40+ Successful professional black women are getting in vitro to be "single mothers by choice"

[PortCityProphet]

ya know what sometimes you just not gonna like the muthafukkas that come into your life. you can't pick who comes into your life only who stays. you don't want to deal with or be invested in another person who ruins your peace. and you definitely don't want any ties or connections to some of these muafukkas you don't click with. so you do what you think will make you happy.

and guess what there's zero wrong with any of that.

 

[dr. pill biden]

positively demonic. God will not be mocked

bring down a curse on you and your whole bloodline just because you want a pet baby brehettes

 

[Diondon]

There's a saying down here, you picky, picky, picky until you pick shyt

 

[GilSho]

ya know what sometimes you just not gonna like the muthafukkas that come into your life. you can't pick who comes into your life only who stays. you don't want to deal with or be invested in another person who ruins your peace. and you definitely don't want any ties or connections to some of these muafukkas you don't click with. so you do what you think will make you happy.

and guess what there's zero wrong with any of that.

Facts.

Unattractive and average-looking educated BW probably have the worst options out of any demographic in the country.

They're either taking care of a broke nikka just to say they have a man or being roped along by some wannabe Kevin Samuels breh that won't settle down.

They're skipping that process and starting an unorthodox family. Who am I to judge?

 

[USMaroon]

Interesting thread, I have personal experience with this. Met a chic off a dating site as well, a nurse, and was surprised to learn during a meet n greet that she chose IVF and is a single mother. For her, yes, age was a factor as is almost in all cases and she desperately wanted to be a 'mom'. So many questions I had but you are correct. For her, it was the status guy of her dreams or single mom thru IVF. Now, here's s the sucky part. She works 12h shifts, bought (overpaid for) a home during the pandemic (made a lot of pandemic $$$$) and has a luxury car. That translates into her working some 60h weeks. The kid, 6yr old girl, spends virtually all her time/life w/the at home babysitter. Even when mom is home sometimes, she's super exhausted and has the sitter comes thru for like half a day.
On another note, she really didnt have much going on in her life. All she could ever really talked about was her job, almost endlessly. I couldnt give less of a F. She's Latina.

 

[Brolic]

I told people more of this would be happening for countless reasons why for years on this site. Hate to be right but it is what it is.

Women still have reproductive desires but are unwilling to put up with some insufferable male traits and characteristics.

Where Have All the Black Men Gone?

There's a gender imbalance in many African-American neighborhoods. Mass incarceration is largely to blame.

www.governing.com

We keep ignoring the impact of incarceration and early death in black men on the community to skip straight to the “black women only want thugs” or “black women don’t know how to choose”.
But even if every blk woman was perfect, nearly 20% would STILL be without based on just numbers.

Men’s Insufferable traits and characteristics.
Nevermind the fact that they’re most likely overweight or have unreal standards or argumentative. It’s all the man’s fault.

 

[ultraflexed]

I told people more of this would be happening for countless reasons why for years on this site. Hate to be right but it is what it is.

Women still have reproductive desires but are unwilling to put up with some insufferable male traits and characteristics. So this is what you get. Many are adopting as well and forgoing motherhood altogether.

If you can’t find a reasonable partner that you are attracted to who is relationship minded and on the same page, this is the next step.
Not to mention, there’s a legit numbers issue when it comes to blk males and females in major cities. Incarceration rates and early homicides along with systemic white supremacy are to blame there. Apparently according to National census bureau theres 88 black men for every 100 black women.

Where Have All the Black Men Gone?

There's a gender imbalance in many African-American neighborhoods. Mass incarceration is largely to blame.

www.governing.com

We keep ignoring the impact of incarceration and early death in black men on the community to skip straight to the “black women only want thugs” or “black women don’t know how to choose”.
But even if every blk woman was perfect, nearly 20% would STILL be without based on just numbers.

Your not accounting for alot of those black women are gay

 

[Wargames]

She hates me was a prophecy

 

[Dallas' 4 Eva]

Choosing to be a single parent by choice is a mental illness.

Nah it's not a mental illness... it is stupid as fukk though.

 

[Stuntone]

Black women's poor choice in men has been one of the main downfalls of the black community for decades

This really is the main problem.

When our most brilliant and brightest aren't rewarded, can't get dates and are seeing retards with swag impregnate most of the women, he has to leave.


A rocket scientist has no value to a Black Woman. He should engineer himself some swag and maybe Black Women would date him.

 

[Kyle C. Barker]

In a 1963 speech made at the University of California, Malcolm X addressed the troubling state of families in the black community. Sadly, it takes on even more relevance today. "Our young girls, our daughters, our baby sisters become unwed mothers before they are hardly out of their teens. Our community has thousands of unmarried mothers [who] have no hope of ever getting a husband. And our community has tens of thousands of little babies who have no father to act as their provider or protector," he said.

It's not 1963 breh

These aren't teen moms. The women that are choosing to go through invitro more than likely have the means to raise a kid on their own (ie be the provider).

 

[UpNext]

This happened to my auntie. She didn't get in vitro, she just purposely had a baby by a bum ass dude that already had 8 kids by 6 different women at 42 years old because she couldn't keep a dude around her for longer than 6 months.

 

[ultraflexed]

Over 50% of blackmen are childless and single

 

[NatiboyB]

I don’t understand it and I know it’s cold but I don’t understand how people don’t understand that their kids are excess baggage to a person outside of the other parent.

I have 4 kids and if I were single I would not have an issue with a woman saying she didn’t want to deal with that excess baggage. I even take accountability and can admit that.

A woman going out and rather via relationships or medical procedures gets a child to me brings down her potential dating market value no matter what it deducts from maximum points available.

 

[The Fade]

A movement called Single Mothers by Choice

Hoping these kids are raised right because in this case the women WANT the children, instead of treating them like nuisances. Hopefully this means they’re raised right instead of letting “struggle” raise them