Young Men Giving Up On Marriage, Because "Women Aren't Women Anymore."

[NobodyReally]

No - what I know is that marriages have advantages.
If they didn’t, nobody would ever get married.

An assumption I will concede is this: marriages are as “healthy” as the people in them.



You’re giving a lot of personal information in here for somebody who claims their initial question was not based on personal circumstance...

First you said my perspective had to be personal, now I'm conceding it is but it is in fact related to my experience with a two parent home. You're not really addressing the equity issue either way though. Whether this is personal or not, the point is that working 40+ hours a week only to have to come home to cook, clean, and be the primary child care person isn't appealing to a lot of women anymore.

 

[Taadow]

First you said my perspective had to be personal, now I'm conceding it is but it is in fact related to my experience with a two parent home.

So you lied. Gotcha.

You're not really addressing the equity issue either way though.

Whoever said marriages were (or had to be) equal?

Whether this is personal or not, the point is that working 40+ hours a week only to have to come home to cook, clean, and be the primary child care person isn't appealing to a lot of women anymore.

A) No - the actual point was you asking if there were any advantages at all for women to get married.

B) If a woman has a child and isn’t married (which is a growing demographic, to borrow a phrase you’ve been using a lot in here), she’s going to do all that stuff that isn’t appealing anyway - and on top, she won’t have anyone who wants to help her...

C) You don’t know this, but there are many men who can relate. They don’t wanna work 40+ hours a week then come home to cook, clean, and be the primary child care person - but they’re doing it anyway because their wives (like these women you speak of) decide they don’t wanna do those things that “don’t appeal” to them. So because they have to be done, men will do them.

 

[Robo Squirrel]

bingo..

90s came around and it was women yelling “ I DONT NEED A MAN” and that trickle down to their daughters of today that now include the women yelling “ I’m a boss bytch who need a nikka making boss moves”

 

[Mowgli]

Yeah, I'm 24 and honestly see no reason to get married and especially have kids with women in my age range (really generation)

A coworker of mine's 38 and watches those red pill videos all the time, he's always telling us how he wants a submissive wife, I ask him the benefits and he just says: cooking, cleaning, sex and someone that takes care of his checkbook

You can do three of things yourself and/or hire ppl for all four



I don't want to be responsible for a woman who was irresponsible before circumstance had her acting right

Don't worry we'll probably be washed or dead by the time that happens

 

[Cereal_Bowl_Assassin]

bingo..

90s came around and it was women yelling “ I DONT NEED A MAN” and that trickle down to their daughters of today that now include the women yelling “ I’m a boss bytch who need a nikka making boss moves”

That entire phrase is such a turn off...women with that mentality get into relationships acting like Gordon Ramsey...what good is there in being a boss when you can't even keep a employee

 

[360dagod]

bingo..

90s came around and it was women yelling “ I DONT NEED A MAN” and that trickle down to their daughters of today that now include the women yelling “ I’m a boss bytch who need a nikka making boss moves”

A boss bytch making minimum wage at that

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Cant relate. Me and my Black wife been rockin' 12+ yrs

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Men struggle because the type of broad we can pull for marriage is objectively better than the type of broad we can pull for casual shyt.

Women have the opposite problem. When everything is light and casual, a 6 broad can smash a 9 breh damn near everyday of the week.

So....women get used to "driving" an McLaren 720 and don't wanna settle for the Hyundai Genesis.

Brehs get that commitment upgrade but lack the experience dealing with women that have had brehs with more money, clout, better dikk etc. She's not happy downgrading and he is a fish out of water.

Women are more financially successful now so $$$ isn't as much of a motivator. Men take longer to hit their stride so once a breh gets his act together, he doesn't wanna settle down. People exclusively look at the downside of marriage and not the upside.

Funny thing is....the upper middle and upper class STILL get married. Educated folks do too. Celebrities are different but non famous well-off people haven't changed. Easiest way to build wealth and strong families. Regular-degular folks not getting married is a regular-degular people problem. No matter how much you're balling solo, you can ball EVEN MORE with a well-paid spouse.

Staying single longer can be problematic because you become accustomed to being solo and uncompromising. Sometimes compromise is good because you learn things about yourself and grow. Always doing EVERYTHING your way limits your growth as a person and makes it harder for you to connect with others.

Best believe other races are still getting married and building together even if they cohabitate for years before actually tying the knot. This anti-marriage shyt is a slick way of tearing down black money. White boys will cry all that redpill shyt but they WILL get married, even if it's to Soo Yung.

 

[filial_piety]

This is white guy shyt. The hatred towards men part ain't coming from black women (And one or two LSA post or tweets don't change that)

Man this did not age well at all

 

[Doobie Doo]

Man this did not age well at all

It aged perfectly fine when you log off the internet and actually live life. I literally posted yesterday how I'm bagging younger more cooperative women today

 

[the bossman]

Men struggle because the type of broad we can pull for marriage is objectively better than the type of broad we can pull for casual shyt.

Women have the opposite problem. When everything is light and casual, a 6 broad can smash a 9 breh damn near everyday of the week.

So....women get used to "driving" an McLaren 720 and don't wanna settle for the Hyundai Genesis.

Brehs get that commitment upgrade but lack the experience dealing with women that have had brehs with more money, clout, better dikk etc. She's not happy downgrading and he is a fish out of water.

Women are more financially successful now so $$$ isn't as much of a motivator. Men take longer to hit their stride so once a breh gets his act together, he doesn't wanna settle down. People exclusively look at the downside of marriage and not the upside.

Funny thing is....the upper middle and upper class STILL get married. Educated folks do too. Celebrities are different but non famous well-off people haven't changed. Easiest way to build wealth and strong families. Regular-degular folks not getting married is a regular-degular people problem. No matter how much you're balling solo, you can ball EVEN MORE with a well-paid spouse.

Staying single longer can be problematic because you become accustomed to being solo and uncompromising. Sometimes compromise is good because you learn things about yourself and grow. Always doing EVERYTHING your way limits your growth as a person and makes it harder for you to connect with others.

Best believe other races are still getting married and building together even if they cohabitate for years before actually tying the knot. This anti-marriage shyt is a slick way of tearing down black money. White boys will cry all that redpill shyt but they WILL get married, even if it's to Soo Yung.

you hit a lot of points here but this bolded part was really key. When you look actually break down the numbers it seems like only lower and middle class are buying into the anti-marriage rhetoric

 

[filial_piety]

It aged perfectly fine when you log off the internet and actually live life. I literally posted yesterday how I'm bagging younger more cooperative women today

nikkas still in denial…so what else is new

 

[Doobie Doo]

nikkas still in denial…so what else is new

What exactly am I in denial about? Nikkas like you judge all black women based off the bytches on Twitter

 

[killacal]

You don’t know because your mothers and grandmothers didn’t know

She bodying herself in this thread

 

[Elim Garak]

The world is far smaller now most people aren't going to be happy settling down when you can literally access people from every corner of the globe. Unless you are going to destroy the last 20 years of technological advancement that's not changing.