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- Hated by FD Signifier and Ill Bill and that whole contingent
This is one of her better ones though.
45% Of Women Are Expected To Be Single And Childless By 2030
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One the one hand
On the other hand
This is one of her better ones though.
i hear you sis but lemme ask you this...why cant one do/balance both?
my sister gradudated from her masters around age 25, passed the bar exam and got married at age 26, had her first kid at 28
she is now 46, with 2 kids, a dog, a home in one of Toronto's most expensive neighborhoods and is a lawyer high up in the federal government making 250-300K. Her husband is a partner or managing director at a well known consulting firm as well.
The blueprint is there and it isnt that difficult to achieve with some sense and sacrifice. A lot of black women just seem impressionable, delusional and want everything to be easy for some reason.
This is true Black women especially were super power boosted to do whatever it took to stay out of Miss Anne’s kitchen or out of the welfare office.
There’s complicity all around.
That being said women should keep it a bit more real. When the latest big back was on the Kendra G show with her long list of requirements Kendra told her she might fell differently in a couple of years.
thats part of the problem. i dont watch that show but why are being politically correct?
why are women being taught that they can have everything and anything they want in life. that is textbook delusion/narcissism. we need women to start telling each other when they are being unrealistic and downright stupid. but it wont happen because the blind are leading the blind.
only when the delusion is ridiculed and shamed can shyt reset because whenever men speak up we are called incels, sassy, gay
like why are we normalizing women going to sperm donors to have b*stard children? its comical
We have to acknowledge the culture of using sex to sell shyt to #bothsides
Your sister did it the right way and linked with a dude soon after college
what women don’t like to admit like Men they want to spend a few years going through a hoe phase.
The only problem with that is that a hoe phase usually starts as soon as she hits puberty ( not saying that she acts on it) and doesn’t stop till whatever age that dudes stop hollaring hard.
Men’s hoe phases start usually when they get their shyts together so they see the difference and shallowness of girls who passed up Steve Urkel for Stephon Urkel
Girls never learn the difference of why a shallow nikka would want only the version of her with 5 pounds of make up and a BBL and the one’s that want the real her.
That was 21 years ago breh, before hinge, tinder etc.
The options even the 35 year old cashier at McDonald's with a gut has is endless in terms of attention and nikkaz who want to smash. Being tied down to one nukka is boring to many of these chicks they love the thrill of something new.
Women won’t listen when you give it to them straight. Kendra hides her Kevin Samuels talking points behind her Just reading the superchats so she’s not saying that she’s just reading what the viewers are saying.
It's the Disney complex as well . A woman in her prime with a nice body and attention doesn't think it's going to run out. Only when it does and the male gaze is gone thrt get Aggy.
You’re absolutely right.
Here’s the thing, hindsight is 20/20.
Ppl say this, but everyone can understand when a young man is thrown off track or catching up in life because of whatever trauma, etc he had to deal with in his younger years.
A lot of those younger Black girls don’t get the proper dating/man education you need when you are young and pretty and all the guys are around. OR maybe you’re the frumpy girl who doesn’t understand the importance of your youth and beauty so you don’t “glow up” until like 32.
Black girls in the West weren’t really socialized like other girls in the last 1-2 generations, especially if you didn’t grow up middle class or better with good males around.
That’s part of where all this soft life shyt comes from. A lot of girls were told to trust themselves, and after a while you look around and realize yea…you could’ve trusted someone along the way if you really realized one of those guys might’ve wanted to be with you for the long haul. A lot of Black girls aren’t taught that that type of love/situation is available for us.
A lot of the girls you see had to get out of some struggle and didn’t grow up knowing HOW to find a man to truly depend on.
Everyone wants to talk shyt to 30+ YO black women, but I keep saying- no one wants to say shyt to the ppl who raised them. Mothers AND fathers.
You don’t just know this stuff at 20, 22.
Them white and Asian girls get the game plan at 15 and go to college ready to strike
. And I’m not mad; that’s the way to do it.
