27 Survivors of Sexual Assault Quoting their Attackers

Liu Kang

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No victim blaming but there are things that can be done to minimize rape. Just like any crime.
I agree in a way. It's obviously better to have a seatbelt on, airbags, good tires and good brakes to avoid dying in a car accident.

But let's be real, minimizing the causes on the victim side will never nullify them because the very problem lies in the culprit side, ie in the education of some men (let's just talk about men here) and/or in the mental disorders of few other ones (multiple studies show most rapes are not caused by strangers or lunatics but mostly by relatives). A way too large part of men see women as goods, trophies or worse as preys and that's where fighting rape begins. In booty shorts or in burkas, if a rapist wants his, he will get his.
 

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I agree somewhat, rape is about power control and opportunity.

You are correct in describing how a certain segment of men view women, but women on the otherwise have to be smarter and more aware of the types of men they interact with. 90 percent of rape victims know their rapist.




I agree in a way. It's obviously better to have a seatbelt on, airbags, good tires and good brakes to avoid dying in a car accident.

But let's be real, minimizing the causes on the victim side will never nullify them because the very problem lies in the culprit side, ie in the education of some men (let's just talk about men here) and/or in the mental disorders of few other ones (multiple studies show most rapes are not caused by strangers or lunatics but mostly by relatives). A way too large part of men see women as goods, trophies or worse as preys and that's where fighting rape begins. In booty shorts or in burkas, if a rapist wants his, he will get his.
 

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I agree somewhat, rape is about power control and opportunity.

You are correct in describing how a certain segment of men view women, but women on the otherwise have to be smarter and more aware of the types of men they interact with. 90 percent of rape victims know their rapist.

Know their rapist relatively well, which is exactly why changing their behavior would be of little use- high or low risk situations can't be calculated when the person already has your trust.
 

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A lot of women are sexually abused. I'd say about 40% of the women I meet have been sexually abused in some manner. The world we live in.
 

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This place is a cesspool. When are you all going to realize and accept that? And some of the blame lays at your feet because you all ha-ha and hee-hee at topics that are trolled that you don't care about (race, gender, etc.) but when it hits close to home you want to be outraged. My thing is that you all encourage trolling and a near wild wild west attitude. When you embolden trolls they are going to keep doing it. They're trolls so why do you think they'll stop at rape? :dahell:

Unless the reports have been closed I only have two reports up, and none from this thread. We do handle valid complaints. You all need to report offensive content so we don't need to scroll through 200 replies to try to figure out what post offended whom. Honestly, many of you all need to stop encouraging or actually participating in trolling. It's a cycle, you get me, I'll get you. Then topics like this get trolled. Any outsider viewing this forum is probably disgusted with it.
 

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Know their rapist relatively well, which is exactly why changing their behavior would be of little use- high or low risk situations can't be calculated when the person already has your trust.
Yup.
Some predators are good with making their victims trust them. It's part of their game.
 

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With sexual abuse so prevalent among young boys and girls it boggles the mind that adults in a position of authority don't take such accusations more seriously. :mindblown: That's why you have children that have been molested and raped for over a decade. Pedophiles and rapists should be exempt from the no cruel and unusual punishment bullshyt. The only thing is that rapes, sexual assaults and molestation would have to be more thoroughly investigated so the wrong person doesn't get drawn and quartered. On the flip side if a woman files a false rape claim she should pay restitution via a lifetime of hard labor.
 

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This place is a cesspool. When are you all going to realize and accept that? And some of the blame lays at your feet because you all ha-ha and hee-hee at topics that are trolled that you don't care about (race, gender, etc.) but when it hits close to home you want to be outraged. My thing is that you all encourage trolling and a near wild wild west attitude. When you embolden trolls they are going to keep doing it. They're trolls so why do you think they'll stop at rape? :dahell:

Unless the reports have been closed I only have two reports up, and none from this thread. We do handle valid complaints. You all need to report offensive content so we don't need to scroll through 200 replies to try to figure out what post offended whom. Honestly, many of you all need to stop encouraging or actually participating in trolling. It's a cycle, you get me, I'll get you. Then topics like this get trolled. Any outsider viewing this forum is probably disgusted with it.

no one reported
 

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A lot of women are sexually abused. I'd say about 40% of the women I meet have been sexually abused in some manner. The world we live in.


i actually found out a few days ago that the only girl whose been honest with me in the amount of men she slept with was abused, i alwas wondered why her number was so high and now i know.

i have two nieces and i already told their mom (my sister), if they are ever abused or molested, let me know as I'm willing to do the 25 years for first degree murder
 

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With sexual abuse so prevalent among young boys and girls it boggles the mind that adults in a position of authority don't take such accusations more seriously. :mindblown: That's why you have children that have been molested and raped for over a decade. Pedophiles and rapists should be exempt from the no cruel and unusual punishment bullshyt. The only thing is that rapes, sexual assaults and molestation would have to be more thoroughly investigated so the wrong person doesn't get drawn and quartered. On the flip side if a woman files a false rape claim she should pay restitution via a lifetime of hard labor.


Many people believe that person "could not do it", like i said earlier in this thread I dated a girlw ho was raped by her step dad for like 5 years, she even told her mom during that time but her mom didn't believe her. Even to this day her mom is still with the dude. That's the thing about pedos and rapists they rarely fit a general description, they can be a dingy poor dude living under a bridge, the starting qb for a college team, the pastor, the mailman, the ceo, the politican , rich old dude, poor young man, you never know.
 

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People should feel just as bad for the dudes in prison getting raped. That shyt be getting downplayed by society
 
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