30+ Brehs… What’s up with these old chicks wanting babies?

[AceMan]

Let them tell it, they would rather have a pet instead

 

[cobra]

most women that have kids after 35 have perfectly healthy babies. The risk for complications are higher but it’s not a guarantee.

nah there is a exponentially higher chance of retardation above 35

look at nba players..they all have young moms
pretty much all geniuses have young mums too

Is Later Better or Worse? Association of Advanced Parental Age With Offspring Cognitive Ability Among Half a Million Young Swedish Men

 

[Ozymandeas]

Your scenario completely skips the fact that most women are not stable at 22 or even 25. Because you work off an assumption that the man should essentially function as the parent for his wife until she fully gets it together.

Your scenario also ignores the fact that most black men are not in a stable place by even their late 20’s. In this thread alone, men have agreed that many BM don’t come into their stride until their 30’s.

And you didn’t even touch on the millIons of BM currently incarcerated or recently released, with a record that hinders their earning potential.

Taking just those factors into consideration, makes the issue much harder than what you just tried to present.

I gave you the answer breh. You don’t want to listen. Other races do it everyday. How come they find their significant others in college or right after college but we can’t?

As far as the bolded, yall really just be wanting to hear yourself argue. That’s why I said girls aged 22-25 should date men aged 27-29.

 

[Ashley Banks]

nah there is a exponentially higher chance of retardation above 35

look at nba players..they all have young moms
pretty much all geniuses have young mums too

Is Later Better or Worse? Association of Advanced Parental Age With Offspring Cognitive Ability Among Half a Million Young Swedish Men

Yes higher chance, doesn’t mean it will happen. Just like older fathers pass on more genetic mutations than older mothers do, doesn’t mean they’re going to have an autistic child. Just the risk is higher. But it’s there for every age group.

 

[Ozymandeas]

It's not easy finding quality people that you are also compatible with. Some people find the love of their lives in their 30s, 40s, 50s etc

I feel you but I also think it’s an excuse. Other races finding love and marriage. So….

 

[homiedontplaydat]

Women are having kids in their 40s. And since when is 35 old?

Advanced Maternal Age | Pavilion for Women


35+ for women is deemed Advance Maternal Age, u can't argue against nature

Live ur best life ladies, but don't waste ur 20s. If u want kids have them then. You'll still have plenty of time to bounce back in ur 30s and u won't have to spend all of ur 40s raising kids

 

[Crayola Coyote]

One girl told me the reason she was 38 and childless was because she was on/off with the same dude for 15 years..She said he had 2 kids in those 15 years i looked at her like she was crazy. These bytches waste all their good years then want nikkaz to simp on them when they old and washed up.

what the hell did I just read

 

[Pimp]

what the hell did I just read

She told me he had the first baby when they broke up and the 2nd baby was when she was 37 and that's what made her move on but she still was taking the nikkaz calls so i hardly call that moving on.

 

[paperbag]

She told me he had the first baby when they broke up and the 2nd baby was when she was 37 and that's what made her move on but she still was taking the nikkaz calls so i hardly call that moving on.

I think he means you said she was childless, then you said she had 2 kids

Oops I can't read

 

[JuvenileHell]

Wanting kids is one thing but waiting around thinking you’re going to find Mr. Perfect until you’re touching 40 and then all of a sudden becoming reasonable is something else. It’s selfish and it’s automatically high risk…

I agree, teenage pregnancy is a lot less high risk and overall a better situation right fellas

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Good looking women simply think they will always have 100s of dudes chasing them. This is why so many of them are arrogant (while simultaneously being insecure af ... make it make sense).

When those numbers dwindle and the amount of guys chasing them and kissing they ass begging for some p becomes way less...... reality sets in and fear of missing out kicks in.. then it's time to lock down someone (usually some simp) who "wants me for me"

 

[the bossman]

There’s a lot of females 30+ without kids and it doesn’t mean they were hoeing.

When nikkas ain't getting the success with women they want it's easier to just think like this with a broad brush

 

[Pimp]

This how i look at them

 

[Deus]

If you live in Arkansas, Maryland, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Connecticut, Utah then sure, they cover IVF and fertility but if you not in one of these states, don't wait till you turn 35 to have a family. Treatments are expensive as fukk.

 

[blues_funk_reggae]

How old are you again? ... Uh huh ...