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Women like dominant men. They're repelled by "nice guys" because you come off as a weak. Niceness doesn't create any attraction or tingles. Now of course, when these chicks fall off, get old and need someone to marry them, of course, they'll love you "nice guys" but, I'm assuming you want women now and not ten years from now :dame:Regardless of what women say (you don't ask a deer how to hunt deer), they like jerks. Now they don't like complete jerks. But they like many qualities associated with being a jerk. The aloofness, the indifference, the dominant personality, confidence, not afraid to speak his mind, not a weak pushover, is usually exciting and spontaneous, is passionate about something (i.e. he brings the woman into his world, the woman doesn't become his world), is a leader, etc.[ b] That's why I laugh when nikkas say just get your money right. There's plenty of cats making 80k but, are still weak sniveling supplicating nice guys. And they will end up marrying some used up ran through broad that doesn't even like them all that much for the stability and convenience.[/b] That thread where guys have their wives give them restrictions. That's most men's future. Right now in your current form you are not the kinda guy women dream of being with. You're the guy they settle for. And you know it. It's a tough pill to swallow but, at least you're aware of it. Now you can start improving.
know a few peeps like this :snoop:
 

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I don't care about being nice or mean..I only care about allocating my time properly and strengthening my position as a man. There's too many differing personalities in this world for me to be catering to them, dudes sacrificing their own mental stability trying to become compatible with some of these females based solely off PHYSICAL attraction or your ego took a hit cause they just ain't feeling you. Taking L's everywhere because the more you do this, the more self doubt you create the more you weaken yourself. No female should have the power to do this to any man.. Dudes need to be stronger than this and I'm classic introvert saying this.
 

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If you do nice things- to get nice things- that doesn't make you a 'nice person'.

this is dumb as hell logic :camby:

if as a woman you treat a guy nice and he dogs you out you gon be mad, and you have a reason to be :ld:

if what u said is real, then women who get dogged out by nikkas wasnt really nice girls in the first place? just acting nice to have men treat them nice? :jbhmm:
which makes us justified? :whoo::obama:
 

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TL/DR: Hypergamy gonna hypergamy brehs. Understand how it works. Being a nice guy wimp = loser in dating world. Build yourself into a high quality male. High quality women will follow. Though you might not even want marriage by then.


Women have a dual-sexual marketing strategy. That's why it's so hard to pick apart their bullshyt. Because they want two different men at different points in their lives. When they're young, they want the a$$holes and jerks. That's what you're experiencing right now. That's because their vaginas are screaming at them to submit to their genetic wiring and mate with the man who has the most dominant characteristics. When they're old, they want the softer nice guys. That's what the older guys are experiencing with women. That's because their minds are screaming at them to find a man who is reliable, dependable and has resources to care for her and her kids. Look at how older women interact with men vs. how younger women interact with men and you'll see it in play. It's all hypergamy. Just women serving their own interests at each stage of their lives. All the "nice guys aren't really nice" or "nice doesn't mean being a pushover" stuff, while it does have some real merit, is really just diffusion tactic to deflect attention away from the apparent duplicity in their sexual nature. Because if they really hated these "fake nice guys", they wouldn't turn around and try to date them 10 years later :martin: They don't hate you. They just want you to stand by and let them spend their 20s like this
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and then be there waiting at 30 to give her a wedding and a ring. The worst thing about the sexual liberation movement and it's implications on the (hypergamous) modern day dating scene isn't really the promiscuous women that it birthed but, the simptastic men that defend it like white blood cells against a disease. Even though statistically speaking, 50% of these nikkas will end up divorced, paying child support and/or alimony, and possibly raising kids that aren't theirs, they'll still defend the same feminist system that doesn't give a fukk about them. It would be funny if it wasn't so sad. You'll see alot of cats like this on this board. Male feminists and white knights. That's why I don't feel bad for none of these nikkas in horrible marriages with horrible wives because I can guarantee most of those same silly nikkas spent half their lives defending women and their actions. fukk them. Long diatribe aside. You don't want to be a jerk. Those dudes hardly amount of shyt. But you should acquire some of their characteristics because that's the raw male energy in which women are responsive. You don't want to be a nice guy either. There's nothing awaiting you with that except being a sucker and a future ATM husband for a reformed slut. There's a balance. Treat everyone with a basic level of courtesy but, stop doing favors for female attention. The goal is to be a little bit of both. Have the dominant personality and confidence but, still be a gentleman and a good person. Do that, in addition to being on point in all areas of your life. Get your body right, your career right, your mind right (formal/self education). Find your purpose or whatever it is you want to do in life, and start doing it....for real. This last part is moreso about you. Self improvement is for yourself. Once your actively following your pursuits and not women, that's always when women conveniently pop up, because women are interested in nikkas who are on a mission. Your whole entire energy is different because you're not begging to be a part of her world (like nice guys simping), you're allowing her to come into yours, and women notice the difference.
 
