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[JudgeJoeForilla]

I see what you were trying to do by posting this thread. You picked the guys who come across as awkward in their videos to make it seem like normal guys aren't having trouble getting women. Not to mention that you specifically chose black guys. This is a blame game thread.

 

[Prynce]

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[Prynce]

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[At30wecashout]

It's sad seeing cute guys with this mindset.

:letyasoulglow:Cinnabon you can be the hero they need.

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

Sell some dope.


Ladies love dope dealers.

 

[#SOG_soldier]

I know you trolling but that might actually true

I'm not trolling. Any nikka is gonna shoot his shots. What type of man is more scared of rejection versus beating his meat every night.

 

[CinnaSlim]

:letyasoulglow:Cinnabon you can be the hero they need.

No one wants to be with someone with that mentality. If they are like that with women, imagine what else they are like that with?

I can't get a job because no one wants me. It's always everyone else's fault never their own. They are self-defeatists, they give up before they even try.

I'd like to date someone healthy for a change.

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

I don't buy into the whole idea of men ignoring women "on their level" and having expectations that are too high. From what I've seen there are plenty of cute, decent and nice looking women that are ignoring men in favor of hoping that top quality men will approach them eventually. All women aren't like this but let's not act as if this isn't happening sometimes. It's not just the guys that are the problem.

Keeping it real, a lot of these guys really aren't putting themselves out there enough and are not improving themselves enough to get women. The dudes that we see on youtube making videos are the perfect examples of this. I place them in a league of their own since some of them are so delusional it's ridiculous. Men who have sense understand the concept of looking in the mirror and working to improve on areas that they are lacking in. Some of these youtube dudes just like to complain more than actually putting in work to change.

Patience and luck are also factors. Depending on the individual it can be really difficult to find a woman to click with and who is a good match. That's easier for some men to find than others. Some dudes are patient enough to keep looking, some take whatever they can get and some just give up. I could have settled with women that were interested in me and made it easy on myself but I just thought they were average looking so I passed up on them. I kept being patient and found interest from women that I actually think are good looking so a lot of times it is about being patient and continuing to get out there. Every body isn't going to be able to walk outside and have nice looking women pursue them off first glance. Men with nice qualities can find attractive women if they want to put in the effort to do so.

 

[Prynce]

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[Prynce]

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[AAKing23]

I wish ya'll nikkas would stop with the narrative of dudes chasing Instagram bytches and ignoring everyday women That shyt is not happening


Dudes that feel like this suffer from an intense lack of confidence and insecurities deep inside themselves, they're also very narcissistic and don't look within themselves to see what they're doing wrong

 

[MrFettuccinnePockets]

No one wants to be with someone with that mentality. If they are like that with women, imagine what else they are like that with?

I can't get a job because no one wants me. It's always everyone else's fault never their own. They are self-defeatists, they give up before they even try.

I'd like to date someone healthy for a change.

Like a dope dealer ?

 

[Killer Instinct]

- The problem is 60% a lot of young men who struggle are socially awkward and/or don't approach. You can't score if you don't shoot.



- The other 20% don't know how to escalate and build sexual tension after they've gotten the number and some interest reciprocated, so the girl gets bored and the guy texts two weeks later only to get hit with the, "who this?"
Women have short attention spans in the infant stages and if you don't know how to cultivate sexual tension and use it, you're out of luck because the other three guys she met last Friday do.


- 15% is simply due to men & women having unrealistic expectations.
She's obese but is holding out for prime LL Cool J.
She's average but only dates star athletes.
He's a 5'3, two time Panera Bread employee of the month winner and receding, but is only willing to wife up Miracle Watts.



- The final 5% are just ugly nikkas.

 

[At30wecashout]

No one wants to be with someone with that mentality.

Nah. Imagine with my connections and technical know-how and your face and my words, we can change minds and livesDo you have people? Someone my people can contact?

 

[Prynce]

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