I keep telling brehs on here that the woman HAS to have some attraction to you for the marriage to work, and they keep telling me it shouldn’t matter on the woman’s side, as long as the man provides stability. I couldn’t even finish my rants yesterday because I had to get on a plane.
I’d NEVER want a woman who was only with me for my personality, or money. If she is repulsed by you, it will lead to a dead bedroom. And it doesn’t seem consensual knowing she doesn’t want to touch you, but she makes herself available out of obligation. You might as well pay for escorts if you will settle for no mutual attraction. Just because you see a woman, and she looks better than the man doesn’t mean she isn’t attracted to him. But usually when there is an extreme contrast, she’s struggling physically. Women post about this all the time.
I’ve explained this extensively from a woman’s perspective and they don’t want to hear it.
This is EXACTLY why they fall into these types of relationships/patterns with women. Because they are the type of men who don’t actually GAF about what women want. They want us to want what they think we should want and to perform like a robot. They are fine with a woman sharing herself out of “obligation” because they don’t care about a woman genuinely desiring them.
I said it before: there is NOTHING like mutual physical attraction. If you’ve never experienced it, you fall into this lane of thinking.
Yea we want provision and protection, but no one is enthusiastically jumping on the dikk or folding your laundry with love if we ain’t actually into you. That takes a true sex worker who literally only sees you as a means to an end. I.e. THE MAIN TYPE OF WOMEN MIXED UP IN THESE PPB CHRONICLES.
A woman marrying you because of money is like a man only marrying a woman because she cooks and cleans. They are only there because you fulfill a role. No attraction, no emotion, etc.
That’s the quintessential transactional relationship they say they are running from!
These guys don’t want real relationships; they want to feel like they have the money to BUY a woman/wife experience.
How could we all see the tension and body language in those TikToks but his dumb ass posted and viewed them and couldn’t see it?! Because he’s a lame with no social skills and couldn’t pick up the vibes in his own house. THAT is why they end up in these crazy situations.