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Women like dominant men. They're repelled by "nice guys" because you come off as a weak. Niceness doesn't create any attraction or tingles. Now of course, when these chicks fall off, get old and need someone to marry them, of course, they'll love you "nice guys" but, I'm assuming you want women now and not ten years from now :dame:Regardless of what women say (you don't ask a deer how to hunt deer), they like jerks. Now they don't like complete jerks. But they like many qualities associated with being a jerk. The aloofness, the indifference, the dominant personality, confidence, not afraid to speak his mind, not a weak pushover, is usually exciting and spontaneous, is passionate about something (i.e. he brings the woman into his world, the woman doesn't become his world), is a leader, etc. That's why I laugh when nikkas say just get your money right. There's plenty of cats making 80k but, are still weak sniveling supplicating nice guys. And they will end up marrying some used up ran through broad that doesn't even like them all that much for the stability and convenience. That thread where guys have their wives give them restrictions. That's most men's future. Right now in your current form you are not the kinda guy women dream of being with. You're the guy they settle for. And you know it. It's a tough pill to swallow but, at least you're aware of it. Now you can start improving.

school these beta males fam :banderas:
 

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from experience,

You will get more women if you switch it up, fax. Anyone saying otherwise is lying to you.
However you might also get women that you don't want long term and cant see yourself with longterm.

I say do it, see how you like it, and then decide what you want to do after experiencing different women.

There is nothing wrong about switching up certain aspects of yourself to attract more women. :yeshrug:
 
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You can change.

I always had cynical tendencies but they grew as I got exposed to the world and realized that it is a good trait to have because people respect you and trust you more when you are skeptical - At least in NYC.

Even if your default position is cheerful without a hint of cynicism I've seen people change for the better without being bitter. They aren't guarded, but just more discerning. It is a fine balance.
 

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Savages don't make huge declarations on message boards about their evil plans. When I read the OP's post, all I could think of was...


Fo real, you can tell who's actually in here making sense and who is pretending to be an iceberg pimp on here but in reality they look like this
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Talkin bout "when you meet a new brat, spit directly into her eye and finger her ass #villainy" yea ok
 

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you can put on an award winning, johnny depp, Idris Elba acting performance in being a savage but if its not in your nature these females will catch on they not stupid. Dont try and fake someone you're not or it will blow up in your face or they'll catch on soon enough

you gotta learn to not take shyt from females while you keep your integrity. I for one learned over time to stand up for myself and fact check, prove people wrong, and question authority and that came along with me gaining self confidence thanks to the gym and learning more about life and people as I matured. Once you mature, you should do quite wellfor yourself with these brauds











however Im still in a drought right now :mjcry:
 

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nice (adj.) Look up nice at Dictionary.com
late 13c., "foolish, stupid, senseless," from Old French nice (12c.) "careless, clumsy; weak; poor, needy; simple, stupid, silly, foolish," from Latin nescius "ignorant, unaware," literally "not-knowing," from ne- "not" (see un-) + stem of scire "to know"


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We got some real losers on here .. .. No offense but teach your self how to win drop your dumb ass ideology and use common sense ... Caz other than that you will never get over this
 
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