You’re single until a man marries you! Date em all sis

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Thats a seperate point. Current, former, reformed, backsliding hoes have no problem getting wifed. How it affects those men doesnt change the fact that it happens. And again, this is my interpretation I could be wrong, we aint even talking about a chick smashing all these dudes anyway so its not even relevant.

Not with men they really want which why they cheat.
 

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Dating multiple people is the issue. You would willingly date a woman knowing she got another date lined up later that day? Then another nikka taking her out to ice cream?? And the last dude smashing Friday night? Nah B, I can't get with that.:scust:What the hell is even the endgame if you're interested but she out with another man?



That's clown shyt. If a woman ain't showing me interest first I ain't wasting my time. Luckily all the women I met showed me interest so I ain't have to compete.:wow::mjlol:

The average person in the modern Social Media area is going to be "Dating" multiple people, it is what it is.

Even before social media, I "Dated/Entertained" multiple Woman, when I found one that I saw potential in, I committed to her (Boyfriend,Girlfriend)(left the others alone).

If overtime the Chick showed she wasn't "The One", then to the bushes she went.

When I found "The One", She went from my Girlfriend, to my Fiance, then to my Wife.

I'm happily married and don't have these issues.
 

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The average person in the modern Social Media area is going to be "Dating" multiple people, it is what it is.

Even before social media, I "Dated/Entertained" multiple Woman, when I found one that I saw potential in, I committed to her (Boyfriend,Girlfriend)(left the others alone).

If overtime the Chick showed she wasn't "The One", then to the bushes she went.

When I found "The One", She went from my Girlfriend, to my Fiance, then to my Wife.

I'm happily married and don't have these issues.

I have no problem with women dating, but several dates a week lined up is a major red flag for me. These women want you to be a court jester.


But as I said earlier, I never had to compete. If you an ugly or average dude I guess it's tough luck out here.
 

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Breh,

In relationships there are three primary "Commitments".

1. Boyfriend, Girlfriend (Exclusive)
2. Fiance (Marriage Plans) (Exclusive)
3. Husband, Wife (Exclusive)

The Dude in the video makes it seem, like the average Woman, can just skip #1, and "The Right Man" is going to look past the fact the Broad couldn't even meet Step #1, and just propose to her.

It's Delusional SILLY SHYT, it is the EXCEPTION, Not The Rule.

I'm not sure if you don't "get" the point, or just be a contrarian.
Dating is before #1 right? You can date multiple people before being in a relationship with just 1 right? Yall can establish an understanding that yall will be moving through 1-3 pretty quickly and that marriage is the goal rather than being in 1 for a decade plus and multiple kids and no marriage in sight right?
 

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I have no problem with women dating, but several dates a week lined up is a major red flag for me. These women want you to be a court jester.


But as I said earlier, I never had to compete. If you an ugly or average dude I guess it's tough luck out here.

I get you Breh.

I'm not "Ugly Gang", Broads Choose, I'm used to it.
 

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Dating is before #1 right? You can date multiple people before being in a relationship with just 1 right? Yall can establish an understanding that yall will be moving through 1-3 pretty quickly and that marriage is the goal rather than being in 1 for a decade plus and multiple kids and no marriage in sight right?

There is "Casual" Dating, and there is "Committed" dating, where you are a Couple.

With the basic understanding that you two are Exclusive (Boyfriend, Girlfriend).

Different people do different things.

My initial point, is that the Average Dude isn't going to turn some Broad into his Fiance, if She can't even
commit to being his Exclusive Girlfriend first.

Will you find someone who defies the "Rule"? Sure but it isn't the "Average".

And back to the original point, Dude in the video is just peddling some Bullshyt, which he already knows is some Bullshyt, SMH!
 

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There is "Casual" Dating, and there is "Committed" dating, where you are a Couple.

With the basic understanding that you two are Exclusive (Boyfriend, Girlfriend).

Different people do different things.

My initial point, is that the Average Dude isn't going to turn some Broad into his Fiance, if She can't even
commit to being his Exclusive Girlfriend first.


Will you find someone who defies the "Rule"? Sure but it isn't the "Average".

And back to the original point, Dude in the video is just peddling some Bullshyt, which he already knows is some Bullshyt, SMH!


She will be exclusive if the dude asks to be exclusive.:troll: It's not like she'll say no which means Dude wasted all his time.:troll:
 

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There is "Casual" Dating, and there is "Committed" dating, where you are a Couple.

With the basic understanding that you two are Exclusive (Boyfriend, Girlfriend).

Different people do different things.

My initial point, is that the Average Dude isn't going to turn some Broad into his Fiance, if She can't even
commit to being his Exclusive Girlfriend first.

Will you find someone who defies the "Rule"? Sure but it isn't the "Average".

And back to the original point, Dude in the video is just peddling some Bullshyt, which he already knows is some Bullshyt, SMH!
May just be me and semantics but I feel "dating" is overused. If yall getting together to fukk and dont go outside you not dating...yall fukkin around. If yall in a committed relationship that aint dating, its a relationship. I didnt interpret it as him saying date other nikkas after you made a commitment. I took it as dont even commit unless you know he is on marriage trajectory...if marriage is what you want that is. I didnt take it as literally dont be exclusive before he proposes but hey like I said I cant speak for him.

Was it perfect? No. Can holes be poked in it? Sure. But I think the overall message of "if you want marriage dont accept anything less and keep your options in dating open until you find somebody on the same type of time" is much better than the "just fukk and see what happens or post up for years doing everything but actually getting married" that the average person engages in...again if marriage is your goal.
 
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