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i'll talk about personal experience...i've been rejected a lot in my younger days, and contrary to what people tell you, rejection doesn't get easier. so now i just dread rejection and it makes me hesitate from really expressing myself to women,

Especially since competition is even more fierce now, and it's a lot harder to keep a women's attention.
 

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I think it's sad and detrimental for men (or women for that matter) to base their confidence or life success on how they fare with the opposite sex. Establishing your sense of self worth from any one other than you alone is a dangerous thing to do. Should the nerds who are accomplished academically and financially and career wise feel like they r failures in spite of all that simply because they dont do well with women.

I take pity on mean who are so preoccupied with judging themselves thru the lens of women. These men should focus on other accomplishments
Breeding and continuing your legacy/ bloodline is a basic human need....a man can act like he dont need females but its only so long fake thugs can pretend :mjcry:
 

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i get women but i have withstand a lot of games and rejection while in pursuit. women are selective. they got us by the balls
 

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Funny thing is these are the same chick who will chase fraudstars and trapstars to fund their lifestyles but look down on the average guy who make more money than them

It is what it is :manny:

As normal dudes with normal jobs, we're not gonna provide the same level of exposure as the guys faking it until they make it, even though we make more money than the large majority of them.

Can't sell a Whopper to some one that wanted a 2-piece meal and coleslaw.
 

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i'll talk about personal experience...i've been rejected a lot in my younger days, and contrary to what people tell you, rejection doesn't get easier. so now i just dread rejection and it makes me hesitate from really expressing myself to women,

Especially since competition is even more fierce now, and it's a lot harder to keep a women's attention
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pretty much what it comes down to.

i've fukked some sexy girls. wifed a couple ...but in between was a lot of rejection and flakiness
It is what it is :manny:

As normal dudes with normal jobs, we're not gonna provide the same level of exposure as the guys faking it until they make it, even though we make more money than the large majority of them.

Can't sell a Whopper to some one that wanted a 2-piece meal and coleslaw.
hows the new job been breh
 
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hows the new job been breh

It's been good man. The long hours and some woman drama (that's a story for the Quick Gems thread :lolbron:) kept me off here but I'm gonna catch up on everything I've missed now that things are winding down for the holidays.
 
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I think a lot has to do with unrealistic standards.

These guys aren't probably very self aware so they're going for women who don't match them on some level but they don't know how to peep that out. It lends to unnecessary rejection.

But also times have changed. People used to hook up because of the neighborhood, family, etc, connections. A lot of those social connections have erroded and so a lot of people remain single when they really shouldn't be.

Relying on meeting someone at a nightclub seems to be the go to for many and guys like these are built to succeed in that environment.

There's no real other place that provides for less intimidating social interaction that can lead to lasting relationships these days.

It's harder out there for single people tbh.
 

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to regularly get p*ssy...unless youre rich, famous or just got "it"...youre gonna have to reach below your standards

i've fukked 6s who swore theyre 8s or 9s because of how much attn they get from males.
 

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Let's address the trend of brehs creating fake social outreach threads to boost their own self esteem.

You know the type of thread:

Ya'll can get on my financial level if you do 3 things.

Disclaimer: I'm not rich...but im not as bummy as yall nikkas. Yall is workinh for kkkrackas and yall broke.

Or:

Yall really cant find a girl huh?

Translation: Im a loser, but im going to make fun of others who i feel are even bigger losers than i am so I can feel better about myself.


:umad:

Sh!ts transparent B
 

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According to your first post, you arent doing that well with the ladies yourself, but not as bad as the brehs on youtube that you referenced, correct?
I hope that makes you feel better about yourself. Thats my point.

I know some fat people who make fun of even fatter people than themselves. Whatever works..

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stop projecting
 

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to regularly get p*ssy...unless youre rich, famous or just got "it"...youre gonna have to reach below your standards

i've fukked 6s who swore theyre 8s or 9s because of how much attn they get from males.

I wouldn't word it that way, but most dudes who regularly hook up are dipping down a little. There's a few that are really good with women that don't, but they only seem to be on the internet.

Regardless of how much confidence or game you have, the casual sex market is heavily favored towards women. They have the option of sleeping with men more attractive to them, because there are more men trying to be promiscuous than women. There are exceptions but if you go out thinking you're gonna consistently pull chicks on your level for one night stands, it will probably be a struggle.

Now when it comes to relationships, the odds even or are favoring the men. But if we just talking about running through chicks, straight up no strings attached, guys usually go a point or two below themselves.
 
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