute to the daily housework alongside their wives”.



We gotta stop this.
They can’t do this in the west.

Again theres gonna be a lot of people living abroad because they didn’t properly prepare for retirement

So a dude could take a western woman on a permanent vacation with a cook and maid or a Man could just go himself and find a woman willing to deal with him.

I agree the passport bro bragging and the people shaming has to stop. The children for a lifestyle deal is old as time and happens everywhere.
 

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You just made the Passport Bro argument.

I can understand that women ain’t cooking and cleaning no more but western women still want Men to pay all the bills

This dude looks like the fatter Older Richard Gere with Down Syndrome. He’s a disrespectful trick so he searched the world to find a bytch willing to put up with him for the cash the end.

He’s playing the dumb trick role but the nikka made sure he nutted enough to make sure leaving him wouldn’t be worth it.
No I didn't. Passport bros don't primarily want a family and they are not primarily looking abroad because they couldn't find an ideal spouse. They are primarily horn dogs. Let's just be straight up.

I'm not opposed to traveling and having fun but let's not pretend they went that way for an ideal woman as opposed to an easy one. My 90/10% observational stat stands.
 

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What are you talking about? Diddy could’ve cashed her out for much less and let her disappear into the night YEARS earlier.

He treats ppl like objects as well.

And you seem to miss something pretty obvious: Cassie was clearly not working on her own. She had a team of attorneys and most likely the government behind her to take him down. She was just the face. That shyt only kicked off AFTER he pissed off the multibillion dollar liquor company.

I don’t know how you can even possibly compare Diddy/Cassie to this situation.
The comparison is both dudes dealt with “submissive Phillipinas”. who eventually backdoored them if you want to call it backdooring them.

Lets just say they both dealt with women who cost them money during and after they stopped dealing with them.
 

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No I didn't. Passport bros don't primarily want a family and they are not primarily looking abroad because they couldn't find an ideal spouse. They are primarily horn dogs. Let's just be straight up. I'm not opposed to traveling and having fun but let's not pretend they went that way for an ideal woman as opposed to an easy one.
Again what’s the problem?

Women have “hot girl summers”. ( and autumn winters and springs) anyone including divorced women will tell you how recently divorced women give it up literally.

Other than demonizing Men for being Men what are we doing here?

As a dude living overseas women date overseas and the clubs be packed with them. Somehow it’s only a problem when Men do it.

Besides as a Man you know how Men work no Man is looking for a wife they’re looking to smash what happens is a chick they meet sucks a good dikk and hooks a steak up and he falls in love.
 

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He definitely is. His tiktok is full of cringe worthy second childhood overgrown child videos that would turn off any woman and make any man not even want him in their social circles :pachaha:
I mean without even looking at his weird Tik Toks he’s a wealthy YT he can’t find a fellow YT to take that deal?

They did saw how weird he was and bushed him.
 

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Again what’s the problem?

Women have “hot girl summers”. ( and autumn winters and springs) anyone including divorced women will tell you how recently divorced women give it up literally.

Other than demonizing Men for being Men what are we doing here?

As a dude living overseas women date overseas and the clubs be packed with them. Somehow it’s only a problem when Men do it.

Besides as a Man you know how Men work no Man is looking for a wife they’re looking to smash what happens is a chick they meet sucks a good dikk and hooks a steak up and he falls in love.
I didn't say it was a problem. The problem is being a dude saying you can't find a decent woman then going to the ends of the world to bag a former street Walker or start a harem. That shyt don't compute :skip:


Hence know yourself. My issue was the premise that they all mostly going only for better quality women looking for family value
 

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He’s rich and couldn’t trick off on one who look like this
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:what:
 

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I didn't say it was a problem. The problem is being a dude saying you can't find a decent woman then going to the ends of the world to bag a former street Walker or start a harem. That shyt don't compute :skip:


Hence know yourself. My issue was the premise that they all mostly going only for better quality women looking for family value
well people cap for social media. A nikka telling you he’s goning to Sosua to find a wife is lying.

Just like a chick saying she’s going on a girl’s trip to Jamaica is lying.
 
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