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[Neuromancer]

Men have to put effort into who they are and what they want to become. Self-improvement should be every man's task. I'm not sure if women have to self improve to attract men, but men have to work at everything in life and become masters of ourselves.

 

[KingTut]

:letyasoulglow:Cinnabon you can be the hero they need.

gave that boy some sideburns

 

[Pyrexcup]

A lot of dudes aren't completely comfortable with who they are as a person and women can usually detect that.

Also, chasing women that don't match up with your lifestyle is another way to get rejected a lot. If you're a 9-5 dude with an office job, the racially ambiguous chick that works at Foot Locker and wants to be the next Jhene Aiko probably ain't gonna be checking for you.

this is the average insta chick

 

[QuavoFlow]

Men have to put effort into who they are and what they want to become. Self-improvement should be every man's task. I'm not sure if women have to self improve to attract men, but men have to work at everything in life and become masters of ourselves.

true true and TRUE
when i came into the realization that i had to work on myself and improve my lifestyle if i wanted certain things

especially women

i went through a MASSIVE change and progression and im definitely happy where im at right now, and doing way better with women
i put in a lot of hard work
but i want to continue to improve

 

[Blackout]

These nikkas shooting out their league. Get you a solid 4 or 5 and cook and until your confidence gets up. I done smashed all types of ugly bytches and they made me the man I am today

I know some guys who did this.

They become a playa and all of a sudden 8s look their way

 

[EA]

this is the average insta chick

Pretty much

 

[SPACE IS FAKE]

most of these cats are victims of single mother households

 

[Pyrexcup]

Pretty much

Funny thing is these are the same chick who will chase fraudstars and trapstars to fund their lifestyles but look down on the average guy who make more money than them

 

[Art Barr]

I'm saying

Yea I know I browse IG thots but I ain't trying to get one either

Why not?


Art Barr

 

[Prynce]

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[Woman of god]

I think it's sad and detrimental for men (or women for that matter) to base their confidence or life success on how they fare with the opposite sex. Establishing your sense of self worth from any one other than you alone is a dangerous thing to do. Should the nerds who are accomplished academically and financially and career wise feel like they r failures in spite of all that simply because they dont do well with women.

I take pity on mean who are so preoccupied with judging themselves thru the lens of women. These men should focus on other accomplishments

 

[Street Knowledge]

To answer this thread, it's mostly do to not trying. A lot of young guys just keep to themselves

 

[Larry Lambo]

These nikkas shooting out their league. Get you a solid 4 or 5 and cook and until your confidence gets up. I done smashed all types of ugly bytches and they made me the man I am today

This is similar to finding your niche. I refused to go down to the physical 4-5's. But I had no problem with the 6-7 hoodrat with 2 kids. Or the 40 year old cougar.

Finding a type of girl who isn't as appealing as you would like, but at least somewhat appeals to you.

 

[Neuromancer]

I think it's sad and detrimental for men (or women for that matter) to base their confidence or life success on how they fare with the opposite sex. Establishing your sense of self worth from any one other than you alone is a dangerous thing to do. Should the nerds who are accomplished academically and financially and career wise feel like they r failures in spite of all that simply because they dont do well with women.

I take pity on mean who are so preoccupied with judging themselves thru the lens of women. These men should focus on other accomplishments

 

[Art Barr]

Because most of them not GF material and I'm not making enough to trick off on em

Great answer!



Art Barr