Hoshi_Toshi
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30+ Brehs… What’s up with these old chicks wanting babies?
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get a vasectomy and keep smashing till they give up on a baby
then dump them for not getting knocked up and move on to the next chick
When a woman wants to wait until she's stable (which obviously doesn't happen until you're a bit older) and married to have kids she's delusional. When a woman has kids before this, she's reckless and a scourge to the community. When a woman doesn't want kids, she's useless.
Make it make sense.
Make it make sense.
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From what ive seen from females 30+ that want kids (regardless if the guy is in their life or not) is mainly because they couldn’t have one with previous relationships, didn’t want one with people from previous relationships, or had one a long time ago and now want another after they were left being a single mom.
I wouldn’t mind having one with them. Cats be really on here thinking 30+ is old. Only thing is women have a countdown to give birth so they would like to attempt to have one with a solid guy. There’s a lot of females 30+ without kids and it doesn’t mean they were hoeing.
I wouldn’t mind having one with them. Cats be really on here thinking 30+ is old. Only thing is women have a countdown to give birth so they would like to attempt to have one with a solid guy. There’s a lot of females 30+ without kids and it doesn’t mean they were hoeing.
Everythingg
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Touching a nerve here huh?
The older women get the increased chance they have complications when it comes to pregnancy.. Those are biological facts.
There’s a single motherhood problem in the black community that started when feminism was introduced in the 60s/70s. And that was even further complicated with the crack epidemic/war on drugs that targeted the black community.
You idiot would you tell your daughter to wait until 45 to have a baby? Actual medical professionals smarter than you classify pregnancies after 35 as high risk pregnancies. The chances of having a mentally handicapped baby or a miscarriage goes up exponentially with age fool.
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they were whores early on and now that they are washed they want someone to seed them up. That or now that they found a man at the age they are they are fiending for a family since they couldn't fine a decent man for years.Nahhhh lil bih, you played around until you’re 35 and now you’re telling me you want KIDS… AFTER MARRIAGE
Everythingg
King-Over-Kingz
Complain about women being single moms, while simultaneously complaining that are waiting for marriage to have kids brehs.
Maybe they didn’t meet the right person yet. My girl and I are both 37 with no kids. I knew her in high school, and we reconnected. It just didn’t happen for her.
They’re not waiting for marriage to have kids
A lot of them have their fun in their prime years then when that prime is over want someone to come pay for what everyone else got for free. That’s an epidemic nowadays.
A woman’s prime comes at a different time than a mans. Take that up with nature tho not me
King
The black man is always targeted.
Nah you went too far with that one. Neg.Shorty celebrating her 40th talking bout....."I'm ready to have a little piece of me living on this earth"....
bytch u will die on the surgery table at this point...
Complain about women being single moms, while simultaneously complaining that are waiting for marriage to have kids brehs.
Maybe they didn’t meet the right person yet. My girl and I are both 37 with no kids. I knew her in high school, and we reconnected. It just didn’t happen for her.
My wife and i been knowing each other since freshman yr of high school(1993).
We had our 1st son in our mid 30s and our 2nd son a cpl yrs later
CreepyMcCreeperson
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My wife and i been knowing each other since freshman yr of high school(1993).
We had our 1st son in our mid 30s and our 2nd son a cpl yrs later
I was feeling down as hell last year with the lockdowns. I took a chance and shot my shot with my high school crush.
She still looks good.
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Societal pressure
Feeling that they are finally stable
Accomplished everything now they see rearing children as the next accomplishment
Lonely
Feelings of inadequacy
Too many variables to pinpoint one true answer
But women have to stop denying biological science isnt harsher on them as men
Yes one can argue old semen and penetration with a young healthy egg could also spell disaster
But more likely than not
That outcome will produce a healthier child than geriatric pregnancy
Plus if a woman is not papered up to receive top notch care from the very moment of conception
Overweight
Mentally unstable(stress is one way to lose a baby straight out the gate)
A true support system
Or at the very least a true donor of healthy body/mind as well
That shyt is going to be a journey
Then factor in if a woman is (ill give a three/four year window)
So if she “decides” at 45 and all those things I listed above match
That’s selfish as fukk to still have a kid that late
And I would say the same thing if it were a man
Kid is 15 when you’re 60
I don’t give a shyt how fit you think you are
You still will have mis-step and who in the fukk wants to be a parent to a teenager at 60
To conclude
People gotta stop lying out here
Being a parent is hard, arduous and requires a ton of patience
Having a baby just cause
With no preparation(no matter if you’re 18 or 45)
Will lead to more dysfunction not only in child but parental dynamics
But you can’t tell people shyt or the truth these days
So it is what it is
Feeling that they are finally stable
Accomplished everything now they see rearing children as the next accomplishment
Lonely
Feelings of inadequacy
Too many variables to pinpoint one true answer
But women have to stop denying biological science isnt harsher on them as men
Yes one can argue old semen and penetration with a young healthy egg could also spell disaster
But more likely than not
That outcome will produce a healthier child than geriatric pregnancy
Plus if a woman is not papered up to receive top notch care from the very moment of conception
Overweight
Mentally unstable(stress is one way to lose a baby straight out the gate)
A true support system
Or at the very least a true donor of healthy body/mind as well
That shyt is going to be a journey
Then factor in if a woman is (ill give a three/four year window)
So if she “decides” at 45 and all those things I listed above match
That’s selfish as fukk to still have a kid that late
And I would say the same thing if it were a man
Kid is 15 when you’re 60
I don’t give a shyt how fit you think you are
You still will have mis-step and who in the fukk wants to be a parent to a teenager at 60
To conclude
People gotta stop lying out here
Being a parent is hard, arduous and requires a ton of patience
Having a baby just cause
With no preparation(no matter if you’re 18 or 45)
Will lead to more dysfunction not only in child but parental dynamics
But you can’t tell people shyt or the truth these days
So it is what it is
the funny thing about the 'career' thing is 98% of people dont have careers they have jobs lol. It would be one thing if everyone was become Senior directors let alone executives lol. Lotta women hit their late 30s and max out in a Sr Analyst role and see it was all for nothing, especially when most folks who dont climb into leadership become risk for layoffs in their 40s.