10 hours of walking in NYC as a woman

[Malikthegod]

I can see how this can be uncomfortable for a woman, especially the dudes who kept following her. Most people get on guard when a stranger approaches them in public. Think about how you feel when a bum comes up to you trying to spark a convo, or someone is trying to get you to buy something. Dudes are going to shoot their shot though, it's been that way since the beginning of time. I don't think for the average breh you are going to get a lot of cooperation with this approach anyway.

But if Brad Pitt said the same shyt these females would be throwing that harassment talk out the window

But if you're a female just ignore them if you ain't feeling it, not that difficult.


Being super thirsty is never a good look, though.

 

[September]

And when mostly average guys approach you, what does that say about yourself?

I never claimed I was a dime breh. I'm an average girl, with an average, non-special body. In the grand scheme of physical features, there's nothing striking about me. I'm still cute tho. So with this question, what was your point?

 

[Wild self]

and so we should change our natural instinct and implement laws because of some mentally scarred women? huh?

what next. someone gets into a car accident, theyre terrified of traffic, so we should make a special lane for them, with rubber guards , like bumper cars. no.

rabbits complaining about foxes hunting them......not going to change natural law. we are programmed to look. some men are more vocal than others. I never had to cat call or play numbers game, but I understand it. not everyone is physically attractive and some people gotta get it how they get it.

other than brazil.....places where legalized prostitution and whore houses are around, dont seem to have this problem I noticed, and thats cause the male population have a place to blow off steam..........

$100 says japanese women would love the attention the NYC chicks are getting because god damn japanese men are damn near asexual. they literally dont marry and dont give a shyt about fukking. I dont know if its because of the 'japanese bar' culture or what. but japanese women are DYING for male attention. They actually have male-whore houses for women cause the men aint fukking with them LOL

Places like Holland are notorious for the men having no claws due to the whore housing culture. maybe we should have that. fukk beating the buzzer at the club, I can just hit up the massage parlor after, you aint special

I been saying this that sexually frustrated men have no real outlet in America. If more men were sexually satisfied by less stuck up women, or even whore houses, men wouldn't give 2 fukks about these hoes that scream "street harassment

 

[Wild self]

i thought the dating ratios were supposed to be favorable for men in NYC. is that a myth. why yall so fukkkin pathetic

Too many dudes and too much money make women feel entitled. Go to ATL in the summer time and you will feast if you a clean cut dude with a nice ride.

 

[Desirous]

Of course this girl decided to spend most of the walk in predominantly minority neighborhoods to show off how these "savage" and rude black and spanish men are.

Because it's not like white people ever stare or catcall

Of course white men do it as well. This is normal, acceptable behaviour in Italy, for example. I was on a crowded train in Rome and had my ass grabbed...and I was just there for 2 days...so imagine if I was living there. I mean, it can obviously happen anywhere, but it's not uncommon or looked at as a negative there.

 

[Wild self]

you have no control over what a person chooses to say

She want to be Fidel Castro and kill anyone that uses free speech

 

[Wild self]

I never claimed I was a dime breh. I'm an average girl, with an average, non-special body. In the grand scheme of physical features, there's nothing striking about me. I'm still cute tho. So with this question, what was your point?

My point is that average women with bad attitudes don't deserve their Denzel or whatever model that they lust for. They have to settle for less, like the street catcalling dudes. Average women demand far beyond their league in this country. That includes you, too.

 

[kaldurahm]

Women are strange, strange creatures. That's why I've never done cold approaches, never will. Unless you're hanging out of the side of a Maybach with 100 racks in between your teeth even holding the door for a woman is tantamount to rape these days. I get women deal with harassment on a level the average man will never understand. But you trivialize the numerous real issues with bullshyt like street harassment. Of course the root of this issue lies at the doorstep of the most coddled, annoying, and needs to be hit with a cinderblock in the face demographic in America; the entitled hipster white woman. And all too willing to join in are "black feminists" used as nothing more than a mere pet to make sure black males are reminded of how dangerous they are to everyone.

"See, see, your own "SISTAS" think you're dangerous! "

Meanwhile these same CACs black women share these hashtags with look at them like hair hatted subhumans.

Pretty much. You explained my thoughts better than i could. I acknowledge that women receive this harassment and how annooying it would be. At the same time, if laws do get put in place we know black men are going to be the primary targets. It would be another liability.

Some people can't see this though, and this is why i'm telling coli brehs that this aint worth it man.