Many Black girls don’t get that lesson in the home.
sis found her husband in high school
thing about a man's hoe phase is that if he found a woman who was cool and there before he made it, there is a strong chance it wouldve never happened
i aint talking about lebron james level made it but lets be real. Most dudes dont have game and arent considered attractive like that to women. Before men reach a level of success they are pretty fine and complacent with the around the way girl. Once they "make it" and start to learn and become confident in their abilities to meet women...thats when they start going to work. And often times it isnt because they want to be a "hoe", its because they cant find a woman worth committing too but still want to get a nut off from time to time
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You see it. Vance said some shyt recently about that; folks need to have more babies and shyt, on some save the cac race
facts all around. what i will say now is THISYou’re absolutely right.
Here’s the thing, hindsight is 20/20.
Ppl say this, but everyone can understand when a young man is thrown off track or catching up in life because of whatever trauma, etc he had to deal with in his younger years.
A lot of those younger Black girls don’t get the proper dating/man education you need when you are young and pretty and all the guys are around. OR maybe you’re the frumpy girl who doesn’t understand the importance of your youth and beauty so you don’t “glow up” until like 32.
Black girls in the West weren’t really socialized like other girls in the last 1-2 generations, especially if you didn’t grow up middle class or better with good males around.
That’s part of where all this soft life shyt comes from. A lot of girls were told to trust themselves, and after a while you look around and realize yea…you could’ve trusted someone along the way if you really realized one of those guys might’ve wanted to be with you for the long haul. A lot of Black girls aren’t taught that that type of love/situation is available for us.
A lot of the girls you see had to get out of some struggle and didn’t grow up knowing HOW to find a man to truly depend on.
Everyone wants to talk shyt to 30+ YO black women, but I keep saying- no one wants to say shyt to the ppl who raised them. Mothers AND fathers.
You don’t just know this stuff at 20, 22.
Them white and Asian girls get the game plan at 15 and go to college ready to strike
And I’m not mad; that’s the way to do it.
Many Black girls don’t get that lesson in the home.
We are all grown, we all have internet and even therapy access. Are we gonna continue to make the same mistakes to continue to carry the baggage and act a fool? As a man who grew up in a 2 parent home it is CRAZY FRUSTRATING when you try to show a woman what's really good when it comes to these relationships and they simply wont trust you, wont let you lead, wont cooperate etc. It seems damn near impossible to meet a woman who comes from a stable 2 parent household and understands these things...the importance of communication, conflict resolution, respect, trust etc.
its a mess and instead of righting the ship we are perpetuating it by having more children out of wedlock, getting into more situationships, and ultimately placing no value on the blueprint we should all know at this point
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Of course. But see, family is supposed to keep it real about that shyt too.
I’m trying to tell y’all; older folks do NOT talk to young Black women like you think they do. Chicks don’t realize this until they are invisible without makeup.
And I’m not saying that to be funny. I’m saying that as someone who is serious about skincare cuz I got the memo on the importance of my looks.
Of course. But see, family is supposed to keep it real about that shyt too.
I’m trying to tell y’all; older folks do NOT talk to young Black women like you think they do. Chicks don’t realize this until they are invisible without makeup.
And I’m not saying that to be funny. I’m saying that as someone who is serious about skincare cuz I got the memo on the importance of my looks.
Yeah alot of women think the male gaze will be on them for a while but it comes and goes and it's fleeting. In the past I would just take a gander at a instagram at some old chicks I canoodles ane cavirted with and I was like
as they are nearing 40 . Still single still out there but looks are fading I thank God it didn't work out with them
Do you think my two African parents talked to my sister lol? It’s not really that necessary…my mom is even my sisters step mom. At best my parents just led by exampleOf course. But see, family is supposed to keep it real about that shyt too.
I’m trying to tell y’all; older folks do NOT talk to young Black women like you think they do. Chicks don’t realize this until they are invisible without makeup.
And I’m not saying that to be funny. I’m saying that as someone who is serious about skincare cuz I got the memo on the importance of my looks.
It’s more of a cultural/values matter than anything. A lot of black women just see men as a financial tool and nothing else. Thats where this soft life bs comes from. The idea of a woman living a soft life doesn’t even make sense based on my familys history and values