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I work in entertainment/tech I’ve started in 2022 at the end of the pandemic. As soon as I started I noticed there was a weird dynamic in the office and my department was kinda looked down upon and the guy that I ws supposed to be working with as a junior ended up having a bike accident and was out for almost a year. So I’m there trying to figure shyt out and they send a woman that used to have my position to tech me the ropes but I noticed she’s kinda bytchy doesn’t give a fukk about training me. A few weeks later, she come back and is trying to intimidate me and trying to say my job is shyt, I go to HR and a day later she gives me a bullshyt apology. Fast forward to a year later I’m the lead in the department and the dude that had the bike accident come back and work under me, we get along fine and he’s ok with it. Few months later they hire this white woman that works for another department but they want us to work together to facilitate things between departments and we ended up getting cool real quick and worked very collaboratively and getting a lot of shyt done. For a few months she’s been unhappy because her manager is incompetent and doesn’t really give her responsibilities and is always fukking with her and blaming her for her mistakes. She’s be threatening to quit a few times and I always talk her out of it. Fast forward to this week, we’re both working on a big project and right before it’s ready to leave I noticed she removed something that hat I prepared that was for a big client and went I confronted her about she star saying “I removed it because I needed it. Next day I come to the office still mad about what happened and talk to my manager and HR about it and she’s been playing victim and crying in the office about it and I noticed some of the women are giving me the side eye
I work in entertainment/tech I’ve started in 2022 at the end of the pandemic. As soon as I started I noticed there was a weird dynamic in the office and my department was kinda looked down upon and the guy that I ws supposed to be working with as a junior ended up having a bike accident and was out for almost a year. So I’m there trying to figure shyt out and they send a woman that used to have my position to tech me the ropes but I noticed she’s kinda bytchy doesn’t give a fukk about training me. A few weeks later, she come back and is trying to intimidate me and trying to say my job is shyt, I go to HR and a day later she gives me a bullshyt apology. Fast forward to a year later I’m the lead in the department and the dude that had the bike accident come back and work under me, we get along fine and he’s ok with it. Few months later they hire this white woman that works for another department but they want us to work together to facilitate things between departments and we ended up getting cool real quick and worked very collaboratively and getting a lot of shyt done. For a few months she’s been unhappy because her manager is incompetent and doesn’t really give her responsibilities and is always fukking with her and blaming her for her mistakes. She’s be threatening to quit a few times and I always talk her out of it. Fast forward to this week, we’re both working on a big project and right before it’s ready to leave I noticed she removed something that hat I prepared that was for a big client and went I confronted her about she star saying “I removed it because I needed it. Next day I come to the office still mad about what happened and talk to my manager and HR about it and she’s been playing victim and crying in the office about it and I noticed some of the women are giving me the side eye