Fuk it man, just go about your day. Lets not get into trouble for this bs

 

[Wild self]

I don't live in NYC, and I don't think street harassment is limited to NYC. I've gotten the hang of voicing my discomfort well, but the 16-21 year old me certainly didn't.
I've mentioned on here before that some of the police and other law enforcement I have come across initiate creepiness themselves and don't stop when I say that I already have a dude. They then ask if they can be put on a reserve list or still "be friends".

One of the top things I miss when my dude moved to another city is being able to grocery shop without being bugged. When he was with me, I could get shopping done without any worry. Now that he is gone, I will get stopped several times in the store by creepers, have to be polite and clear with my responses, decline politely so that I don't get attacked, decline again because they don't get the hint or are aggressive, and then hope to avoid them in the parking lot- only to get harassed there as well by someone else and then worry on my drive home to see if they are following me.

Serious, as mature as I am, you have any large assets visible? a cute ass face? What makes men go that far with you?

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

You know what's funny, there was a story about a chick who posted her sad, sad tale of not getting ANY attention when she went out to the club and it went VIRAL and women were all like "Awwwwwwww me too girl." And those loser men who have to soak up the tears of every "wronged" woman on the internet were saying "it's not right how people treated you." Same dudes who would call for the execution of someone for street harassment by the way. Damn fukkers, is it oochie wally wally or is it one mic?

 

[Remote]

Of course white men do it as well. This is normal, acceptable behaviour in Italy, for example. I was on a crowded train in Rome and had my ass grabbed...and I was just there for 2 days...so imagine if I was living there. I mean, it can obviously happen anywhere, but it's not uncommon or looked at as a negative there.

It comes down to a few things....

1. Absolutely street harassment exists, and women are right to speak up about it.
2. I don't like that this woman walked around minority neighborhoods to showcase street harassment. As if this never happens in Williamsburg or Astoria. I'm not saying it was some deliberate racist attempt but it sure raised questions.
3. This woman walked around NYC for 10 hours and basically ran into 2 creeps. Two out of who knows how many thousands of New Yorkers that day? I hardly think if I ran into 2 a$$holes out of 7 million people, that it would qualify is a pandemic or something.
4. The point about women wanting to set the parameters for everything stands. I get that we men have to jump through hoops on a lot of that shyt, but at some point it gets ridiculous.

And I realize my language in some of these posts is a bit aggressive and trolling, but there's just one big blurry ass line as to what is considered "harassment" when it comes to dealing with women sometimes.

 

[September]

My point is that average women with bad attitudes don't deserve their Denzel or whatever model that they lust for. They have to settle for less, like the street catcalling dudes. Average women demand far beyond their league in this country. That includes you, too.

My man, what the fukk are you even talking about? Who's talking about anyone deserving anything or settling for anything? How does that have anything to do with the topic at hand?

 

[Wild self]

by your logic women feel unsafe just going outside my nikka, even without words just because their are bigger more powerful beings out there. women go around jittery as they strut to the local starbucks. is that the case? no its not. they feel unsafe going to the club too now?

please.

Watch how the ladies ignore it.

 

[Rarely-Wrong Liggins]

I work at a fukking airport and I never see the type of human interaction these women are describing on here. I still ride the fukking Metro bus sometimes and I don't see this much interaction. If it's not the club I'm not seeing it. Hell, I don't even see it that much at the club these days. I call bullshyt on SOME of these stories.

 

[Wild self]

It comes down to a few things....

1. Absolutely street harassment exists, and women are right to speak up about it.
2. I don't like that this woman walked around minority neighborhoods to showcase street harassment. As if this never happens in Williamsburg or Astoria. I'm not saying it was some deliberate racist attempt but it sure raised questions.
3. This woman walked around NYC for 10 hours and basically ran into 2 creeps. Two out of who knows how many thousands of New Yorkers that day? I hardly think if I ran into 2 a$$holes out of 7 million people, that it would qualify is a pandemic or something.
4. The point about women wanting to set the parameters for everything stands. I get that we men have to jump through hoops on a lot of that shyt, but at some point it gets ridiculous.

And I realize my language in some of these posts is a bit aggressive and trolling, but there's just one big blurry ass line as to what is considered "harassment" when it comes to dealing with women sometimes.

Its propaganda, bottomline. I hardly see white males get targeted for this shyt.

My man, what the fukk are you even talking about? Who's talking about anyone deserving anything or settling for anything? How does that have anything to do with the topic at hand?

That men holla at your average self and you getting mad at it.