*L*E*G*A*C*Y*
Done.
EXACTLY.
If you had a good set up elsewhere unless you were in to make a big raise in NYC there is no advantage to moving to NYC. Noone should go out of their way to aim for a lower standard of living or a tiny living space.
For me, it was opportunity.
Growing up in Pittsburgh, there's no jobs or money unless you're in healthcare, banking, business, or sports. The economy there sucks. Western PA isn't that interesting either. It's home to one of the poorest areas of the country. Seeing as how I was interested more in art, music, and fashion, I had no choice but to leave.
There are many people out there who have goals and aspirations other than being some man or woman that just has a job, makes money, pays bills, goes home, and calls it a day.
The thing I love about New York is how many people that are out there that are trying to make it for themselves. They're not content being some joe schmoe living in bumfukk USA making slightly above minimum wage. If you're a dancer, poet, artist, musician, dj, etc...you can make a living for yourself here and get an audience. If you're in finance, medicine, engineering, architecture, etc...you can make a living for yourself.
Dawg, the number one thing that killed me about living in Pittsburgh was the fact that there were so many people that just were beaten the fukk up to the point they had just given up on their dreams. And considering how low the cost of living was compared to other cities, it's damn near impossible for some people to leave and go somewhere else that they actually WANT to live in when the cost of living there is more than likely much higher. I didn't want that happening to me. I had dreams, I had goals, I had aspirations. I still do. If it does work out, then that's sweet...if it doesn't, atleast I can say I learned more myself, about people, and the world from living here and had fun doing it.
But the last thing I wanted to do was live in some shytty place and have my life devolve into nothing.
ALL of the opportunities I have fallen into here would of NEVER happened to me if I stayed in Pittsburgh.
Have you heard of an opportunity cost? I'm pretty sure you have. That's what it's about.
If there were no advantages to living here, then no one would want to live here.