They’re attractive. Of course they want attractive men. If you know well dressed men get more women, then dress better. What’s so difficult about dressing better? Life is a competition. There are other brehs who are just like you, same job, but they get the girl because they know how to dress, can have a good conversation, don’t come off desperate, and are confident. Stick to women on your level. If you’re average, you’re going to have to settle for average, just like average women have to settle for average men. You are not entitled to anyone because you're nice, and stable. Swag doesn’t mean thug or drug dealer. It’s offensive you think those men are the only black men who can pull attractive black women. The nerds of other races are not pulling Megan Fox type women unless they have money. But we have black men on this very site who think they’re going to dress sloppy, be out of shape, have no personality, no money, and want a beautiful woman to accept a coffee date and go 50/50 to live with a man she isn’t attracted to just to have someone. In her mind, she’s better off alone. And that’s a bitter pill to swallow. There are women who would rather be alone, and have freedom, than be with a man she doesn’t want, and have to PAY to be with him.