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The ADD

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I know for me I would rather be with one person who likes me and I like them :manny:

I really can't be involved with a woman I don't share a emotional connection with

That's also one reason why I couldn't cheat. Also why I don't buy that all men cheat crap people like to preach.


Anybody else feel the same?
That's more monagomy than casual sex. "Casual sex" is a little opened ended.
 

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I'm telling you, do some deep research on this chick and get ready to run.

That's a front. 9/10 chicks that send Bible verses and shyt are over compensating for some thot like behavior.
You might be right man. I get some weird vibes from her sometimes. Something seems fake. I'm letting my crush on her dictate how I handle this. I'm really trying not to run game on her. I'm trying the honesty and respect thing. But I've seen her be hella ratchet. She got mad and the hood rat came out. Her voice changed and everything. She went off on this lady at work. I think she thinks I'm suburban as fukk so she's fronting. She's from East Oakland too. Like deep East Oakland. You got me nervous now.

I really hope she's not a low key thot or hella ratchet. I've curbed many bytches for this bytch. I got an Asian on deck. Got this fine ass white girl on deck too. And a Portuguese girl on deck. I almost forgot about the last girl from my revenge fukk list on deck. This Salvadoran girl who's stacked up top. I could be flirting with my supervisor too.

I got a thing for other people's gf's. I wasn't raised right and my friend were scum bags. I'm working on it. No more other nikka's bytches. But half the time I didn't know they were serious until we were serious. I was mislead.
 

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I don't see the point in it either but I'm woman and we tend to need more than consent and a body.

But most of the time that's because women have feasted from ages 16 - 22, and get tired of meaningless sex. If a lot of guys had the same period where they could sleep with pretty much anybody they wanted to, and have it in their back pocket that they continue to do so if they wanted, I truly believe many of them would require more from women as well.

People underestimate how much circumstance plays into our desires. Like we really think a woman who had attractive men willing to please them at the push of a button for a long time, is going to be mentally anywhere near some dude that has had continuously improve himself, meet tons of people, and take dozens of shots just to get a sniff of some chicks that aren't even really what he wants.

When their mentalities are different, it's because "Women are this, and men are this". Maybe it isn't so much their gender as it is what the two different people have gone through.
 

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I feel the same way. However, being a gay man and all. Many gay men do not feel the same way and to me, that's problematic. For crying out loud, you got guys that are like they can't commit or feel they have to be in open relationships. To me, that's a problem. I don't want a relationship that revolves around sex where anything else is not genuine to the point where it's meaningless.

It annoys me to see how people take things like love and romance as a joke where they refuse to get their heads out their ass before it's too late. It's usually these guys waiting til 60 to settle down and it's like are you serious? You fukking all these guys and let's be real, how many of them are fukking right where you enjoy the sex. That's why I can't even bother with this shyt. Too many bullshytters and they passing around diseases too on top of that not even checking their health.
 

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But most of the time that's because women have feasted from ages 16 - 22, and get tired of meaningless sex. If a lot of guys had the same period where they could sleep with pretty much anybody they wanted to, and have it in their back pocket that they continue to do so if they wanted, I truly believe many of them would require more from women as well.

People underestimate how much circumstance plays into our desires. Like we really think a woman who had attractive men willing to please them at the push of a button for a long time, is going to be mentally anywhere near some dude that has had continuously improve himself, meet tons of people, and take dozens of shots just to get a sniff of some chicks that aren't even really what he wants.

When their mentalities are different, it's because "Women are this, and men are this". Maybe it isn't so much their gender as it is what the two different people have gone through.
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sex is overvalued mainly cause a lot of males cave when females use it as a bartering chip


it's just another sport for me seeing as the aim isn't children at this point


i just give love to the women loving me


i chill and let them choose


keep myself at the center of my world sex just comes on its own


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There is no point to it. It's an empty unfulfilling experience.

And any guy that feels casual sex is necessary is clearly suffering from some deep emotional issues.

These two comments are the realest in my opinion.

I don't feel like it's very attractive either OP, don't get me wrong there are many women I'd love to smash given the chance but from past experience smashing just to smash because she's attractive leaves an empty feeling post event.

Most guys have casual sex mostly in the constant "dikk measuring contest" with other guys because that's what defines a male to them. An unpopular opinion but not fukking every day with 1000 women doesn't mean you're a "get no p*ssy loser".:yeshrug: Do you fam. Salute.
 
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Ehh... I just wanted to comment. The only woman I cared to be monogamous with cheated on me. :yeshrug::mjcry::sadcam::sadbron:
 
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